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Lets get Real...

March 12 2014

What are the things REAL men do. I read this great article this morning in Elephant Journal...Here are some examples it mentioned: REAL MEN: are reasonable for their own well-being and ours. To me that's so sexy as! REAL MEN: are not put off by talking of cramps, cravings or the occasional rollercoaster of emotions that happen during shark week. Real men can buy tampons. REAL MEN: Arrive on time - it communicates they value me and their word. They know the importance of showing up. REAL MEN: are not raciest or sexiest, they are open-minded. They don’t believe they are stronger, more intelligent or superior because they are born with a penis. REL MEN: know how to get our souls naked. They know how to undress a woman, bit-by-bit, layer-by-layer. They know the sweetest parts of us don't lie in our pants, they know real euphoria is deeper than sex. REAL MEN: have the balls to sit down with an open heart and speak from a place that isn’t guarded or shut down. They don’t hear the words “we need to talk” and run away with their vulnerability tail in between their legs. REAL MEN: can wear the color Pink and fuchsia and will watch chick flicks free of shame. They are comfortable with their masculinity and don’t need to prove anything. What does a 'REAL" man mean to you?? Foxy

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MsSuperFoxy

12 years ago

I loved reading your post... To do the best he can for the ones he loves, to help where he can, to be open with his emotions, to be strong, to be vulnerable, to possess integrity, to let his partner in, to dream, to inspire, to lead, to follow, to advise, to learn, to talk, to listen, to give love, to receive love, to be patient, to be kind, to be wise, to hope, to believe... Foxy

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madotara69

12 years ago

Why grown up women like to skip Some even chime, sounds like Big Ben at midnight ding ding ding ding ding aling ding ding.... Ok need a cold teaspoon before the old lovers balls ache. Could only imagine what goes on, in between! those duo balls. I bought three sets for Tara, just because of her smile, better than flowers.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Watching TV it seems that "MEN" are into.....football, pubs, gambling, and only socialize with a beer permanently in the hand, .....Or.....they are rich, 6pack and chiseled jaw....thats about the choice. But as others have said there are those who have emotions, pride,passion....who can be intimate and strong at the same time.. Its that group who gets bypassed because we dont stand out amongst the average person. I said 'yes' to all the points in the original post, and read how many women think those guys don't exist..... we do, plenty have responded to this thread, but many women don't discover them because as I said before they blend in amongst the average joe..... I guess the same thing could be said about the reverse of the question....there are lots of amazing women who dont stand out to others because they might seem average. Whats the solution I wonder? - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

12 years ago

well is there such a thing well that all depends on the woman they are with.there is no one person the same the way every one sees life depends on the life they live I my self opened doors pulled out chairs gave my jacket on a cold night I always used to compliment my ex wife on how she looked went to the shops to buy her tampons when she ran out of them and watched chick flicks with her.not every woman likes that.beside doing all those thing doesn't necessarily make for a happy relationship

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RHP User

12 years ago

Thank you also for your kind words....blushing a bit here but saddened a little bit too. To explain, the women I have met and have had a relationship with didn't really appreciate the qualities I did open up and reveal to you in this forum. I know I am not perfect but it seemed that they either needed or wanted something more than just those qualities. I was really confused when I was told that the only reason I was helping out was to get attention...that the only reason I opened my heart was to get her to feel sorry for me...that when I do try to see what's in her heart, I'm only doing that to hurt her, that the only reason I was getting the door for her was only to get into her pants etc etc...so I began to think that I was a shit kind of guy and I just left for a few days because I had to get away as I was hurt and I needed time to think and also because when I try to explain that I'm not those things I would get yelled at (I hate arguing..grew up seeing my parents argue so I just hate going through it) when I would come back I would just be accused of sleeping around and yeh planning to go with someone else. I would explain but she never saw the hurt I was in when she said those things... So yeh I was questioning whether I was a guy worth having....a real man if you will. But yeh I know now that there is a woman who would appreciate the qualities I put down...just haven't met her yet :)

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JT009

12 years ago

We are out there, but the douche bag men overshadow the nice ones by sheer persistence.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Your description was great...actually it's inspiring....Manhood is a journey,we all travel down that road,we love,we get hurt,we learn,but we still treat others with respect and believe in ourselves,and we become better men for it.

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