M40
No Single Men
April 11 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
This couples' response was uncalled for (though it did make me giggle.) It looks like they saw your status and pic and decided that whatever you had to say wasn't worthy. In other words, they didn't read your message. We would not respond like that, ever, and I find it more than rude. Good luck! x Ms Shout.
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RedHotCoast
12 years ago
......blocked you. Most cpls are on here for sex/ friendship with other cpls. We wouldn't have wrote that to you. Its a waste of energy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
i agree there is no need for rudeness on these sites,we are all after the same thing,having fun,making new friends and fucking.If someone doesnt appeal to u have the courtesy to let them down politely,without vulgarity.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The message was from an angry, insecure husband, not uncommon in the world of sex. Especially if your younger, look after yourself, hung ok and give off the impression of intelligence. Back when I had pics up there was a couple, HOT wife, meh old husband. Looked at my profile everyday, numerous times. So I sent them a wink "ive noticed you noticed me etc etc" and got the "not looking for guys mate, GET LOST". Sorry fella, but maybe your wife is hahahah Dont pay attention. His wife probably gets more pussy than him :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
And I forgot to add the story I stated, their profile did include men in their interests :) I wasnt just being curious haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Couples.... Meh. Steer clear of them. And as you can see, they are quite often not that friendly, refer to RedHotCiast above. :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'RedHotCoast'We would have...........blocked you. Friendly much?
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Couples.... Meh. Steer clear of them. And as you can see, they are quite often not that friendly, refer to RedHotCiast above. :) lost for words
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RHP User
12 years ago
Wake up to yourself, how many couple are seeking only couples, most are looking for variety to add that extra spice, an I agree with Meeka100, we are a couple that has tried to make contact with other couples an no response, so thanks to the guys on here for keeping me happy
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RHP User
12 years ago
well, I am not a couple and I would not have sent such a message anyway. but look at it from their angle, OP, your message to them was almost like spam. I mean why not message single girls or guys or other couples that haven't stipulated 'no single men'? what do you do if you receive unsolicited emails in your private inbox? delete and block, no? or another example, a job has been advertised for an accountant and your're a swimming coach but you still apply and say you're wondering if they know of anything about the local swim team? If you were so eager to find out what the good places to go to were wouldn't you just start a discussion topic as you have done now, or Googled the events for that area etc? anyway, each to their own, but before we all get on our high horses lets look at the story from both angles. the response was rude (and funny) but what were you expecting after messaging someone with what they were'nt looking for?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hahahaha funny! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
We are still "virgins" in sexual encounters with another/others, our goal wasn't just couples, I (mrs) like the appeal of one other rather than a few, seems more intimate (which I like) but I can't really make that call because I haven't even done anything yet hahaha.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'goodtimes1958' Wake up to yourself, how many couple are seeking only couples, most are looking for variety to add that extra spice, an I agree with Meeka100, we are a couple that has tried to make contact with other couples an no response, so thanks to the guys on here for keeping me happy suppose you have made a point Meeka. Keeping me happy?
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RHP User
12 years ago
The guys dont fuck my hubby they fuck me, now do u understand that they keep me happy :)
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madotara69
12 years ago
Op, look at your user name, then your profile, then your well endowed pic Some couples are the real thing in here, most are not, that's a thing Then see it that you are trying to get in, too a couples pants, because you are Then see it that the real couples are use to the attempts for that kind of attention, go look around town, you sound lazy and not really looking for a place to go dancing. Then the DP endowed pic, looks picilo minklia (Italian for how it is spelt?) Your cock looks about three inches long, double that only makes it six inches long, so the average bit is correct, the rest of this smells like bullshit. We like bullshit, so that is OK, but the rally you are stirring is the rude bit here.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'RedHotCoast' ......blocked you. Most cpls are on here for sex/ friendship with other cpls. We wouldn't have wrote that to you. Its a waste of energy. He wasn't messaging them for sex, just asking for some local knowledge.
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RedHotCoast
12 years ago
If we don't want single guys to contact us that's our right. We are not on this site for tenpin bowling partners. We respect everyone's right to pick and choose. That's why we are all here.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'RedHotCoast' ......blocked you. Most cpls are on here for sex/ friendship with other cpls. We wouldn't have wrote that to you. Its a waste of energy. He wasn't messaging them for sex, just asking for some local knowledge. Do you believe everything people say? There is bits and pieces, surely omitted to this OP and the story. Not long ago we had a post from a couple quoting another couples private message, things changed somewhat when they (the other couple mentioned) added the actual message. Boy did that innocent couple get roasted while reading the bullshit about them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you dont like the person, dont respond, ignore. If they harrass, block. If one does respond, be polite, nomatter the response, dont go off your rocker, as you're wasting your own valuable time, and frankly if its unwarranted abuse, you look stupid. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have only ever received courteous and friendly messages from couples.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you plan to message a couple... Be sure you wanna fuck em!!! Otherwise they'll simply just fuck you!!! :p
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madotara69
12 years ago
It seems everyone thinks it's OK to post private messages on the public forums? Fuck that, that is fucked.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Fucked up shit But of coarse* It's not really a private message, cummon OP spill the beans? Travelling salesman, showing us all your cock "that gets you results and not ignored". Why on earth would one feel the need to say such a thing, bahahaha. Nice commercial, well written, even your couple seemed to just flow along to that story. he he.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just because we all like sex here, doesn't mean we need to behave like animals. What a rude and weird response. Sometimes being sought-after, like females and couples are here, can breed a bit of a diva complex which makes it seem okay to be so rude to another human being. MsK
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RedHotCoast
12 years ago
We weren't the couple. If we were we would have simply blocked. I think the original couple probably had 3 or 4 emails that day and the OP copped a spray. Hey OP, have you tryed the local paper's what's on guide?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I tend to steer clear of couples. Mado and Tara are an exception. If I lived near them, I'd be bugging them constantly lol. Seriously though? That was a really funny message. Very butthead like. It must be soooo hard for the poor couples to get messaged by copious amounts of single guys all the time. Geez it must be a hard life. Anyway op I'd recommend heading to the closest pub and asking the locals. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'RedHotCoast' ......blocked you. Most cpls are on here for sex/ friendship with other cpls. We wouldn't have wrote that to you. Its a waste of energy. He wasn't messaging them for sex, just asking for some local knowledge. Do you believe everything people say? There is bits and pieces, surely omitted to this OP and the story. Not long ago we had a post from a couple quoting another couples private message, things changed somewhat when they (the other couple mentioned) added the actual message. Boy did that innocent couple get roasted while reading the bullshit about them. I don't believe everything people say (and there's no need for your "awww"s and the condescending tone either, I'm not stupid). But I'm also not automatically going to condemn the OP and assume the worst, as you are, just because he is a single guy. I remember the other post you're talking about and that was a very different context. And anyway, even if we do assume the OP had an ulterior motive in his messaging and he was hoping there would be sex, there is no need for the downright rude and vitriolic response he got from that couple.
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
Of single guys or couples, hey and while we're at it unicorns (have I left anyone out?)... Hope you find your feet in your new neighbourhood...
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RHP User
12 years ago
hey dude you got a reply be thank full its more than I ever get with the exception of Luckdragon
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RHP User
12 years ago
I must say though I think its better to get nothing than a message like that How rude there are a lot of profiles out there that are not right I have looked at a few profile (by few I mean 100s) and they say they are looking for men but when you read their profile they only want women or couples
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madotara69
12 years ago
Just does not jell. There is more within the OP to how it reads is what I believe. The OP firstly has sat back and read all this said nothing. "shits and giggles" maybe. I read things maybe a little different, that is probably well known amongst the regular posters, so I write to what I read. Things just don't make sense to the nature of the post, and the innocence suggested by this OP. Why so, first I read (kind of) then "I figured", THEM, DP, DOES. Then reading "Apologies for the display pic but I get results and not ignored with it! " what does the "!" bit mean other than the bit for attempting to bring attention to the cock pic? I apologised for my DP because I wasn't going to change it just to send a few messages and it DOES offend some people. "(pretty much) the same message:" Oh too the honesty. In the OP's mind it Does offend some people,.... yeah right, it's an average looking cock beside a remote control, cropped and looks nothing like the size he thinks it is. RHP measurements there. ( if it tickles his fancy too have a big cock, good on him he is his own champion) Then the most disturbing part... I actually spat out my drink and laughed when I read their reply: No problem at all thanks for asking us. Our suggestion is to but a pair of headphones and stick the other end up your ass and listen to the inside of your ass hole ass I'm sure that's just about all the fun you will be getting. If that still doesn't work try buying some glasses and learning how to fucking read. Here is a hint. When it says no single guys at all. That means no matter how busted you are still done contact us. Hope you understand and we mean this in the nicest way. So fuck off!!! Enjoy your weekend Even if this above did not flow with the OP's style of writing, it is a personal message, who cares what it says, it is private, not for public display. Then...Interested in reading what couples here have to say :D I see red. Leaving Tara out of this. More interested in the remote control. (I spat my coffee out, then) Why not, " High guys, new in town, love to dance too, could you tell me where the local or nearest rave is" That would get a reasonable response, a normal kind of question. Normally this sort of shit you pick up on like clockwork LD.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69'Then reading "Apologies for the display pic but I get results and not ignored with it! " what does the "!" bit mean other than the bit for attempting to bring attention to the cock pic? Normally this sort of shit you pick up on like clockwork LD. I would have apologised too for a profile pic that graffic when contacting someone for purely social reasons. (Actually I would have apologised regardless, but that's me.) I'm totally with LD on this one.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think we just have to accept the OP at face value.....do messages of a vitriolic nature deserve to remain private?....I think the Op was trying to connect with some like minded local people but if I lived in Nambour I would be grumpy too:-) :-) raverboy it is probably wise to not party locally anyway....travel to Noosa or Maroochydore,far more interesting places.xx Q
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madotara69
12 years ago
It is buggering me up. Thinking an apology would be sincere, not a statement "!", off to google again.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta2' II think the Op was trying to connect with some like minded local people he could have just sent his messages to single ladies and men, not to a couple (especially one that clearly said no single guys) or he could have just started a discussion topic and he would have met like minded people seriously, how many times have some women posting on here whinged in SWB about how guys not meeting what they are after have messaged them and how they have blocked them or ignored them etc, or how some guys have messaged them saying nice photos etc and they ignore them or worse do an image search of their pics and then reply to them berating them about their choice of profile pic.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Shazza85'seriously, how many times have some women posting on here whinged in SWB about how guys not meeting what they are after have messaged them and how they have blocked them or ignored them etc, or how some guys have messaged them saying nice photos etc and they ignore them or worse do an image search of their pics and then reply to them berating them about their choice of profile pic. FFS, someone on here just wrote me to ask what my tattoo means. Did I ignore him? Block him? Tell him to fuck off? No, because I'm not rude, jaded or nasty.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' Thinking an apology would be sincere, not a statement "!", off to google again. You get your interaction skills from the net?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Seems the OP could read that this couple liked night life but chose to ignore a valid request from the couple.Very mischievous on the OP's part to message the couple anyway, no matter what the reason. If you are on a Do Not Call list and a Telemarketer calls, do you cheerfully have a chat with them? ,,,,, NO If you hang out the Do Not Disturb sign on your hotel door and the boisterous man from the adjacent room bangs on your door looking for a chat do you cheerfully invite him in? ,,,, NO This is simply a case of NO means NO and if the OP chose to ignore the NO he got a spray for his arrogance.Now "didums" needs to vindicate himself so he takes it public. We also have been contacted in similar circumstances, some reasons are quite inventive. It's nearly always just a way to open communication with a disguised reason.And they always get narky when you block them, that's the bit that mystifies us.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' The OP firstly has sat back and read all this said nothing. r4v3r, we're doing all the work here. You can at least contribute something else yourself.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why is the OP copping shit for messaging couples? Nowhere on my profile does it say that I'm interested in couples yet I get messages from them all the time. I don't go on a rant about getting the messages, I just reply with the standard "You're not what I'm looking for". It takes 2 seconds to reply.The same goes with men who fall outside of my preferred age range. IMO if you're on a public site you're going to get messages from people irrespective of whether they fall in your preferred category or not. Hell, you might even make an unexpected friend.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'madotara69' Thinking an apology would be sincere, not a statement "!", off to google again. You get your interaction skills from the net? You and your girlfriends drove me too it, I use to love just writing things as they flow, now I spend most time reading the flow of things.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Shazza85'seriously, how many times have some women posting on here whinged in SWB about how guys not meeting what they are after have messaged them and how they have blocked them or ignored them etc, or how some guys have messaged them saying nice photos etc and they ignore them or worse do an image search of their pics and then reply to them berating them about their choice of profile pic. FFS, someone on here just wrote me to ask what my tattoo means. Did I ignore him? Block him? Tell him to fuck off? No, because I'm not rude, jaded or nasty. thats just you Meander, the world is a big place full of different people, we cant all be the same. And the tattoo is on your body, so the message was about you, unlike the OP's message to the couple.if he had asked them about something on their profile then my response would be very much different. While i agree they were rude to him, he could have just avoided it all by not messaging them. spam can be annoying at times (also i do not know the full facts of the story) as for being rude, jaded or nasty...I am in no position to pass such comment on anyone as I do not know anyone on this site, bar 1, on a personal level
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meander'FFS, someone on here just wrote me to ask what my tattoo means. Did I ignore him? Block him? Tell him to fuck off? No, because I'm not rude, jaded or nasty. Because I'm not a bitch wasn't the only reason I responded in a nice way. I meant to say that if someone writes me a nice, social message there is no reason to ever respond in a less than pleasant manner. It's called manners. And though I'm not an online chatter, questions are always welcome.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting gymguy123 "I think.... If you dont like the person, dont respond, ignore. If they harrass, block. If one does respond, be polite, nomatter the response, dont go off your rocker, as you're wasting your own valuable time, and frankly if its unwarranted abuse, you look stupid. - Posted from rhpmobile" Nice post... My personal experience of sunny coasters... Some are very respectful, fun people, the majority won't give you the time of day in a rhp sense... For some reason brizvegas and the Gold Coast contain much more genuine people who are willing to meet... As I say, my experience... Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
While I do agree that perhaps the OP probably was poking the bear by contacting someone outside of his requirements without prior contact, isn't it easier to just ignore the message rather than going to all the trouble of writing up a nasty comment? Inevitably nasty remarks without provocation end up saying more about you than the person you're saying them to...
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RHP User
12 years ago
No need to be rude on here. as a single male I have had a mixed bag, some nice some pretty bloody rude. Im not here to offend anyone, particularly when they have checked out your profile more than a few times, you message them politely, them get a crap rude email back. I play with single ladies and couples and have always shown the utmost respect for everyone I play with. That includes email!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Shazza85' And the tattoo is on your body, so the message was about you, unlike the OP's message to the couple.if he had asked them about something on their profile then my response would be very much different. as for being rude, jaded or nasty...I am in no position to pass such comment on anyone as I do not know anyone on this site, bar 1, on a personal level I've gotten plenty of messages asking about the Couples Club and Our Secret Spot. The way I respond is the same. And please not I've only spoken about myself and not called anyone anything, thanks.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some couples here are great and rather normal people :)) but there are as many that feel they are the bees knees ???? And everyone should desire them n then only ??? I clicked onto a couples profile here after reading a post in the forums :) just wanted to see (it's what we do here) bang I was blocked yet I never made any form of contact with them !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Don't worry about it people will abuse you for looking at their profile block you for comments on their photos even if you match every single one of their criteria. I try to be honest upfront but thats me and who knows maybe they had the opposite happen a single abuse them and wanted to get in first. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm not sitting back laughing after I posted this it didn't appear in the forums for me so assumed something went wrong so vented in the online chat instead I only found out its in the forums as someone messaged me after seeing my post with some places to go so I'm very grateful to that person. I'm not lazy, in fact I work a 60-80 hour work week. I just couldn't go "club hopping" because I have no licence and a cab ride into moolooloba or maroochy is about $50 one way, pointless if there's nothing on/nowhere to go. I chose the people I did as a mixture of both couples and singles, using the who's online in my vicinity. I used people around my age bracket as I felt they would have more similar interests in music as opposed to the ones who were 15-20 years my senior. I'll review the rest of the posts later. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' I've gotten plenty of messages asking about the Couples Club and Our Secret Spot. The way I respond is the same. And please not I've only spoken about myself and not called anyone anything, thanks. Agreed; you did not call anyone anything, neither did I say you did. My comment was meaning I cannot comment (agree) on you not being jaded or nasty etc as I do not know you. as for your example, again it was following on from comments you may have made on those subjects in the forums, for instance, regarding OSS. (just guessing) The way I have taken OP's messaging of these couples is that almost similar to a telemarketer calling me or junk mail or spam in my inbox (unsolicited communication). My reaction to all these would be different of course and would all depend on the situation at that time. **skips off to make dinner**
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RHP User
12 years ago
You're a guy on here, there's an oversupply, of course they'll feel entitled enough to be rude to you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
First things first - That response was rude and unwarranted as we are all on here just trying to get along. If you're not interested in the content of a message just delete - Maybe they were just having a bad day but still...Secondly - As a single guy, I am really conscious of not 'hassling' well...anyone, but especially not couples who aren't interested. So when I do a search I always tick the 'looking for me' box, only to discover a heap of couples out there who have 'seeking men' in the profile and then after reading through their profile, discover that they actually aren't interested in single guys at all, when all it takes is to uncheck a box...I'm confused.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is that a universal remote? I'm looking to buy one but want some advice on the best one to get.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Totally agree the most rudest reply you can get on here is....NO REPLY AT ALL!regardless of how often you are on here or how long it takes you to read your messages.Some of us actually READ your profile!!!! We are all busy!!!!! working!!!! and have family,So to not reply at all to people who actually find you attractive and would be fun to be with,We are far from SUPERMODELS! on here so to the GENIUNE ONES ! Bravo for replying....
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imupinthesky2
12 years ago
I think my mother is a wise ladyshe often said to me as a little boy ..."if you have nothing nice to say, dont say anything at all"come on people, be polite - how hard is it ?its quite like if you end up meeting, if there is no connection or chemistry, a polite thanks, but no thanks - we are all adults and we all need to be respectful
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SSS37' First things first - That response was rude and unwarranted as we are all on here just trying to get along. If you're not interested in the content of a message just delete - Maybe they were just having a bad day but still...Secondly - As a single guy, I am really conscious of not 'hassling' well...anyone, but especially not couples who aren't interested. So when I do a search I always tick the 'looking for me' box, only to discover a heap of couples out there who have 'seeking men' in the profile and then after reading through their profile, discover that they actually aren't interested in single guys at all, when all it takes is to uncheck a box...I'm confused. I have noticed that to I think some couple are in here for the wrong reasons you really need to pay attention to the written profile, I know I have fallen for it a couple of times box says they are looking for men but written part says only women I think the women fills the top part in looking for men and the man fills in the bottom part not interested in men
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RHP User
12 years ago
In the case of the OP. If we received an email like that we would gladly respond with some worthwhile suggestions of places to go. Our response to 'should you every change your mind...' type emails is basically a polite "no thank you, but if your circumstances change and you become a couple then please contact us again" No need to be rude.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I gotta be honest, when i read your post - there seemed to be several 'issues' - which I believe is turning people off, and hence you are going to get this occasional ott reply. So, I have just moved (kind of) to a new area where I know absolutely nobody, and have no idea where places are to go out (as the area I'm in has nowhere, I figured young people around my age might know where everyone goes for a night out). You 'kind of' moved to a new area - what does this mean, a suburb away from your last residence? So, using the RHPMobile App, I used the 'In my vicinity' option and selected the first 5 people who were online and sent them all (pretty much) the same message: This is a sex website, not timeout Brisbane or whatever. It seems like you are fishing by trying to come across as not interested in sex. Hey, I'm not contacting you guys for "fun" but noticed on your profile you enjoy nights out on the coast. I'm new to the area and living in nambour and dying to go out somewhere on the coast where I can listen to good music and dance Don't know anyone down here so just looking for someone to tell me where id be able to go out! Apologies for the display pic but I get results and not ignored with it! -raverboy 1. Copy and paste messages never work. 2. A cock display pic never works either. Assume every guy on here can get an erection... I don't care what you say, classy women don't want to see your dick, they want to see your face. You sound insecure trying to back yourself up. In my experience and several years on here, cock pics never work. Nor do just pics of your abs. Face and body pics work and often encourage winks from women, in my experience. Your profile doesn't even have a face pic. This is going to reduce your messages/ replies by over 70% in my experience. Even having a face pic in your priv gallery doesn't get results like one in your Public gallery. You may have your reasons - but all of this is working against you. If you great profile is working, then where do all the single girls you message say you should be hanging out? Now, I wasn't asking THEM for fun, but simply figured, being a younger couple (around my age) and on their profile it read that they enjoy a night out that they may be able to recommend some nightclubs in the area. I apologised for my DP because I wasn't going to change it just to send a few messages and it DOES offend some people. Why don't you Google/Facebook some pubs, bars, parks, beaches etc around the area where young people hang out. I actually spat out my drink and laughed when I read their reply: No problem at all thanks for asking us. Our suggestion is to but a pair of headphones and stick the other end up your ass and listen to the inside of your ass hole ass I'm sure that's just about all the fun you will be getting. If that still doesn't work try buying some glasses and learning how to fucking read. Here is a hint. When it says no single guys at all. That means no matter how busted you are still done contact us. Hope you understand and we mean this in the nicest way. So fuck off!!! Enjoy your weekend. Don't understand why you messaged them when they said no single guys. You should have moved onto the next profile. So my question is, to couples, if you aren't after single men, would you still give this sort of reply to someone asking for a bit of your local knowledge? It would have taken more time to write what they did then it would have to simply say 'no we don't know anywhere' or 'try this club or this club' Interested in reading what couples here have to say :D I guess your message just came across as annoying, and in the big wide world out there many people will give you back a nasty reaction. Not really a surprise, and nothing to make a big deal about. And then your follow up: I'm not sitting back laughing after I posted this it didn't appear in the forums for me so assumed something went wrong so vented in the online chat instead I only found out its in the forums as someone messaged me after seeing my post with some places to go so I'm very grateful to that person. I'm not lazy, in fact I work a 60-80 hour work week. I just couldn't go "club hopping" because I have no licence and a cab ride into moolooloba or maroochy is about $50 one way, pointless if there's nothing on/nowhere to go. You are a single guy yeh? Well on a Friday and Saturday night you sometimes gotta go out on your own and mingle. It works in Sydney, I'm sure it will work up there. Don't catch a cab, catch a bus. If you are working 60-80 hours per week you must be doing pretty well and surely keen to buy someone you meet a few drinks. You gotta try man. You can't rely on the internet for everything. I chose the people I did as a mixture of both couples and singles, using the who's online in my vicinity. I used people around my age bracket as I felt they would have more similar interests in music as opposed to the ones who were 15-20 years my senior. I'll review the rest of the posts later. You should respect what people say in their profile. Some people have no interest in correspondence with single males, just move on.. Just a few too many issues with your approach.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If they could recommend a good place in town to buy headphones. Then asked for the best place to buy glasses cause the below point is making you blind. And the final reply would have been... im not single i have my hand ,she always gives me special time! Its obvious they are a fun couple and a bit on the Dominatrix side. The pub is always a good place to go to meet people if your new to a place..
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RHP User
12 years ago
To be honest as soon as I see the looking for..... I would just not even bother messaging. I dont blame couples at all. Having had a young bloke stay at our house and start fucking my partner he 22 she 47. I found most young blokes, selfish assholes, especially gen Y. They have no respect, no manners, they're premature ejactulators, insecure, and tho they may look good are totally out their depth when screwing some else's women in the same room. In short fellas wake up to yourselves, you don't cut the mustard with all your rude, crude, teenage porn way of looking at the world and women and all your sad little boring insecurities. THAT'S WHY COUPLES DON'T YOU! Try messaging couples when you grow the hell up and get some respect, manners and culture. Regards Old man. - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
12 years ago
No one is ever rude on RHP, we are all angels
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RHP User
12 years ago
Couples on here are great. Just read their profile and be honest with yourself when judging you are an OK fit for their wants. The least you can do is read and try to understand their angle. Remember they are the ones doing the shopping, not you. Be relaxed, understanding and listen to what they say.
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RHP User
12 years ago
@Adamco you need to get laid. Gen Y is swell as a bell.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I guess the people on RHP are no different to the people in life generally some are nice and friendly and open minded, some are conservative and have a closed mind, some are dicks who find it hard to string a sentence, and have never traveled outside their patch The problem I see for swinging is that as society in Australia becomes more and more conservative (and yes young people are actually more conservative than older people) it just means that finding a good cross section of society on RHP becomes harder as time goes by Everyone is looking for their perfect match which usually results in a missed connection, then there are many on here that have no intention of meeting anyone, its all a bit of a game that delivers little resuts, I guess in the end one just gets tired of it...........
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well said, you have summed it up perfectly. snip"You should respect what people say in their profile. Some people have no interest in correspondence with single males, just move on.."
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have been on both sides of the coin was couple on here and now single guy . There are a lot of single guys who try it on not looking for couples but try hitting on the women . And with the amount of single guys here you get over it fast and bite back . But that message you got was ah bit ruff . But in same boat trying to meet people but all quiet ooh well .
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RHP User
12 years ago
We wouldn't of replied . But would of been pissed off that you contacted ! Get so annoying single men msging day after day ! Just learn respect what people are looking for. Why would a swinging couple care that you have nothing to do ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
The Italian, Sicilian dialect for 'small cock' is 'piccolo minchia'. Had never heard of it before, but had to read up on it since it was mentioned. Great topic, I've found the anecdotes quite amusing.
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zenarider
12 years ago
someone with a sense of humour-gotta love that PJ
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm sorry, while it is a little over rude I have to give ten points for the message. For us though, I know it can get damn annoying. I would see this request and it would depend entirely on which of us answered and how tired we were at the time of response. The approach can be mistaken for a sly way to establish conversation, the constant hit from single guys can be mightily annoying when it is clear there is not an ounce of interest.
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RHP User
12 years ago
i think it doesn't really matter, whether the OP was really just looking for somewhere to go out to, for the evening...or was hoping to gain this couple's attention, in a roundabout way... his message was polite, and respectful...so why be a dick? they could have just not replied, if they didn't wish to...reply and point out a few good spots to go to...or just simply say "sorry dude can't help you there..." had he then kept on bombarding them with messages after that...fair enough, block him...but there was no need for that kinda response...we are all human beings on here....so why treat one another like dirt?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Adam,the irony is,you are a single guy xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'totalflirty01' We wouldn't of replied . But would of been pissed off that you contacted ! Get so annoying single men msging day after day ! Just learn respect what people are looking for. Why would a swinging couple care that you have nothing to do ? - Posted from rhpmobile Speaking of diva complexes and being self absorbed...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Traum246' Well said, you have summed it up perfectly. snip"You should respect what people say in their profile. Some people have no interest in correspondence with single males, just move on.." So I should have told the single woman who dared to write and ask me where to find clubs Sydney (she had just moved here) to fuck off then? Or maybe just blocked her, as she clearly ignored my profile and was therefore a rude bitch. What was I thinking!
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RHP User
12 years ago
This thread is hilarious! Mrs_AJ
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rupamohan
12 years ago
No we won't respond like that but we don't expect everybody to think like us. People do have right to get bit nasty it is their choice. But I will prefer such people to put warning in their profile about how offensive they feel when contacted by a mismatched gender. RHPmobile is partially the culprit..for example it won't allow us to see age unless we view profile...this can mislead others that we may be interested in them where as we were just browsing... Accidents do happen and we all have to be tolerant to others if we expect others to be tolerant to us...actually I will go bit far...we prefer to be tolerant even if others are not...that doesn't mean we have never lost patience. This is how we deal with single men ***In profile*** We don't write nasty gender warnings. Why? An extra warning line is not worth because a) idiots won't care about it anyway b) <10 men in a year miss checking the gender we seek. ***At contact*** First contact - Ignore or say NO second request (< 3 in a year) - Short and simple NOT interested More request (1 or none in a year) - A warning to block or block
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hotcple0069
12 years ago
We would not reply, a question like that should be asked in the forums or chat room not via private message as a rule we don't even read massages or flirts from single guys we just delete them. I do think the reply you got was rude but funny too.
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madotara69
12 years ago
If we posted a reply you had sent us by private message, regardless to our thoughts as to it being rude or not, would that offend you?
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madotara69
12 years ago
I am hiding again
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him_and_me
12 years ago
Imagine you're at a meet and greet. You're there hoping to meet couples in their 30s but you get approached by a boppy 20-something wearing a tiny singlet that clearly displays her boobs. She smiles, says hi, appologises for the little top ("but hey it works with some of the guys! Lol!"), then she follows it up by saying she's never been to this club before, could you tell her where the toilets are as she's busting to take a piss and doesn't think she'll find it in time on her own. Would you scowl at her and tell her to FUCK OFF because you're NOT there to meet 20 year olds!? I find it interesting (and confusing) how irate some people get about being contacted by people outside their search parametres. To me, the response the OP got to his query about where to go was way over the top and totally uncalled for. Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Traum246' Well said, you have summed it up perfectly. snip"You should respect what people say in their profile. Some people have no interest in correspondence with single males, just move on.." So I should have told the single woman who dared to write and ask me where to find clubs Sydney (she had just moved here) to fuck off then? Or maybe just blocked her, as she clearly ignored my profile and was therefore a rude bitch. What was I thinking! Meander, what do you think, should people willing to answer questions unrelated to actually hooking up, add somehting to their profile to indicate that they are 'safe' to contact? I'm at a loss and it makes me kind of sad how some people think they have the 'right' (someone up there used that word) to be excessively rude to others because of some perceived transgression. C'mon people, be nice. x Me
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Traum246' Well said, you have summed it up perfectly. snip"You should respect what people say in their profile. Some people have no interest in correspondence with single males, just move on.." So I should have told the single woman who dared to write and ask me where to find clubs Sydney (she had just moved here) to fuck off then? Or maybe just blocked her, as she clearly ignored my profile and was therefore a rude bitch. What was I thinking! No advice was offered on how a single female should respond to another single females message.And certainly the reply that you have posted is one from your own mind and intended to be offensive. Going back to our post, it was summed up, move on without the need to post in a public forum a reply to an approach that obviously was unwanted. Whether the reply was good bad or indifferent.As has happened before, the OP has raised the topic as being the offended with no balance to the "other side of the story". However on face value it appears the message was sent to someone that stated they do not want messages from certain member types.The advice remains, move on because an unfavourable response was on the cards. Others have said that 'would've just blocked without bothering to reply' which is the most unfavourable response of all.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Indeed, Some things directed at me really don't deserve an answer...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' If we posted a reply you had sent us by private message, regardless to our thoughts as to it being rude or not, would that offend you? It's completely anonymous? No, it wouldn't, as long as both messages were unedited.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Can you send us a dirty, naughty, rude, filthy message please
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RHP User
12 years ago
I tend to sympathize with both on this one. As a couple, we also get inundated with messages from single guys who do not read our profile. While I sympathize with the couple in this regard, they probably didn't have to be so rude. There are so many stuck up couples on here. Sometimes its better to rise above and be the bigger person, a simple "no thank you we are not interested" would have put the issue to bed even quicker than long winded reply they came up with...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some people are single for a reason.
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him_and_me
12 years ago
Ouch... - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
12 years ago
One post. It's a cock shot.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm thinking Adamecowarrior's partner left him for the 20 year old premature ejaculator..... Probably cos he gave what he didn't ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
12 years ago
If you see that message, as rude and not funny, then maybe all this frustration is in your own mind? Wonder where the couple is that wrote that message? Do they exist? we will never know, but just out of interests sakes, why is it that the only other post we have seen in here from you, just happens to be in the huge cock thread? Sure you love your huge gigantic cock and don't mind showing it off, so message us and we will nicely tell you how grand your cock is, but don't bullshit about something like this, too many people believe you here and that is manipulation, so we could chat about that too, you are welcome.
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davidex46x
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' Then the DP endowed pic, looks picilo minklia (Italian for how it is spelt?) AHAHAHAHAHA I cannot help but laugh!!! MINCHIA (that's how you spell it) is italian slang for cock. Cazzo is the actual italian term! Where did you learn that???????AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'davidex46x' Quoting 'madotara69' Then the DP endowed pic, looks picilo minklia (Italian for how it is spelt?) AHAHAHAHAHA I cannot help but laugh!!! MINCHIA (that's how you spell it) is italian slang for cock. Cazzo is the actual italian term! Where did you learn that???????AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Near by a place in the Northern Beaches, called Brookadavale, Brookvale where most of my Ital mates drove Toranna's with fluffy dice hanging off the mirror, shag pile purple carpet and they all wore sunglasses. he he Beat them in every break dance challenge, so they taught me some of the lingo, bahahaha Fungool? was another nice thing they said too, always seemed to be scratching their chin or something when they said it too, like in a sort of giving gesture.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' Quoting 'davidex46x' Quoting 'madotara69' Then the DP endowed pic, looks picilo minklia (Italian for how it is spelt?) AHAHAHAHAHA I cannot help but laugh!!! MINCHIA (that's how you spell it) is italian slang for cock. Cazzo is the actual italian term! Where did you learn that???????AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Near by a place in the Northern Beaches, called Brookadavale, Brookvale where most of my Ital mates drove Toranna's with fluffy dice hanging off the mirror, shag pile purple carpet and they all wore sunglasses. he he Beat them in every break dance challenge, so they taught me some of the lingo, bahahaha Fungool? was another nice thing they said too, always seemed to be scratching their chin or something when they said it too, like in a sort of giving gesture. Totally off topic but ......Wow now that's a term I would not have placed with anyone on here but hey you just never know do you .....throw back to the 80s for sure.....that's when it was all happening.....LOL :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
We have gone between saying single guys are ok to please dont contact us. Regardless some single guys still do. So we now are more than happy to have the single guys contact us as it makes little difference. Its so easy to be polite. I just dont get rude people!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nope, nada none, no sympathy for the OP, he made the basic error of not reading a profile before contacting them. As for the couple who has been vilified, yes they too were in the wrong. But how do we know that the OP's message wasn't number 20 for the day from a single guy? Maybe they just had enough, it happens!! And although a lot of the regulars here state categorically that they would never send a message like that (and reply to every message they get), yet can be and have been quite rude, catty and condescending here in the forums. Yes everyone has their breaking limit it seems. Now for a question to the couples here that does pertain to the OP's predicament: Even though you might not have single guys down on your preference, how many of you have received emails from the said single males complimenting you on a post in the forums? Of course you do the right thing and reply, and next thing you know they are contacting you constantly because they think they have formed that elusive friendship thing and that surpasses whatever criteria stated in the profile. MookaP.S. I think the term I am looking for is the proverbial "foot in the door" trick ...
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'polys' Quoting 'madotara69' Quoting 'davidex46x' Quoting 'madotara69' Then the DP endowed pic, looks picilo minklia (Italian for how it is spelt?) AHAHAHAHAHA I cannot help but laugh!!! MINCHIA (that's how you spell it) is italian slang for cock. Cazzo is the actual italian term! Where did you learn that???????AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Near by a place in the Northern Beaches, called Brookadavale, Brookvale where most of my Ital mates drove Toranna's with fluffy dice hanging off the mirror, shag pile purple carpet and they all wore sunglasses. he he Beat them in every break dance challenge, so they taught me some of the lingo, bahahaha Fungool? was another nice thing they said too, always seemed to be scratching their chin or something when they said it too, like in a sort of giving gesture. Totally off topic but ......Wow now that's a term I would not have placed with anyone on here but hey you just never know do you .....throw back to the 80s for sure.....that's when it was all happening.....LOL :) So It be fair too say anything related is on topic as we are still discussing the finer details of the post, he he Yep, Circuit breakers, was our crew, and My favourite move was the human vibrator, Tara still loves that shakin feelin as I do my thing. We would suggest that guys messaging couples, be genuine and don't try to pull the wool over our eyes. As said in this thread, couples are use to all sorts of ways from blokes to get in the door, some are very creative, even funny, some are just to get Tara's attention and that is how I read the OP's message, if it were sent to us. But how we answered something like that, is really no one else's business, if we start posting private messages on these forums, it will kill the privilege of messaging, and fuck the forums.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry to hear about your experience, but there are a bunch of rude cunts on here. One day I saw a couple with 'We don't play with single men, but there's always the odd exception, so try your luck if you have something special to offer' or something like that on their profile..sent a FLIRT and received the absolute nastiest message from them. Funny thing is that a while later, they messaged my wife and I on another site (didn't bother to respond). People like that, you don't want to play with anyway since it shows some serious deep rooted issues...and they're usually the ones that are on here complaining that they can't find playmates or that nobody here is serious..blah blah blah. You did nothing wrong...your message was polite and well structured. It is easier to just not respond if you're not interested We have single men sending us messages on /the other site/ and we just don't respond most of the time. There is the odd, well structured and friendly message that will invoke a response, even if to say "Sorry, not interested". A little goes a long way.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'dark_velvet' Sorry to hear about your experience, but there are a bunch of rude cunts on here. One day I saw a couple with 'We don't play with single men, but there's always the odd exception, so try your luck if you have something special to offer' or something like that on their profile..sent a FLIRT and received the absolute nastiest message from them. So... what was this special thing you thought you offered?
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him_and_me
12 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' Now for a question to the couples here that does pertain to the OP's predicament: Even though you might not have single guys down on your preference, how many of you have received emails from the said single males complimenting you on a post in the forums? Of course you do the right thing and reply, and next thing you know they are contacting you constantly because they think they have formed that elusive friendship thing and that surpasses whatever criteria stated in the profile. MookaP.S. I think the term I am looking for is the proverbial "foot in the door" trick ... Mooka, we've had that happen once or twice, we let them know something along the lines of "we're not currently looking for singles guys but good luck with your search". If they persist in messaging that's when we're more likely to stop responding. I'm one of those people who will claim to never send a nasty rude message, (in my opinion the world is better without that bitterness). Many of the single guys we politely turn down write back once more to say thanks for the kind reply.Having said that, I've had some very nice 'conversations' with a few different guys through here, we'll likely not play with them but that doesn't mean we can't be friendly. x Me
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