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What do women really want from RHP?
July 25 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Personally, if I met your requirements and you were to contact me, I would notice you were a forum poster on your profile, read your comments and subsequently run a mile. In my humble opinion you both sound like your filled with frustration and resentment, not men I'd like to be around (not suggesting in any way you'd want to be around me either.) I judge people by how they speak of their eyes. My ex's ex-girlfriend sued him for half his money shortly after we met, yet he never called her a name. One of the things that attracted me to him.
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RHP User
11 years ago
How they speak of their exes, not eyes.
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Hottie1
11 years ago
The suspense is killing me gorgeous... Mary XX PS: Your strategy worked ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Myself & Meagain7 are the same, we only speak that way because we were "burnt at the stake" by women that we once loved, respected & dedicated our lives to. We both adore women & neither of us bare grudges against all other women, they should set up a self help & advice line for women in that situation so as to avoid the pitfalls of "Wolf Solicitors" & friends that are bad advisors. My Ex was always a "follower", for many yrs I tried to get her to make her own decisions & to try & think out the consequences, but she wouldn't. My Mum used to tell me that she didn't want to take me court, solicitors, by law can only do what you agree to. As for women reading my profile, if they read all my posts they would be able to make fair judgement, however on here it seems ladies very rarely get past the viewing of "pic's" stage & make their judgement then. As I said, I don't hate women or humanity, exactly the opposite and if anybody likes to look @ all the facts & still find me "guilty as charged" well so be it. P.L.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I hear you and definitely understand your side. I was talking more about general life and less on 'rhp women wants' though it's still more tricky for guys I think... imo women usually always have the upper hand when its sexual ;) not that theres anything wrong with that. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Burnt once, is that all..... When I left my Ex, I left with the kids and our cloths. I gave him everything, our family home, car, all the materialistic crap, but as much as he want to destroy me, I didn't let him. I then started for scratch again a few years later. Do I particularly like either of these men? No not really, I don't have any kind of feelings for them, they are now just part of my story...... It was a small price to pay to be out of hell..... Honestly you can't let it define who you are and the happiness you are yet to experience. Most of us have been fucked over once in our lives, that is just how it is. My story, which is sad, brutal, scary, yet it's beautiful. Because I decided not to live in the past, I forgave those who tried to destroy me, thanked those same people for having an influence in making me who I am today and moved forward.....💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28' Burnt once, is that all..... When I left my Ex, I left with the kids and our cloths. I gave him everything, our family home, car, all the materialistic crap, but as much as he want to destroy me, I didn't let him. I then started for scratch again a few years later. Do I particularly like either of these men? No not really, I don't have any kind of feelings for them, they are now just part of my story...... It was a small price to pay to be out of hell..... Honestly you can't let it define who you are and the happiness you are yet to experience. Most of us have been fucked over once in our lives, that is just how it is. My story, which is sad, brutal, scary, yet it's beautiful. Because I decided not to live in the past, I forgave those who tried to destroy me, thanked those same people for having an influence in making me who I am today and moved forward.....💋 .....and good for you.That's what everyone should always do - move forward and don't look in the rear view mirror.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I feel for you, it sounds as though you were brutalised physically & mentally & made the right decision, particually for your kids, but also for yourself. I am totally against this type of behaviour, 1 of the things my Ex & I couldn't agree on when attempting to stay together was she wanted me to "buddies" with her brother. He has bashed at least 4 women in his life & often had up to 3 on the go at once. I refused to associate with him. It's funny, he is 6" taller than me & at least 30kgs heavier, but has never come near me to defend her. I am moving forward and yes I'm going to live the rest of my life having fun & doing the things I want to do, with ppl that want to be with me. Good Luck. P.L.
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Now it wasn't my intention to share a small part of my story with you, as so you would sympathise with me. I have no regrets in anything I've done or haven't done in my life, I don't blame anyone else for it, because I made the choices I made, at some point I did exactly what I wanted to do and there are so many people out there that are so much worse off. I'm trying to say, don't let it hold you back from finding what's out there for you now. Move on, move forward, except what's happened, why it happened and get on with it.... Regret, anger, blame, are wasted emotions and take a shit load of energy. All these things destroy a person from the inside out, it's a slow way to torture yourself...... Men and women get fucked over daily, they either 1. let it ruin them 2. they pick themselves up and get on with it, you and only you have the power and ability to help yourself......
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes I got the meaning of your msg, I was just showing that I do have a heart and understand that these problems come from both sides of a relationship. I certainly am no Angel, & don't want to be, I know most ppl on here don't think I'm moving on, but I am, I've lose 13.5KG's, I'm taking positive moves to improve aspects of my health, I'm eating way more healthy that I have in yrs, & the Dr has given me the big . All I need now is a nice FWB lady to spend time with on a regular basis, part of my plan is to travel country Vic & meet ppl for fun times. She tried to ruin me, but failed there as well. Cheers P.L.
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RHP User
11 years ago
MTV makes me wanna smoke crackFall out of the window and i'm never comin' back
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RHP User
11 years ago
Getting back a bit closer to the original topic, what keeps jangling in my head is something I learnt in manners 101 way back when. "I want doesn't get."
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