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Is MMF deemed unacceptable ??
June 05 2020
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RHP User
5 years ago
I think when we enjoy sex as a hobby / sport we are all very human and when we get down to it all bi. Let the magic happen 😈🚀⚡️💥🌈
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RHP User
5 years ago
Particularly in Australia, there is an expectation that if you are a 'male' you are on the straight, not vanilla, and not explicitly affectionate guy. The labels like 'softy' or 'puss' may be attacked to bi guys quicker than straight guys. It is also a sort of socio-cultural phenomena! If you live Newtown in Sydney it is most likely you are more open minded and more open to the idea of swinging or bi play in general! I agree with the original post that most men have a little curiosity but have fear of being judged if they explicitly mention it on their profile.
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RHP User
5 years ago
mmm- interesting comment yo make teamaj2. I love MMF - as long as everyone has respect for one another. It can be so stimulating, exciting, erotic and just damn sexy fun. I think that if people have a problem with it, it is their shortfalls. Cheers - keep well and safe.
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Mr_Man5580
5 years ago
Maybe it comes from men not finding themselves attractive. Therefore, finding another man attractive is somehow wrong. When a woman likes men she's called derogatory names. If a man does the same, it's worse. Yet people seem to understand a woman finding a woman attractive, because it fits with the male-dominated view of sexual beauty. Let go of that single-sided perspective, and men become just as alluring.
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3_is_party
5 years ago
It’s my biggest fantasy and I can’t find it. :(
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skmw069
5 years ago
We accept any time of play. Hands, mouths and tongues everywhere😁😁😁 No stigmas in this relationship
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Fit4fun99
5 years ago
It’s the best!
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RHP User
5 years ago
MFM is by far my fovourite sexual group activity, to see a women thrive on having 2 cocks ... got af
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RHP User
5 years ago
My profile states straight but have done a few bi things before. Its about the couple asking first. I'm not bi, I dont go look for it, but if somebody is straight up what they want, I'll respond accordingly and politely.
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RHP User
5 years ago
There are a lot of men that don't have bi on there profile that are hitting me up on here, maybe there married or worried if they put it on there profile they will scare off others, being a bi guy I find it hard to find a bi couple
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RHP User
5 years ago
Honestly hate hearin that. We came out as bi to each other and its strengthened our relationship tenfold even to the point that we want an MMF relationship. Dont get me wrong were open to so much more but I kinda find it astounding people in this day and age and in this culture would behave like that. We clearly dont give two fucks what anyone thinks of us but thats disappointing to hear as a couple only a year into this 🤯
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RHP User
5 years ago
MMF is not frowned upon, i suppose there are still some that prefer discreet, you just need to know how to reach out :). I would prefer MMF/MMFF to MFF any day. The straight guys contacting you are just hoping you're comfortable with what they want 🤣 thirsty boys
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RHP User
5 years ago
So , if your a single male that is bi curious but very willing , where is the best place to start
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Naughtydouble
5 years ago
BEEN ON HERE LONG ENOUGH TO KNOW 😊 we vett to get what we want AND those that want FMM MMF MFM find it ENJOY your own journey like anything if you research you ll end having a much better time and we all have busy life styles. SO MAKE THE MOST OF EVERY MOMENT we do 😱😜
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RHP User
5 years ago
I don’t consider myself bi but I like to play with both ??
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Hotasianwife
5 years ago
I think that a lot of you people miss the fact that actually most MMF are not with bi men. They are with two straight guys pleasuring one girl. MMF does not mean you are bi.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I personally don't have any problems with a mmf situation however for me it would be a case of the female enjoying two males and I would not have any interest in the other male. To be completely honest it is a case that there is more believability that a female would allow me to participate if she is happy with multiple partners involved rather than a female that is only happy with the partner that she has an emotional connection with. I don't believe that I would be happy in a long term relationship with a female that wants others males involved, however I would not have any problems with a girl that is attracted to other females as I feel that other females offer them something that is not in any conflict to what I offer. I would not want a girl that hides what they want and cheats with women because that is something that I do not have, but if they are honest an willing to involve me with the other women that is a dream come true
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RHP User
5 years ago
We are a young couple early 20’s - I think we are probably from a generation that is much more accepting of peoples sexuality and it’s not an issue . For us gay , bi, straight is just like he is into bdsm and she is into rough sex - it’s just an element of people’s sexuality . Accordingly we approach it the same way - respecting people’s boundaries and choices and expecting the same . Personally we ha w learnt a lot from people across the sexual spectrum and am sure we will learn more . We also find people across that spectrum very sexual and we like that . We both love to swatch each other with others and find lots of people into same of all sexual persuasions !
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RHP User
5 years ago
Love a mmf bi threeway 👌
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Hormybitchplus
5 years ago
Its more than acceptable I'm str and me and my wife done this several times
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Perth01
5 years ago
Totally acceptable- Depending up on the maturity of the players and level of involvement. I think the key will be to establish the roles and boundaries at start - Nothing like being with another man who is not open to share his partner and being a control freak while the lady is trying to open up. I had this incident which lead to an argument among the couple 😑
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RHP User
5 years ago
We have done mmf with straight guys before and we find it fun
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RHP User
5 years ago
yes is an issue - even when writing profile do you put Bi or not ? will putting Bi limit the people who may wish to interact with you? hard enough for genuine single guys on here already
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RHP User
5 years ago
Acceptable? Why it's almost mandatory! 😜
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RHP User
5 years ago
For me MMF does not mean I have to be bi, for me MMF is to worship and cherish the woman involved, to have two men giving you all their attention, make you feel like you are a queen. Don’t get me wrong, I realise their are many different versions of MMF, and I judge nobody, but for me as a straight male, that is just my thoughts on it and why I want to participate or participate with my partner And I.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Mmf is the best dynamic
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Sawadee
5 years ago
I cant believe all this talk from guys who indulge in MM then saying they're not bi ???... Excuse me ? If it looks like a duck , quacks like a duck.. good chance it is a duck ... 😏
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RHP User
5 years ago
If a woman finds that a turn off or it's a deal breaker for couples then that's one thing. But to shun or exclude someone or even repress them just for expressing their sexuality or being keen to explore is not cool. Sadly there's still too much of that in all directions. Why can't we just move past this?
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RHP User
5 years ago
The hottest fuck I've ever seen is 2straight guys fucking. The ultimate
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LoveToHaveFunRHP
5 years ago
Nothing wrong with it at all
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RHP User
5 years ago
I had 3 members block me today, just for mentioning it. 2 single females and a couple. I had been chatting with them for a little while. All had a mention of it in their profiles. I wasn't pushy or anything like that. That's one reason why I dont say I am
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RHP User
5 years ago
If I'm playing with a couple and I know they're comfortable with mm play, you bet I'm going to crossing swords or taste her while partner is fucking her silly.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I’ve never picked up on an issue with it as yet. I consider myself straight with an open mind and haven’t had any dramas with anyone but I also respect others and their boundaries.
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RHP User
5 years ago
We only play mmf and are both more than happy to play with straight or bi guys.
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justin8888
5 years ago
I love mmf I would sort after it before I went looking for ffm.. but I consider myself straight nothing wrong with a fun spot roast or a DP ! Even 2 up inside a pussy is fine.. doesn't mean u have to be bi to have fun while another dude is there 👌😈😈
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RHP User
5 years ago
MMF play is the best. She gets the attention of two men all to herself, perfect
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Sensu
5 years ago
I have finally decided to act on my mostly straight fantasies of MMF I want to be free to enjoy a sexy cock while we play
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RHP User
5 years ago
I think there is still an element of stigma if a guy says he's bi. Another thought is if a guy lists bi on his profile, they may be inundated with messages from guys looking for a quick fuck. I personally have no interest in having a guy penetrate my anally, however, I'd be more than happy to suck a guys cock in a MMF scenario
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mrmike2455
5 years ago
I find it a bit strange. Every "mans fantasy" is 2 fems in bed. Because we are in an "blokey"sex world 2 guys even touching is a big no no. A bit hypocritical i think.
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angelbaby2017
5 years ago
I don't think it should matter what you do behind closed doors is your business but I'd be up for anything eophoria089 is up for 😂😂😂🤷🏼♀🙊🙊
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Logan83
5 years ago
I think mmf is more than acceptable but it seems that guys like me are a rare thing. I don't understand why it should be an issue when having a threesome etc with a couple and for the guys to play with each other as well. It's a turn on for the girl and it turns the guys on knowing that she's getting off as well. I love all types of threesomes and group fun. Just thinking about it makes me hard 😊. I just wish It was easier to find people who aren't afraid to let loose and have kinky fun with. It's a shame that alot of people are afraid of what other people think. But lets face it life is to short to not enjoy it. We only live once besides it's human nature to want to fuck other people no matter how much we try to convince ourselves we dont lol. Anyway that's my opinion on the matter and I hope to hear from some horny people soon. Feel free to message me if you want to. Well happy fucking
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Party_Pair
5 years ago
We enjoy playing regularly. There should not be any stigma attached to it at all. We are just all having fun after all. Do what you like, with who you like we say!
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RHP User
5 years ago
Hi Everyone. When we search profiles we generally put we are looking for Bi, not curious, but when you have a quick peek at the people who have responded positively to this forum, may identify as Experimental. **makes mental note and changes search criteria ** Happy hunting all, see you on the fun side.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Honestly, as a bisexual guy there is still issues. I’m happy to play straight or bi but as soon as you say your bi, that seems to pigeon hole you and straight couples aren’t interested And the number of men who say they are straight in their profile but are actually bi curious or bi is huge, just be honest guys
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RHP User
5 years ago
MMF is pure indulgence and lets be honest, if you are doing it right, there is more than enough woman to go around. If done right, MMF turns the F on so much that she gives both Ms a mind blowing experience.
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RHP User
5 years ago
We love MMF MM FF most of all MMFF it really is the bestbof both worlds, please contact us if you want too play.....lol
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RHP User
5 years ago
I've found that there a couples who are looking for a single straight male, and so myself who is happy to be involved in both bi and straight if I have bi in my profile im ruled out by the straight couples worried that I'll cross the line
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Toeeey
5 years ago
This topic has come up so much with me & mine...at first we thought of trying too add another female but we've already done that once before. As the conversation grew more in depth and etc we kind of found that potentially allowing another male too join us kind of arousing...although Im rather territorial of my partner, It was more so my idea..Werent too sure what people would think of us if they had found it...For instance be looked at as if I was more bi..which isnf the case. We just want too give ita good old go...
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RHP User
5 years ago
A bi man is a unicorn... something to be treasured when found!!
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RHP User
5 years ago
We have the same problem.. as you eluded we have mostly straight guys contacting us obvio not reading our profile.. MMF is our favourite way to play.. but to many single men aren't up for it and only want to bang the woman in the room while the partner watches. We aren't vanilla and love the kink side.. Its hard to find matches.. but that is ok, as when we do we have a wonderful time. Unfortunately the patrons at clubs here in Perth are mostly looking for a Unicorn.. and that isn't our MO
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RHP User
5 years ago
We love MMF Bi curious guys to the front here please ?
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RHP User
5 years ago
I’ve had straight mfm and bi mmf and enjoyed both ways It’s all about respecting people’s boundaries and having fun
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MissMasBeach
5 years ago
MFM is fantastic because of how much pleasure it gives the woman, whether or not the guys are into each other. Even better when they are. I would encourage my fellow straight guys to try a bit of MM interaction in this situation in the spirit of friendship and because it makes the whole situation more intimate. It doesn't make you "gay" if that idea bothers you, it just makes for better friendships with the couple. Remember that every time you step out of your comfort zone - it gets bigger!
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wantin696
5 years ago
We’ve had numerous MFM experiences, and theyve been a lot of fun. Never realised the meaning of MMF compared to MFM though.
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RHP User
5 years ago
We've found that a majority of profiles are straight male/bi female. We are a rare couple being bi male/ 100% straight female. Makes finding someone very hard.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Bi mmf is something id like to try before im 40 "new to guys so can be shy" looking in the Fraser Coast Queensland
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RHP User
5 years ago
I don't mind MMF at all as long as everyone is happy
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RHP User
5 years ago
A lot of guys just want to see their wives pleasured by another man. With me it's a control thing. I don't consider myself a Cuck or a Sissy, but I do love the bittersweet feeling of losing control of the situation.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I get a lot of guys checking out my profile. And it’s clearly just me as a single make. Not as a couple. So they are curious to say the least. But I’m wondering if it’s just to have a quick chat and “get off” and then back to their mundane life? I need to find a very exploratory couple that is willing to just be open to anything
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Naughty1
5 years ago
Hi all I’m looking to exploring new things I’m looking to join couples for 3some fun I’m looking to play with both I’m first timers looking to sucking cock perfect ifs you have big cock because I’m want to being fucked for my first time if’s someone interested to having great sexual fun contact me I’m sucking you so hard then you put your cock in my ass
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RHP User
5 years ago
Everyone up here on the Gold Coast and Brisbane is super straight Don’t dare mention mmf! Boring bunch really!!
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RHP User
5 years ago
I’m horny 24/7 wish I wasn’t but I can’t change things
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JT2024
5 years ago
Im in Sydney and have had several bi mmf 3 sums. And each time had an awesome time. The main aspects for me are good communicating between all 3 so all on the same page and being respectful. Not rushing, not being pushy and happy to forfill their desires over my own.. Even though mine are being forfilled just being there. I have always tried to ascertain how much attention each person is expecting and work with them to achieve the most fun for all. In most but not all cases it has been the couples first time trying so they are usually very nervous to start with but once the ball gets rolling... everyone has fun.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Im definitely of the inclination that a threesome or any group sex should be an open and inclusive experience. Get amongst that bi action! I think people need to be straight up about what they want or don’t want from the get go. Honesty is key. And that includes being honest with yourself.
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RHP User
5 years ago
We have our profile listed looking for MMF bi
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RHP User
5 years ago
It's a lot of fun between couples to share.
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RHP User
5 years ago
We regularly have single guys in for a MMF and yes most of their profiles say they are straight. We love the energy that 2 guys with no stigma can generate.
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RHP User
5 years ago
It you guys were in sydney i would happily play with you both, im out and proud to say im Bi, nothing wrong with enjoying men or women. Good sex is good sex. To me does not matter what is between thier legs as long as its good clean fun and all parties consent, go for it
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Ms_Insatiable
5 years ago
How would you even begin to organise a MFM or even more M
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Sexytime1970
5 years ago
As a bisexual guy, I know that I can play it straight with a couple who want that. I have contacted couples who only want straight stuff & im either completely ignored or get the response of “not into bi guys” & I’m ok with that. On the forums I have asked about the lack of responses from people that I’ve contacted & was told by a few people that having bi on my profile is the most likely reason. So I think there is a form of negative stigma for bi guys, which I believe is why some have straight on their profile.
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Keepitfun01
5 years ago
In my experience MMF are great fun, as long as everyone has the right attitude, but that is the way of everything. What other people think of me is none of my business. Do what feels right and dont waste your mental energy worrying about others opinions. I will add after quite a few MMF encounters, we found that often someone came to be less involved, you must be mindful to not allow that to happen. Our solution was we went for MMMF encounters, this seemed to work far better for us as both myself and my partner (F) never were sidelined unless thats what we wanted. Worked for us, but everyone is different. Do what feels right and damn the rest.
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Keepitfun01
5 years ago
My ex-partner (F) and I found that alot of men claimed to be bi and werent, or did minimal bi play under sufferrance, because they really were there to fuck her. It didnt take long to work out questions that quickly cut the chaff from the wheat and we weeded them out easily. Also my partner had a rule that she wouldnt join in unless she saw legitimate and genuine MM action with myself and the guest. This was conveyed before they arrived at our home. We also weeded out the 3rd spokes who thought it was all about them, it wasnt, it was all about us, thats why we invited them into our bedroom As soon as we had this sorted out we found a steady stream of decent 3rd spokes
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RHP User
5 years ago
Some great comments here, and differening views on what being a "bisesexual male" means. My experience is that a "straight" male can suck cock without being bisexual. For people like me, sucking cock is more of a fetish, or something that gives us a buzz "venturing to the other side" only on ocassion. Bisexual men are actually attracted to other men and feel a kind of lust or passion for men in a similar way to how they feel about women. Whereas a heteroflexible man may not feel any attraction to the male in an emotional or physical sense, but gets a thrill out of pleasuring a man for his, or his partners fantasy and pleasure. A heteroflexible male can entirely enjoy the experience, and is a totally willing participant in what may "appear to be bisexual" - but it is not. I think that heteroflexible males are a kind of unicorn in a sense - because their actions are more about taboo than lifestyle. Kinky fuckers welcome to PM me. X
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RHP User
5 years ago
Who gives a sh.. what others think! Thats why we are on the site to experience what we like, whatever that is. 😝.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I agree it has a stigma attached it is an area I’m keen to explore but find realy hard to find a couple willing to try a new be ,but hey keep on try and hopefully I’ll succeed.stay safe out there
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Aus_Asian4fun
5 years ago
What do you mean by "frowned upon"? Its much less common and there is a perfectly good explanation for that. Women are much more often bisexual or at least bicurious than men. which makes ffm a much more common occurrence. When it comes to men, they are much more often either straight or gay, one or the other, not even bicurious. Thats not to say there arent plenty of bi or bicurious guys out there, its just that they are nowhere near as common as some might like, and nowhere near as common as female bisexuality. So i wouldnt say theres a stigma so much as there is a different common preference for men. Two straight men can enjoy a woman together if the guys arent touching each other etc, but it seems that isnt what you want, and you want a bisexual guy. That isnt all that common.
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Naughty1
5 years ago
I’m never having 3som fun with couples never having fun with male I’m straight but I’m looking to meet bisexual couples to having fun for my first time see what happens I’m open to trying anything I’m want to sucking I’m happy ifs you husband want to fuck me soo hard for my first time.
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Naughty1
5 years ago
I’m straight but I’m looking for bisexual couples to having fun with both
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RHP User
5 years ago
My husband and I swing with other couples, but love MMF play dates over FFM. We are both bi and feel. My husband is respectful of males that are straight.
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Dieguba
5 years ago
I’m in to join you two for a hot MMF
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RHP User
5 years ago
A hole is a hole and any hole is the goal? Or is that just how I think 😈👍
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RHP User
5 years ago
Well MMF is my favourite thing in the world. If 3 adults consent to meet and share an amazing experience, I personally don’t care one bit what anyone else thinks. Their loss my gain. The hard thing in Newcastle is finding 2 gents to fulfill this 😩
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RHP User
5 years ago
Mmf is one of our favs
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sexycouple889RHP
5 years ago
We just had our first MMF as a couple, and it was amazing for everyone involved. Mr had a great time being in the middle I found it hot and sexy watching him getting screwed by the other guy. Was great and would recommend it to anyone. Can not wait to do it again!
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RHP User
5 years ago
Absolutely acceptable
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ocean_man
5 years ago
I have had a few women message me and after some more messages realise I am bi and that is the end of the conversation. And people complain that it is only men that don't read profiles ... lol Most of the messages I get are very positive though. The decision of whether to list myself as straight or bi, in my profile, depended on whether I was looking for meetings of bodies or meetings of minds. I am looking for both. I want playmates that not only like a bi man, but actually desire one. If someone doesn't like it then I am not interested in concealing my preferences, just to get them naked :D
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RHP User
5 years ago
Thank fully things have changed and continue to change, yes there are pockets of hold outs but on the whole the whole Bi Male thing is becoming more accepted we find. Yes single women either love seeing a guy guy play or hate it as its competition for a cock. Yes, some couples are still totally against it, as is their right. We prefer honesty and being real to ourselves, to be honest we would love a lot more bi play but my girl is so damn greedy! lol, also finding a genuine bi guy (chemistry x 3) is a hard to find as a bi girl. Timing, location, availability family, hornyness all come into it. In order to make it work for us we have to make a effort to be available. Lets hope it keeps changing and general acceptance happens, there will always be bigots no matter what we all do but that is the spice of life.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I don't mind saying I like both MMF and FFM Some of my fav sexual experiences have been in a MMF.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I absolutely love bi mmf. All my favourite experiences with couples have been those with everyone playing with each other. So much fun.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I certainly hope not. I love watching two guys together and I love playing with two men.
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gazpacho
5 years ago
Ive met all teh best people this way. Hugs Stalky.
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RHP User
5 years ago
To me it’s all about the woman. The fact the partner is willing to share her with a complete stranger tells me that he loves her and just wants her to enjoy herself. I’m all for that. Never had an issue and it’s always been respectful MMF is fine FFM is better though 😜
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RHP User
5 years ago
MMF is the best!!!! I love it! If i get the chance I would do it so often if I can!
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RHP User
5 years ago
I don't see a problem with it along as everyone having fun.
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cbteager
5 years ago
Yeah it's a crazy society we live in. The MM sex scene is considered dirty and that may or may not come from the need for anal penetration and before you say "it's ok for women to do anal" yeah I know but double standards are everywhere, I've had an MMM threesome and it was the hottest thing ever even though I prefer women.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I recently hooked up with a FWB..she is organising a MMF for me. Who am I so say no?!
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timeformeandfun
5 years ago
I personally think that mmf is amazing I actually enjoy it more than ffm
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RHP User
5 years ago
MMF is hot as. Only tried it recently and OMG what an experience.
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immortal_lover72
5 years ago
I don’t know why. I love it! And when I was married my husband enjoyed another guy joining us
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RHP User
5 years ago
MMF has become our favourite dynamic! To each there own we suppose, but it is a lot of fun in our opinion.
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