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Do you root on a first date. ?
March 04 2015
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RHP User
11 years ago
Standard interaction is go with the flow and by that stage we should already have you flowing mentally to make it irresistible physically :) Postions vacant apply within ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I say why not. If u meet and feel an attraction go for it. It's just sex. Why let society guilt trip us into not doing something that 99% of us obviously enjoy doing - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'EuropianBliss' I do fuck on first dates.But if ya buy me burger at Macvcas, well no I dont fuck on first dates. Ps you buy the condoms love, and tickets back and forth :P Any chance of having a couples clause, say If I buy you the burger, then that could be me at the perils of your rule !! Therefore Tara still sweet as ? Plus what if part with buying you a burger was indeed only part of the kink for you having too select a choice of toy given with the burger, and that toy had to be the sex toy and only sex toy that could be fashioned by your imagination as to design for debauchery back up the mountain and all for the sex swing hanging of the branch of a tree Of course the toy disposed of, once it's purpose had served a purpose. Keeping it perfectly legal and no chance for being accidental in some kiddies toy box. You could toss the burger, actually let them keep it and give it away, making the whole event charitable as one good clean deed done to even out the dirty bad deed for the toy at all expense for some kinky device for probing something that will heighten the intensities for the fear while in a sex swing off a branch only a short way out over the edge of a cliff that took the Earth a billion years to raise it amongst the clouds so high, looking down would alone have the sphincter puckering up in contractions. Happy to pay for the burger, but doubt we have the fly buys for a jet trip for the one night and first date we need you here for the thrills with living on the edge. And, since when have you had rules. ????? Oh we already have the condoms, save the baggage weight going over at departure. Of course we care to weight factors and the branch is strong enough for one hanging in the swing chained to it, so we sought out the lightest condoms can be found. No need for shoes either, pack light and skimpy on the clothing. Actually if you did break your rule on the burger at maccas for the toy and and were happy with a bit of rooting on the first date, then we only need you to wear, some light cotton briefs and perhaps a little silky fine robe, or that rainbow skirt you need knickers to cover the a glimpse, sounds perfect. Mado Mado Tara xx
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LetsFrolic
11 years ago
I do - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'SimonDoes' I only fuck on first dates. If you want round 2 you better bang me so hard that i don't remember. I'm making a list by the way. Some of you will be hearing from me ;) and Check it twice. . So we gonna find out who is naughty or nice?
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Seachange73
11 years ago
do you 'root' or MAKE LURV?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'SimonDoes' I only fuck on first dates. If you want round 2 you better bang me so hard that i don't remember. I'm making a list by the way. Some of you will be hearing from me ;) and Check it twice. . So we gonna find out who is naughty or nice? I'm keen to find out myself, but I'm hardly going to kiss and tell
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RHP User
11 years ago
"I don't fuck on the first date"... well if all you're listening to only the words, of course she won't... if you can't read the body language, then when it comes to sex which is nearly all body language, you'll be giving her a poor "communication". You might have to put a few chips into the pot and call her bluff.... And you might be just be richly rewarded or have to limp in for a few more nights to gain the pay offs. Plus if you're dealt a bad hand for the night (like she had a bad day at work), you might find luck not in your favour. At the end of the day, if you both want to share thofaction then it's going to happen, but you gotta play the night you both are given. Plus if you just want a root, your right hand can do the job. Night out should be about fun, and if sex is part of that fun then great, if not then it should still be a fun night :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you never look into a woman's eyes..if you it beside her and watch as the Bison pass by...if you do not concentrate on her,look at her LISTEN to her.watch her body language,is she leaning towards you or away?.. Develop your social intelligence,learn what the cues are ,be conscious,in the moment,stop thinking about the flathead you almost caught yesterday...if you re interested in HER and not just your dick and where you want to put it...you might,jut might get lucky..as they say xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Flatfish?? is that a Texan euphemism for a "mighty fine bit of tail.", and yes I would be a little pre occupied making sure if that "fish" did not leave a stray red pube lost in my goatie during that "fishing trip" the day before.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Bien. Le jeu commence. .. lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
.....if chemistry is there and you both want it...why not...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Bien. Le jeu commence. .. lol But I'm afraid my French is limited to: Bonjour, allez-vous coucher avec moi ce soir Which probably brings us back on topic
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think women say they don't put out on the first date so they don't come across as a slut or as easy. Also it's a lot easier for a woman to turn a man down if she has already said she won't put out on the first date. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Since I'm abit of a romantic.. I make LURVE... But I have been known to root , shag , chuck a leg, bonk , hide the sausage, bury derek, and of course fuck ... Lurve ' that you got a giggle out of root ? hehe..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Get over it... Whose worried whether your fucked or rooted.. Its a turn of phrase FFS.. If thats the biggest concern you ladies have, god help us....
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RHP User
11 years ago
I often use the word root and the adjective rootable ..as in,..Oh yes he looks quite rootable ..fuckable is also good,but sexually pulchritudenous is just so much betterer to pop into those conversations that begin with....Oooh er corrrr check him out..he sure is sexually pulchritudenous. !!😍😍😍XxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
if theres a second 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'SimonDoes' Quoting 'lilyorchid' Bien. Le jeu commence. .. lol But I'm afraid my French is limited to: Bonjour, allez-vous coucher avec moi ce soir Which probably brings us back on topic you mean - Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'SimonDoes' Quoting 'lilyorchid' Bien. Le jeu commence. .. lol But I'm afraid my French is limited to: Bonjour, allez-vous coucher avec moi ce soir Which probably brings us back on topic you mean - Voulez-vous coucher avec moi? Ah yes, that's it, although I was never sure why the former is incorrect. I was more focused on the teacher to be honest ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Voule vous couche avec muah , ceas soir ? .. Spelling might be a bit awry .. but according to a French girl I once meet .. That's the correct way it's pronounced'. but don't quote me on that ? Wasn't it the Pointer Sisters who sang that .. ? and yes '. I know what it means....
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_me' Since I'm abit of a romantic.. I make LURVE... But I have been known to root , shag , chuck a leg, bonk , hide the sausage, bury derek, and of course fuck ... Lurve ' that you got a giggle out of root ? hehe.. Hahaha. hide the sausage... Dear me... lol
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Seachange73
11 years ago
you talking to me? Lol refer to my previous message to Simon for spelling. Merci.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'SimonDoes'Bonjour, allez-vous coucher avec moi ce soir Quoting 'lilyorchid' you mean - Voulez-vous coucher avec moi? I prefer Simon's version. I'm a doer, not an asker. And if we're talking semantics, it would be pronounced "Voolay Voo coochay ah-vec mwah suh-swaar."
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Haha. But trust me mea. I am a doer and never a bystander. At wor, life or in my sports. Xxx. ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
The song is Lady Marmalade,the singer Patti La Belle xx...would you like to sleep with me tonight ?.."sleep"" being another euphemism for "root" 😜xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Me too
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've made up my mind, all night long I'll be honour and offer :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I has to sing it , but your semantic seems . Trust you to know that....
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RHP User
11 years ago
I forget to add. ' nookie ' now how did I miss that... ? I lurve a nookie.. lol...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yeah! Within the first few seconds usually. Am I missing something in translation here? Isn't that what we're here for? Or do you mean dating out in the real world? I don't date in the real world, but hook ups are quite often without words, maybe a 'hi' then it looks something like roadrunner and coyote. Only way to go, why waste time waiting for another date. If the guy stands back and perhaps offers me a drink or something, I walk up and touch his arms, then it's on, god getting horny now, might have to ring a friend
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm here to find like-minded people whom I'm both physically and mentally attracted to, to have sex with. If someone can't seduce my mind, they won't seduce me at all, and for me that takes more than a few minutes to find out.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Doesn't that go without saying ? We all want like minded people who think and react the way we want them to ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Meander It may take time to find out if its going to happen but the first minute is when the possibility of it happening or not is discovered. You meet someone and most of the time you know within the first few minuets. "No way is this ever going to happen." this may be from ones self not wanting it, or one may have the attraction but its easy to see that they do not. There are always exceptions, but they are very rare. What I dislike is when the person you are going on the date with is a very nice and interesting individual but you are not attracted in a sexual way, yet you can see that they are hanging for it. You dont want to give them the shrug off as you enjoy their company and conversation, but you know at some stage you have to lay down the facts. I am a bit of a coward that way and i am sure that the other person by the second or third date (for me its no longer a date) is wondering, when is he going to make a move. That is one reason I dont do the conventional date thing anymore.
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RHP User
11 years ago
YES.FOR SURE,ANAL ALL THE WAY - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
yep' honour and offer all night.. what else could she ask for ? lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' Meander It may take time to find out if its going to happen but the first minute is when the possibility of it happening or not is discovered. You meet someone and most of the time you know within the first few minuets. That first minute for me is usually when reading someone's first messages and seeing the profile though. When I'm meeting someone, to me it means there's a good chance of a yes.However, over the years I've learned that a guy can be an "oh gods, yes!", until an hour into the date he says something that completely turns me off. There was one who made a nasty racist remark, another who was a total jerk to the waiter, and I'll never forget the guy I was ready to fuck on the table, until he said "When you're my girlfriend, I won't want you seeing other men." Next!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Depends if the guy and i are turned on by each other yes,if we don't then no .if its for coffee no but can make plans.if in horny watch out.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
"Me lab you long taim" or " you like HAPPY ENDING?"... lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Of course me lick habby ending, why you tink me lab you long taim too.. lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Such a crack up girl lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes preferably, sometimes even without a date at all.. While i don't expect that a lady come home with me after a date, I "Hope" she might... Nobody should feel obliged to do something they don't want to do anyway.. But then again if a woman Ive never met starts laying down rules of engagement such as "you're not getting any on the first date" or "I absolutely do not fuck on first date"... That just kills any hope or anticipation in my mind and takes away the mystery of what might happen.. Im not big on people that like dictating terms and conditions rather than just going with the flow and see what might happen.. If I wanted that Id go over to EHarmoney or some other ; ) After all it is Open minded people that I seek and I would like to meet people who will keep an open mind..
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RHP User
11 years ago
i have had sex on the first date, we both had an attraction to each other and went for it. there has gotta be that attraction there, and flirting, touching. natural
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't assume anything, but there needs to be chemistry and attraction I won't just have sex for the sake of it after all I'm a die hard romantic! ;)
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Why ask this question? Yiu mean there is a SECOND date? :-p
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why not I'll have a respectful heated crack ;),,
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RHP User
11 years ago
The high moral ground isn't a territory that can be occupied by all. If you can grasp this principle and own it good for you. If your principles are more dictated to by circumstance then so be it. It's not wrong or right to hold a position regardless the circumstance. I'd say, hold a principle, adjust it as circumstances present themselves. In the end you do what feels right, what you can reconcile as right and that's entirely a personal circumstance, impacted by the immediate context. There is no definitive answer, it's almost always contextual, despite your moral predilection. Paul
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RHP User
11 years ago
dont say i never cuz i have ....but just cuz i agree to meet u doesnt mean youre going to get into ma pants this time or any other time
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RHP User
11 years ago
Some men not realise that when they puts on so much pressure before you meet them to have instant sex,you are probably not going to meet them..even though I might have sex on the first date,I want to make up my mind as to whether or not I want to.Asking for a sleep over before we have even met is a deal breaker...I don't do pushy..xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
We can under that a single lady may want to meet a few times, before spending the night. As for my partner and i. We have limited time. We only joined up to meet like minded people for sexy fun. And will meet and play same day. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I SAY MAYBE as I don't go on a date thinking about whether to have sex or not. If there's chemistry there & he asks me back to his place for fun then I'll go. But if I know straight away that they want sex, I'll let them know straight away if it's going to happen or not. I'm not out to waste their time or mine.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Good question Lily. ? I guess if you're a good root on a first date then a second is not out of the question ? Yes ? You lil devil you
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RHP User
11 years ago
Coz 9/10 times I do. The 1/10 is when there is no connection whatsoever, or timing is not right(ie a midweek, lunch or beach date) People have lives and families so quite often only get one night out a week, and I've usually driven a fair way to get there. Having said that, if I'm meeting a single guy I always mention that just because I'm meeting them for a drink doesn't mean I will jump straight into bed with them, or at all. I've had a few guys turn nasty when I wouldn't sleep with them because I've wasted their time, in reality all I've done is bruised their ego. Just because I choose to sleep with a variety of people does not mean I sleep with anybody and everybody!
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RHP User
11 years ago
.......however I am not afraid to say no or that there is no connection. My sole purpose in meeting men here is to fuck them , we are time poor ......so if I arrange to meet and the chemistry is right .....I will be dragging you cave woman style into my room :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Depends . First on if there is sufficient attraction and secondly ... depends on how horny i am at the time lol . So yes and no aha . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Meet first play later.
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RHP User
11 years ago
.... we may as well have a root while we're waiting ? yes ? lol... ( it's a joke Joyce ).
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RHP User
11 years ago
My now husband I knew 3 years before we "dated" and along with the usual spiels "I don't and wouldn't normally do this" however being honest I hadn't had any in awhile after a somewhat terrible break up and went for it and don't regret it
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RHP User
11 years ago
I get offered a branch, only to see a twig.... They promise plenty of sap... More like a drip from the tap.... It's the joy of the climb is what its all about.... Poor rhyming from me...time to bough out... IMO it's all about showing some class before your arse...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I do if the feelings right. I have been taking pills for the last few months which affect my libido and sometimes I can't get it up...I've had a few women in bed in that time, told them I don't have sex on the first night and they actually get upset about it...one even cried...I thought women would be ok with guys taking the gentleman approach but obviously not... Looking forward to getting off the pills haha
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RHP User
11 years ago
it all depends on the women the bloke has too earn it a women can just say yeh okkk let goo
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mate... no you have it all wrong, women cant just have what they want, they set their own goals and sometimes they will even beg for it. Why bother with a moped when there are Harlies around. It is where you set your goals that counts. Looking for second best , that's easy. Top shelf is the place to be, who dares wins right. LOL
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RHP User
11 years ago
orr yer bro i know you get them times were its like a baby cow to a teet haha but i think in genera they have the last choice . choice witch one what time alll that nonsense were in all generality we have to earn it prove worth or were chucked in the social bin with the others because theres another 10 lining up behind you haha i am with you though blindman67 in some cases hahahs such a random convo with a random haha
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RHP User
11 years ago
LOL I am sure you are aware that for every man there is a woman. I am not talking about some metaphysical destined oneness, I am talking pure numbers, give or take a toenail or so, for every man there is one woman So when you say there are 10 (men) lined up behind you, that implies that there are 9 women not in the game and not with a man. Surely they can not all be lesbians (cherish the thought), or the more nightmarish "Not interested in men or sex!". Reality is not so, though more likely is that you are hunting in the wrong area, easy to do when your mates are all guys, they tend to hang out where guys do. You get what I am saying, so time of another corny euphemism Hunting in packs means sharing the meal, hard to do when its a meal for one. Find out where the women are at (hint) talk to them, befriend them, like a mate not as a potencial fuck, and you will find the happy hunting grounds..
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RHP User
11 years ago
never!fisting on first date is fine though in my opinion
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RHP User
11 years ago
vers 2.0 is looking mighty fine
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RHP User
11 years ago
Unless your super hot and I feel like it. It which case yes. But usually no. Confused?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'farfromorthodox' never!fisting on first date is fine though in my opinion Haha then what happens, another coffee to get to know each other before you get into the really kinky shit haha
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RHP User
10 years ago
never said it to anyone.........if i wanna i will....or i won't.......too easy.........
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