M57
what do you get from rhp
January 03 2009
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RHP User
17 years ago
I like the forum on RHP
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hiya .. we are on the site to meet others - whether they be singles or couples - pretty much for party nights that end with sex. It sounds simple enough and what most would claim in their profiles .. but we are probably in a minority given our experiences over the past couple of years? Many are on here to flirt only. Some to get off on the fantasy. Some to simply play with the whole idea without ever much chance of going through with anything.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Have to totally agree with you there on the fantasy thing. Sometimes alot of effort goes in to arranging meets, all to go pear shaped. We both met on here , so was easy for us , as we both wanted the same things. Not that easy really trying to find the right cpl or woman . But we have met some amazing ppl along the way and alot of fun. Thats what its all about for us. Also the social aspect...getting out, trying new things, new places, meeting people with whom you chat too and having a laugh. With work and kids we found RHP more of an escapism. Something we can share together in private time. For me personally, i joined after a bad relationship. I turned 40 and thought what the heck...i wanted more out of life. Probably the best thing i did , besides having my kids. There was a whole new world out there waiting for me to discover. lol Never looked back, now im addicted lol. Leelee xxx
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RHP User
17 years ago
I can't complain about red hot pie its worked for me and I have made many longterm friends.... I..... even though red hot pie has been good to me......will not be renewing....... my membership......
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RHP User
17 years ago
What do I get...in truth f@#k all. Payed membership at start of October so I could message people and meet and so far I have met...mmm...let's see...mmm....none, not a one. What did I join for - well I would love to say to meet someone that I can have a LTR with although I was/am also open to almost anything. Didn't expect to find my perfect match straight away but was willing to have some fun on the way trying to find her. Instead I have found that a lot of the women and couples on here that are half decent are so far up themselves they don't know which way is up anymore. That is fine because there are so many jerks on here to fuel their fantasies. Sorry if I seem a bit harsh but it's just fact. I have around 9 months membership left and am still in hope that I will find some people that don't come under the classifications above. Oh I should say that there are a few in the chatrooms that aren't bad, mind you they also usually have standards that are around 1000% higher than the norm for meeting people.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I hav'nt bothered renewing, not a sniff in 12 mths, did'nt even get replys from people who added me onto there hotlist and friend list. The only people on here bothering with are the one s in the chat rooms, but i can't get in there anymore being a guest. I've found numerous fakes on here aswell that look set up by the site, they have the same photos on the oz site as other profiles on the uk site, seen photos cropping up over time with pics from old profiles, seems they recycle a lot of them and send "you were viewed by" messages to keep your hopes up. Rant over good luck
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RHP User
17 years ago
Cant say we have been to impressed with it but it might just be we have three heads. If there are any genuine bi couples out there looking to meet up with real people we are not models but not Frankenstien either contact us .
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RHP User
17 years ago
My profile is a limiting one, but honest. Yet, I read the forum with interest. I've met a few delightful people in person and naked! I've corrosponded with numerous people with similar interests all to my delight. And it's cost me nothing but time and a cheaky grin.
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RHP User
17 years ago
...I used to get a laugh................. ~~~Horrible~~~
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Frankiesgame
17 years ago
cant complain, made some good friends, had a lot of laughs!! not sure what i wanted when i joined but am pleasantly surprised!!!
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RHP User
17 years ago
So far, we've met a bunch of great people, some of whic we're still close friends with, some of which we haven't spoken to since. We've been given the opportunity to express desires and fantasies with each other (Which otherwise wouldn't have come up in a vanilla life) We get a buzz going in the chat room and talking/viewing/playing/showing off. As our time is limited, it's given us something else to do (chatting/camming) on a weeknight instead of watching TV! It's also allowed us to become more open and accepting of other people's likings and ways, and each others. The other one we like, is that being a part of this lifestyle we often have the opportunity to have little personal jokes when we're amongst our vanilla friends, which can be very funny in some instances.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Holagirl - You say you get nothing.. Yet you have nothing in your profile, much much less than some guys! May explain a little....
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hola girl, maybe you and lovenlust should hook up. I'm surprised you have met no one. I have been here for about 2 months and have met a few really nice gents. Play meets, not coffee ones. I'm a happy camper anyway
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RHP User
17 years ago
Regarding holagirl78, I agree the profile is bare as. I wonder if it has always been that way. It actually looks like a guy using it to get access to the extra features the females get. As for hooking up with holagirl78. With that profile I wouldn message her but if she is interested she can email me from here I think. If she is half decent she has a chance.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Not much.........if your a single straight guy, guess its just a numbers game
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RHP User
17 years ago
Where shall I start? I have met some world-class wankers and skanks.....but I have also met some of the best people I will ever know! I like that there is an openness to our friendships. As I require friendship before any sexual activity can occur....I now have a group of people that I can hang out with or have sex with and all with no pressure whatsoever. And now I have met the man of my dreams.....so it just keeps getting better! Oh.....and I LOVE the chat rooms! MissBJ
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RHP User
17 years ago
We personally have met some truly wonderful people. Hundreds to be precise. Have made heaps of friends all over Australia and UK, and many other countries. As a club: WOW what can we say, people travel from all over Australia to come to the club from RHP and meet each other so i think there are heaps on here if not hundreds or thousands that can safely say they have met others on RHP. As for some people that dont show up, we get that weekly with single guys that book, but that is just the way the internet works, some fake some real, you just gotta take time and patience and weed them out. Eventually you will hit the jackpot..lol Thanks RHP for a wonderful site and a great way for all of us in the lifestyle to meet and live out our lifestyle. Truly the classiest site around for like minded adults. If you want to meet others, get a cam, turn it on and chat away. That way you know the people are real and you get to say hi before you meet. There are no hidden nasties that way... Keep on swinging and smiling all. Leesa and Bryan
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RHP User
17 years ago
As a female if you are here to hook up you have about 4 times more chance than men. It is purely a number game but is heavily skewed against men. Due to that I would have almost no chance of meeting a girl on here who is as good a person as I could meet in real life. I mean I have 3 girls I have dinner with usually every week and about 20 female friends I see regularly. Almost all of these would have casual sex with me if it was acceptable or suited tha siuation (some have, some tell me it is a fantasy)....but on here after 4 months........ nothing, not even close. Hence I consider this a late-night or tipsy wank site for the cams only. Good every day or 2 for erotic chat and hopefully some interaction to get your juices flowing. Something to come home to rather than sleep with some dodgy gross chick. As for meeting people well... after searching I doubt there is more than 10 genuine females from Brisbane on here between 20 and 35 and that is compared to prob 100 similar males. There are certainly women out there in the general public who would want to but are turned off by second guesses, the harsh reality of it and the fact they can barely use a computer. ;)
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RHP User
17 years ago
PFFFFFFFFFFFFFFT!! Its not about numbers mate.. its about connection. see.. i stand in the sea of men looking for a gal in a haystack and without even TRYING.. i had no problems. Its all about self confidence and how to approach people. NBever mind this "wanna fuck?" (which sums it all up how most guys say in msg's) Its all about being yerself and be happy :P and what i get out of RHP? Alot of sex with alot of women, and shit loads of friends :) and yes. i get rejected alot.. so what? it happens... obviously no connection there.. no need to go anal aboput it. Sure I reject a lot of women too.. hey .. im fussy.. and i love it :P Party on dudes :)
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RHP User
17 years ago
it is about attitude, not numbers. I have met men in the older age group who are loads of fun and have met quite a few women, no probs at all. It is just about attitude.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Life got the better of me for a year or so and i took some time out. My way of dealing with things. Since i came back about 2 weeks ago, a date on Friday night with a lass who seems Very interesting, an old flame i haven't seen in a couple of years needs a shave and she knows i just have to taste my work lol. Also made friends with two couples, where that will lead is anybodies guess but then thats half the fun. Oh and there is also a guy that... oh, never mind...
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RHP User
17 years ago
Red Hot Pie gave me the info I was looking for to expand my sexual experiences. Finding this out has been good. I subscribed for a month, got some interest but nothing solid. Chat was fun because I'm an exhibitionist so I got to show off to a ton of people! LOL! Doodle dance! WooooOOoooo! The forums are interesting and fun. I'm glad they're open to free members or I wouldn't bother coming here.
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RHP User
17 years ago
that was over 3yrs ago.... Once i became single i started to chat to people & have now made some great friends. Not everyone i have met in person has been on a sexual level, though i have had some fun too. I'm here sporadically, as there are a lot of "tossers" in the chat room, need to break & recharge the patience batteries... lol. I like to chat in the rooms & when i feel the urge, i enjoy being watched on cam. I like to watch cams too... Karma....what u put out there is what u will eventually get back.
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RHP User
17 years ago
we are relatively new to all this, having been around for only a few short months. My lady divulged a long held secret to me only recently which is how this has come about, I encourage her whole heartedly to pursue her desires. She had been in a conservative relationship so we felt that this was the simplest way to pursue the fantasy without having any strings attached or hopefully any one getting hurt in the process. The best result we could hope for is to make some great friends along the way.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I was a Platinum Member and met a few great people, but over the last few months I've let my membership lapse and now just use the boards.
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RHP User
17 years ago
ima_sweet_girl...I wish you were correct about Karma (what you put out there you get back), but if you were I wouldn't be on this site as a single member.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Well I'm here to meet new people. I've gotten a few responses but nothing really beyond a 1st message or a flirt. I'm still trying to figure out how to entice the ladies here with my profile. *Sigh*
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RHP User
17 years ago
lol only thing i got from rhp is a bill dont know whats goin on, im not rude or anything.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I have had dual experiences on rhp. I was in a relationship and on here as a couple for about 4 years. We met some great people and some tossers too. As a couple we went through the constant hassle from single guys not respecting the fact we were only interested in meeting couples. Now as a single guy, i have kept that respect and those frustrations in mind in mind and only message or flirt people that are after a single guy. I have met a lady who has turned out to be a great friend and sex buddy. So i have no complaints in that respect, and i am sure will meet more great people as well. However, the stigma of being a single guy, who IS honest and upfront is very evident as there alot of very judgemental people on here and look at guys as simply a hard on, on 2 legs. But there is also alot of great people who show respect and honesty. Allthough it is mainly a sex/swinging/dating site, alot of people leave their manners in another room when they get on here. The internet takes alot of the personality out of the equation and some people act differently than what they would in person. So my experiences and what i have got out of it are of 2 seperate profiles and circumstances, however i do agree you get out what you put in. The same as you wouldn't go to a pub, stand in the corner and not communicate with anyone, and wonder why you went home alone, would you? Keeep your respect and treat people as you would if you were meeting them in person. Whether the site meets your own expectations or not, depends on your input and your expectations consist of. Keep having fun all, stay safe but most of all--- stay sexy! XX
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RHP User
17 years ago
Is good to hear the story from someone who has been on both sides of the fence :)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hi, I joined up to organise a sexy suprise fantasy threesome for my partner. The suprise didn't come off as I'm terrible at keeping suprises but I have met a lot of nice girls that I plan to catch up with, and we've had a couple of other rendezvous. We've also been to some of the sexy parties sponsored by RHP and have had an amazing time at every one. Mind blowing experiences and very sexy people. RHP allows for the fantasy, flirt, vouyer and experience to come true!!!
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RHP User
17 years ago
As a member to RHP i like the feeling of getting a Flirt and even a message. But as a guy its hard to get the attention of some ladies that are looking for a guy to have some fun with... Some ladies being fussy , Im not sure... but if their profile says looking for a man He sends her a message, And then nothing... MMM i dont know about you but a simple reply is all it takes.. im not a pushy person but a flirt from me its worth its weight i hope to hear from anyladies in sydney thanks MI6E2U
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RHP User
17 years ago
To flirt, chat,meet like minded peoples...
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RHP User
17 years ago
Unless you are the complete package, body, face etc you get nothing.....like me
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Joe_the_lion
17 years ago
As a person that hates small talk...I'd much rather ask someone if they like pasta carbonara or whatever the hell is on my mind at the moment...not a pick up line situation....I do this with everyone....this site is good for greeting people/conversating in a weird way. But if i do do this on the site...I get a lot of 'er what?'...but sometimes I'll talk to someone who gets it...and it makes for an interesting conversation.My profile is a good example...sometimes I'll get a postive 'You have the best profile ever!' response/greeting....sometimes I get ignored....and sometimes its hated...once a woman told me that I'd never meet anyone with that profile,no woman would ever want me and I should change it...I was amused that she was generalising actually...I replied with a good luck to you too and even did a happy face...I think it freaked her out lol So basically...I'm here to see how different people can be
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RHP User
17 years ago
I agree whole heartedly with BigBrainLover. I have been on this site before under another name. I now choose not to participate in the chat room and the mentality of SOME of the people there....It can be a bit like high school to be honest. I tend to choose men who only have guest membership to contact. My reason?? There is a better chance of perhaps getting a "conversation" and seeing if there is some kind of "attraction/spark, rather than doing it just for the hell of it, or because I choose not to be like SOME of the women who act like they are the only one who has one of them between my legs and last but not least, not catching some social disease from them having been through most of the women in the chatroom. Also, I like my life to remain private and not be broadcast in a community of braggers and bullshitters, wankers.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hey all, I first joined years ago (under another name), a timid, innocent young african girl with hardly, if any, experience under my belt, looking to broaden my horizons. I chatted to an INCREDIBLE amount of people, met a few, tried some new things (some i liked, some not so much) and had some good (and bad times). I learnt a lot, about the swingers lifestyle and more importantly about myself. I have to say, the site is addictive as here i am, some 2 years later, back for more. I have only been a member about 3 weeks now and already i have chatted to some, unfortunately mostly bad (but thats a story for another thread...do people actually READ profiles?). But i have found that if you look hard enough, you will find the 'needle' in the hay stack that is rhp. I should also take this opportunity to apologise to the genuine guys out there i have not managed to reply to, i am still working on it (sigh). To the rest of you who 'have always wanted to f*#k an african girl', you are not the only one, get an imagination (again a story for another time). What did i get? I have made genuine friends, chat buddies, fuck buddies and even some enemies. More than i bargained for but definately worth it. Still window shopping..
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RHP User
17 years ago
the love of my life. Thanks RHP!!!!!! xxSoubi
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