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why did you start

April 21 2011

sex

Ok All, Apparently my topics have been too centred around my support for fatter people, so i have another question for you all. Why did you start this type of lifestyle? 3somes 4 somes and for some 1somes. We gave it a bash because our sex life had slowed, we were both dreaming and fantasising so we took the step for a 3some, the first was an absolute dooooooozy, the girl showed up, did not match pics, did not match age and was more like a streetworker from the Bronx. thanks to patience and sites like this we scored! have you taken the step here because it is easy and anonymity is somewhat guaranteed, have you tried the papers, personals? Mr and Mrs Mum

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    80% of the profiles on here are deviant males looking for a quick root. 10% are voyers & undecided 5% are fugly The rest are choosy and cautious after encountering the above.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Looking for something and found everything elseThere are good days and bad days and the rest of the daysIf I could recommend something for everyone it would be.Just because you're looking for something doesn't mean you shouldn't look at the catalogue for everything else.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We joined basically because we have an awesome sex life and wanted others to be a part of it and to enjoy the thrill of being with new people together. We have met a bunch of fantastic people and have had some brilliant experiences and hope to keep it up well into the future.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Originally I joined this type of site to experiment with blokes or actually trannys lol , which was great btw , but now it's more about "experimenting" with girls most of the time and blokes a little bit and with a view to possibly being in a fairly open relationship with a girl ; in a nutshell. How it goes for me is currently I seem to have loads of fun with couples and quite a few single girls too. Yeah I continue on here coz it's easy and I've met so many really cool people , some of whom have become friends. And yes the anonymity is useful in many ways and also allows me to do things without my family and friends finding out ; they are very conservative and religious , if they knew about my double-life they would totally freak.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Lost the first answer to this thread d'oh! Somehow clicked to another page and the back button didn't remember my message boo!! But lucky it wasn't too long! So first I don't like to call RHP/my sex life, 'A TYPE OF LIFESTYLE' I am a person that doesn't like to be defined by 'a few things'! A bit like that so what do u do for a living question, are you married? kids? blah boring zzzzz I thank my lucky stars that I am not a pure Lesbian, only coz i reckon i'd need a tattoo stating that my life interests are this and that, and i am talented in blah area, my personality traits are this and that, my interests are this and that. List ALL of who i am and then in tiny writing P.S. Society labels me a 'lesbian' but i do no want to be DEFINED BY THAT FOR EVERYTHING, i am just as interesting as any hetro! why do u all care so much about the sex i choose to sleep with! My gay mates seem to have to deal with that one dimension of their lives TOO MUCH!! ok so that maybe too long for a tattoo... But my point is, i hate labels, and being on RHP is just one of things i am about! I didn’t ‘choose’ this lifestyle, it is simply an interest of mine and i have many interests! My sexcapades started with girl, then guy, then girl and guy, sex games etc i ‘labelled’ it experimentation and thought i’d grow out of it.... yeah, the cracks in monogamy were there, i now know that i didn’t really 'grow out of it' the wanting to experiement and try new sexcapades? And boy baby am i learning about a lot of new stuff thanks to RHP, but for me it is all curiosity and fun driven interest. Lifestyle encompasses work and leisure, activities, attitudes, interests, values, needs and wants influenced by culture, family and others. Sorry didn’t mean to get hung up on the word to this degree. I guess i just don’t like being labelled!! Life is a path of discovery and i like the idea of being open to everything and not being labelled by aspects of my life (it is that society judgement thing i suppose!)? I guess in some areas i want to fly under the radar and not have to explain myself to people who are not like minded?! I'd prefer to choose my battles! 2nd time round went on a tangent i think opps! (Forum moderators! please b'day pressie to me, instant posting back?)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Welcome back TR! . I agree with catalogue shopping, the true successes with this site usually come about from finding all that you weren't looking for. .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I realised I would never want to be a mayor or the police commissioner, so I figured wtf... why not!HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky'I realised I would never want to be a mayor or the police commissioner, so I figured wtf... why not!HugsStalkyAhh but did you expect to become a shining pillar of this community though?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' Quoting 'stalky'I realised I would never want to be a mayor or the police commissioner, so I figured wtf... why not!HugsStalkyAhh but did you expect to become a shining pillar of this community though? shinning Stalky's 'pillar' is staffed around the clock, with no less than one council member at all times, but as the roster will be on a weekly rotation, there maybe some overlap with multiple staff members being rostered on at the same time... With fringe benefits like this in the'package' I am sure Stalky would gladly change his mind and take the position as Mayor of this community, unless of course there are other candidate nominations to consider? Then we would have to go to the polls and caste our votes!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You summed it up perfectly! That was/is us in a nutshell- And exactly why we joined Couldn't have said it better ourselves! "We joined basically because we have an awesome sex life and wanted others to be a part of it and to enjoy the thrill of being with new people together".....plus I love being with a girl too :) Mich

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Initially I was in a couple and we were members then I was bored with my sex life (within the couple) and set up a single profile...now being a single girl and having the time of my life I got hooked into the forums and stay because they wont let me leave ... lol.... . Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'focusliason' Initially I was in a couple and we were members then I was bored with my sex life (within the couple) and set up a single profile...now being a single girl and having the time of my life I got hooked into the forums and stay because they wont let me leave ... lol.... . Kisses FocusIs it my imagination or has your profile pic changed like 3 times today already?? Is there by any chance a little cotton tail affixed to the bottom of your baby blue ensemble that u are hiding from us all??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    For us, we enjoy our extra curricular activitys, but want to keep it away from friends and family. Can have a load of discreet fun with people that are likeminded!More for him that her, however we are both pleased with the results! :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    because we were drunk and bored...... and looking for a giggle.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' Quoting 'focusliason' Initially I was in a couple and we were members then I was bored with my sex life (within the couple) and set up a single profile...now being a single girl and having the time of my life I got hooked into the forums and stay because they wont let me leave ... lol.... . Kisses FocusIs it my imagination or has your profile pic changed like 3 times today already?? Is there by any chance a little cotton tail affixed to the bottom of your baby blue ensemble that u are hiding from us all?? Her little brother and being the nice Mummy that I am, I took him home with me and gave Focus the five day break, Mother and child free!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    After the breakup of my long term relationship and waiting the requisite time to get over it all I decided that I didnt want to spend the rest of my life without recreational sex. Where does someone my age go to meet men? Pubs and clubs are geared to the younger set and I would not feel comfortable going there on my own anyway. I had joined another site but when Focus said she was on here, I had to join as well. We are close in age for mother and daughter and there was a possibility of us both chatting or playing with the same guy. We talk so that this does not happen.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I spent a lot of time in Norway off and on.....I totally blame(thank) them. They have a much more open attitude towards sex then a lot of countries I have visited, swinging is still largely frowned upon in most places..I mean be honest how many people here tell there families or friends what they get up too. I know some do but not many....I myself tell no one. Anyway the start was pretty simple...I was in a bar in Norway chatting up a lovely girl, after about 2 hours she asked would I like to go back to her house...of course was the reply. On the way out of the bar she went up to a guy at the bar spoke to him for a minute then joined me at the door. I asked who was that...she replied my husband...I almost fell over...but she explained that is wasn't a problem. About 2 hours later he came back and we spent an evening with his lovely lady wife....well that was me hooked. That simple really.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Mummy loves ya! :) awwww all the complaining paid off lol! Or maybe mummy was scared that she'd never see the kid again? Great result non the less! PolietMale I will have to BLAME DENMARK! My dad is from there, but I know VERY little about the people and culture. Mum is Greek and as much as she tried to program and mould me into a good Greek girl err big FAIL! My friends have always been used to my silty/friendly behavior and never judged, I am lucky, but in many ways I felt like I was sorta flying the freak flag solo and always wondered why sex to me is like a great conversation to another lol! Those Dan's must all be sluts and I have tainted blood !! lol! One day I'll get there a figure it out!?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' Quoting 'focusliason' Initially I was in a couple and we were members then I was bored with my sex life (within the couple) and set up a single profile...now being a single girl and having the time of my life I got hooked into the forums and stay because they wont let me leave ... lol.... . Kisses FocusIs it my imagination or has your profile pic changed like 3 times today already?? Is there by any chance a little cotton tail affixed to the bottom of your baby blue ensemble that u are hiding from us all?? But only because my initial oine was rejected...sigh...no sense of humour...lol...anyway there is no cotton tail on this one and as Fionabee stated she was kind enough to take the parasite home...see she really does care , Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I tried a few other things before coming here as a last ditch effort in my never ending quest to avoid being locked up in sex-a-holics rehab centre. Besides, there are too many stars and starlets there already and I would have gotten lost in the crowd.| Advertising in the Herald Sun was total shit....by the time they got through editing my ads, all I got was calls from shoe salesmen and folks looking to buy fine Japanese silk ropes in bulk. | Quoting 'mumonmum'...the girl showed up and was more like a streetworker from the Bronx. | And that is no way at all... | ...to talk about my sister. | | She's now become a high class lady of the evening living in Manhattan.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Chilli ---I did laugh at first but then I realized that it's totally accurate , it just so happens that I have the same therapist?!!! She told me (in strict confidence) you need 6-8 guys but at least one of them has to be a sex-crazed debauched looney that goes all the night , well , on the weekend , and most of the night week nights ; we all have to sleep sometime. Btw I'm changing my profile to read 'athletic' just to turn you on! ;) Ps praying your pg is R-rated and not pg , will you flash it at me?? Just jokes , no pressure at all but please?? Lol pps your first fb was a joke , 2-3 times a week , fucken part-timer lol you go girl! I love it. He's gonna be such a lucky bastard that gets to give your itch a long term scratch :) Loz