what should i say..... help!!

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  Well she is right you are handsome.. You won't find out if shes interested if you don't take the first step. Why not try friendly chat then maybe ask her out for a coffee and if goes well from then try the dinner date..Be yourself All the lady can do is say no or yes.. And if she does say no i wouldn't take it as a rejection or and there is nothing to ashamed off. Give it go take the plunge. TIT

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  just be yourself and talk to her. try reading any books on body language by alan pease...trust me, this author is very good. good luck

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  Ya gorgeous thing!!! Go for it! What have you got to lose. Nothing!

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  why do people think getting a knock back makes a fool of you? accepting a knock back graciously is indeed very cool. it is your chance to leave someone impressed and wondering. look at it as a reflection of her/his taste and not a judgment on you. after all that is what it is.. if you feel good in your self about the person you are, then there is no need to feel foolish. if the person you ask is not interested it's not because your a looser, it's just means your not their taste. if your not physiclay apealing to them, well you cant do much about that.. and once again, unless youve let your self go, it no judgement on you.. no biggie, smile and say "well it would have been a waste to die wondering"... LRE (experienced in knock backs)

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  My mother always says...you already have a NO answer if you dont ask so where is the harm in going for a YES??? Do it!!! Do it now!!

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  I don't know man. This question reminds me of a Seinfield episode or something... want to ask the girl out but dont want to lose a good restaurant if it all goes bad! What a dillemma. Just being yourself is the best anyone can ever do.. so go on... ask her out on a date... you already know a good restaurant.... lol.. OK .. maybe ask her to join you for coffee after her shift or on a break so you can try to tee up a real date. We are all fools in love.

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  Grow some balls and go ask her. If she says no, just means you can still eat there but she wont be included on the menu, lol. shy

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  ArtsyLusttty

  17 years ago

  So.. whats the verdict? Im dying to know if u have asked her out and her reply is.....??? s3d

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  do tell, do tell... then we can all gosip about you behind your back.. -smiles- LRE (taking notes)

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  As she is obviously in Hospo, Approach her with the idea that she is always cooking and serving other people how would she like to grab a bite some place where she is the one being waited/pampered over??? 'worth a try and I recon it could work ;-) Gd luck!

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  thanks everyone who helped i guess it just cant be she is going back to her country in 2 weeks damn it! :-( she isnt coming back here because her family will not be moving to aust witchy i used that approach thats what i needed ......if only

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  Badboy am sorry shes leaving fun :( but chin up am sure you will find someone special because we all got someone out there special for us . So don't give up badboy shes out there for you hun TIT xx

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  Have fun for two weeks! Tell her that you'd rather hang out with her for just two weeks than not hang out with her at all. Even if it is just friends hanging out. It's nice to go to dinner with a good looking girl :) Beats going out alone! Keep going for it!

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