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Rough sex
July 25 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
I was once with a lass who liked the whole rough sex thing, particularly choking. First time we met things were getting fairly heated and in the midst of all that I slapped her in the face, i felt terrible doing so! But the strange thing is she didn't mind at all and we met again a week or so later. Enjoy rough sex to an extend where there is still intimacy and passion. Will never go that far again
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RHP User
9 years ago
Erotictouch, I am not obsessive about horoscopes and don't believe it completely, but I once read a commentary about the females of my horoscope being generally strong-headed and stubborn and deep inside, we really want a man to have the gumption to stand up against us because that shows that he is stronger and hence superior. So very very true! And we love stronger and superior men otherwise, our minds switch off and it doesn't make us too excited and the horniness is toned down from lack of complete enthusiasm and fascination for the guy. It ties in with the concept of taming of the shrew, to borrow from Shakespeare. I'm only going to allow a man who is masculine and powerful to tame me. Only lions need apply... I've already got a pussy and don't need another pussy cat. :-P Slow, sensual sex has got its place but tbh, if I do not love the man or if I am not highly attracted to him, then that kind of sex is out of place and I'm seriously uncomfortable with it. I reserve that category of sex for the context of love, not lust. I don't intend to blur the lines there. I'll reserve that kind of sex for the special man in my life - a kind of exclusive right thing. Did we want it fast, immediate and throwaway? Fast and immediate sounds like spontaneous quickies, which can be exciting as the two of you conspire to share forbidden pleasures in lustful urgency, why not? All dressed up for work, spot each other and in a flash, both get overcome by sheer unrestrained lust. Both end up fumbling and fucking quickly without messing up the hair, the makeup, the office attire, and then both quickly pat down clothes, hair, etc to look decent for work once more. For the rest of the day, the nipples remain perky and pussy remains wet and you can kinda smell the sex lingering on your clothes and you can't wipe that Cheshire cat grin off your face. What's not to like about quickies? :-D As for throw-away... Nope, hate that. A man who fucks you and dumps you unceremoniously, hate that to the nth degree. Pretty despicable behaviour and extremely disrespectful. Their mums probably never taught them how to be a gentleman. You might have made an unfortunate and very wrong link between rough sex and the throw away attitude. I might want a man to flex his muscles, grip me tight whilst I (pretend to) struggle and I might love it hard and lustful, but I don't want any choking nor face slapping nor boobies slapping. I want to be made to submit to an alpha male, but I draw the line at abusive and demeaning intentions. The Rough Sex has to be mutually satisfying and a huge ego boost to both because I'm sure the man feels more masculine afterwards and the woman more feminine perhaps, but rough sex is never about using, abusing and then tossing someone away by the curb. Rough sex doesn't endorse disrespect in any way. Rather, there's a lot of respect shown in restraining oneself from doing something the other has said he/she doesn't enjoy and not forgetting that even in the heart of the moment. That says plenty of respect IMO. And the icing on the cake to top it all off - only fit men can do rough sex well because of the physical exertion and stamina required to sustain the hard and fast pace or the slow but very firm exertions. What's not to like about a man who is working that hard to please a lady? :-D I'm getting weak in the knees thinking about my favourite topic. I hope I don't stumble around today! :-P
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RHP User
9 years ago
For someone who doesn't mind flogging a willing posterior to shades of purple, it might seem odd BUT hitting a woman's face or breasts is a hard limit for me.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'robbiebailin' I was once with a lass who liked the whole rough sex thing, particularly choking. First time we met things were getting fairly heated and in the midst of all that I slapped her in the face, i felt terrible doing so! But the strange thing is she didn't mind at all and we met again a week or so later. Enjoy rough sex to an extend where there is still intimacy and passion. Will never go that far again I've had guys lightly slap me on the face in the heat of the moment, and it was great, all part of the intensity of what was happening, specifically oral with them dominating. And the trust was there. I guess if they socked it to me hard, I'd think differently
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hair pull arse slap hard thrusting biting and back scrathing - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Im totally into asphyxiation, but only by an experienced Dominate who knows what they are doing, not something I would recommend for the curious...
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RHP User
9 years ago
That explains it perfectly, in the heat of the moment it just fit and definitely no malice in it, just a love tap - the same you would someones behind. Completely understand if someone gets off/enjoys that sort of thing. Especially you lovely submissive type Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Quoting 'robbiebailin' I was once with a lass who liked the whole rough sex thing, particularly choking. First time we met things were getting fairly heated and in the midst of all that I slapped her in the face, i felt terrible doing so! But the strange thing is she didn't mind at all and we met again a week or so later. Enjoy rough sex to an extend where there is still intimacy and passion. Will never go that far again I've had guys lightly slap me on the face in the heat of the moment, and it was great, all part of the intensity of what was happening, specifically oral with them dominating. And the trust was there. I guess if they socked it to me hard, I'd think differently
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RHP User
9 years ago
So tell me please, how do you do asphyxiation? I once had a partner who liked to lean her weight through her throat, held by my outstretched hands as she rode me. Her choking was self controlled. (Until she came like a train). - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
God, I watched this porn clip last night. The chick was lucky she didn't end up in a wheelchair. I was just randomly looking at the cover/home screen clips to see what was trending and came across it. I think it was called skank bang or something like that and although the skank reference didn't sound great, I do like the rape roleplay, so had a look. Omg they were really rough, and in a stupid way, banging her head hard down, jerking her neck and head around, side to side, tugging and sudden movements wtf and not once, it was constant. Very disturbing. That is over the top and should be banned IMO she's lucky if she didn't sustain damage to her spinal cord. Can I just put the message out there to anyone reading this, that that is not something you should be doing. There's rough and then there's just plain stupid and irresponsible. I didn't watch it all 👎
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sounds pretty awful, and not like any scene that's likely to be consensual. Who wants to risk a neck injury? In my experience, the more hardcore a kinkster is, the more safety conscious they are. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
It was actually a proper porn clips, where they interviewed the girl first, with a translator, but they asked her if she'd ever had rough sex before, that kind of thing, no safe words were discussed or anything. She looked like she was scared to death. I love it rough, but I would have been scared. I would have stopped for fear of my neck/spine. It was the sudden flicking and jerking movements, ripping her head randomly from side to side and then slamming her head down hard omg it was shocking. She didn't look like she was having fun. Even the sexual stuff wasn't appealing, they went in too fast, one guy shoved his hand into her, then they started fucking her, while the others were abusing her. You see a lot of stuff on porn, but I've never seen anything where I felt like the woman was in danger of a serious injury. Then again, I don't watch fet stuff, stuff I watch is pretty tame I'm sure. Anyway, that's the first time I've found one of those clips, it may be a whole genre, I'll have to look to see if that was just a bad example, or it they're all like that
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RHP User
9 years ago
scuse typos
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rupamohan
9 years ago
Go to any free porn site for example pornhub..close to left edge of your screen you will see small advertisement windows with sample clips from paid sites. By default all action in these clips is rough. SIMPLE
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'll have a look later 😊
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RHP User
9 years ago
Great minds think a like - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
What you described is truly disturbing! I think there is a big distinction between rough sex and violent sex. The video clip you described sounded like the latter. Eeks! :-\
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RHP User
9 years ago
Some consent freely to being degraded, and get off on it. Something that doesn't resonate with me at all. I suspect the porn industry is confusing consensual degradation with non consensual violent degradation in the clip ITM2 is describing. Sounds like the actress was paid to be violently raped? Not at all sure the $ implies consent... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yeah and it wasn't acting, well it was, but not fake with the violent movements. Crazy, there's rough and there's rough 😃
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MissBishere
9 years ago
Those that get off on the violence. I've watched some pretty violent amateur stuff on Fet. Involving face and body punching.
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RHP User
9 years ago
yeah, this chick was being badly abused and although they interviewed her before (not after though), she still looked like she was fearing for her life while it was going on, she wasn't having fun. It was just the fast, eratic, jerking action with her neck and head that worried me. I love it rough, but when you see something like that, which I never have before, it shows how easily the line can be crossed. Spinal cord damage IMO was a real possibility with what they were doing. I do wonder whether it actually was consensual. My feeling is that she didn't know how bad it was going to be, but who would? Scary stuff. Missb, punching in the face and stomach, no way?
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RHP User
9 years ago
sorry, I did read your comment but didn't have time to reply. I like being degraded but wouldn't allow violent sex to risk hurting me. My body and health come first, and I'm never just thinking of that encounter, I'd like to be able to do it again the next day or week or month, but not be crippled or with serious muscle strains or whatever. It's the same when I exercise, at my age, I do it so I don't have to worry about hurting myself or going through the added pain of long recovery periods from injuries. That works for me and particularly being so sexual, I want to be fit for that lol not that I bloody have time at the moment anyway
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RHP User
9 years ago
I guess I draw a distinction between domination and degradation. Degradation to me means emotional violence as well as physical. Emotional violence, as in being demeaned and being made to feel a lesser person. Beyond the head fuck, and into the realm of emotional damage. There's enough emotional pain out there without creating more of it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I definitely steer away from anything physically violent. Rough sex is pleasurable but it's not an excuse for physical assaults. I think the man's perspective is of utmost importance and very revealing - is he engaging in "rough sex" to please his lady or is he doing it because he likes to be violent to women and he feels "rough sex" is a perfect camouflage for what is more like physical abuse? As for degradation, I really am not into that at all. Ghost, I agree with you - the rigors of life sometimes head fucks us badly enough without having to be further degraded during sex. Whilst no one is stopping anyone from delving deeper into the dark, murky depths, we've got to be mindful that there are some dungeon doors that are better left unopened. Things might just get too twisted, dark and intense for our comfort and who knows what sort of emotional damage opening those doors might cause? Life is complicated enough without delving into these Pandora's boxes.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Taking a cock hitting the g spot is awesome love the arse cum - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
just another topic that is totally subjective. ive experienced girls who think a little arse spanking is rough, through to the pulling hair, hard pounding, tit spanking, spitting in the face etc etc. each to their own and enjoy :))
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JustMia03
9 years ago
I find that when 'life' gets in the way of me getting enough sex to be rough...
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RHP User
9 years ago
A lack of sex is possibly the roughest experience there is! Agreed.
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RHP User
9 years ago
... a lack of sex be "trough sex"? Rough sex shouldn't have negative connotations to it whatsoever. :-P
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RHP User
9 years ago
... to pay homage to good ol' economics, a huge interest of mine, a lack of sex can be "bear-ly there sex" whilst an excess of it can be termed "bullish sex"! LOL! :-D
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Cq_cplPlay
9 years ago
Well for us "rough" would be class as Primal play.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Nothing like getting your horn on, PP. What could be more primal than being taken by the Minotaur? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'PurePeony' ... a lack of sex be "trough sex"? that sounds more like something that would take place in a men's public toilet :p
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm not sure if trough sex as defined above comes under water sports or ammonia games. Not my thing anyway. I'll wait for the stall thanks, gents. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Rough Sex Very vigourous sex for people who like pain....
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lindos
9 years ago
My wife loves rough sex, the biting, hair grabbing, hand around throat and strong forceful hands on her hips can send her wild. Although I am not all the keen as too worried about hurting her. I have got better at the scenarios over the years and luckily a couple of her lovers have been reasonably assertive so she has got to experience it a little. But what surprised me was how far she would like to take the situation, wasn't sure how to take it when she revealed to me that she reeeeally likes the consenual none consent fantasy. At the time we were playing around and she stated she would love to be in a hotel room and have a well built male come knock on her door. When she opens it he rushes in and pins her up against a wall and proceeds to feel up and down her body, with her being powerless to stop him, she's then roughly turns her around lifts her skirt and just rips her panties off and then presses his hard cock up against her bare ass ..... Another scenario she likes is being chased in a forrest by 2 guy's, she tries really hard to get away and puts up a fierce effort against them when she is caught. But eventually her clothes are ripped from her body and they finally managed to get her legs apart and tie her between a couple of trees spread eagle and ravage her body. She was dripping wet when she told me about these fantasies and just the thought of having her clothes ripped off her gets her super aroused. I think she hoped I would try and arrange the scenarios for her and I have tried to a couple of times but it's super hard to find the right guy, let alone two that can make this a reality for her. Might never happen but I get to watch her have intense orgasms when we talk about it. One day we may get lucky and find the right guy/s. Fingers crossed. - Posted from rhpmobile
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