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vaginal orgasms ... how can I get one ... ???
November 10 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Lil MissI also have never had a vaginal orgasm!! Ive tried many things and have pretty much given up now and gather im just not one of the lucky ones!!My clit stimulated, i can have amazing ones!! I do it a few times a day and im still not satisfied... even tried holding out on them to see if it'd help give me a vaginal one when i had sex but sadly, no!Im also awaiting more responses for a bit more insight....xx Oh So xxP.S I even got a piercing but it just helps give me great clit orgasms ;-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
No I'm not complaining about some bloody mechanical device that keeps malfunctioning... But those rather ingenious contractions that endlessly emulate a man without need for emotional complications. With a gallon of KY jelly and a day without pesky interruption or power outages... angle the pointy bit at your G Spot and you'll surely attain that allusive pleasure or die trying... hopefully with a smile on your pretty face.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lil miss and i should invest in a nifty little machine eunuch speaks of.... just to try it out.....
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twokan_n_toy
16 years ago
Before meeting my current partner I was in that same situation. I could always orgasm having my clit stimulated and sex after that was nice but that elusive vaginal orgasm just didn't happen. Now I don't know if the wonderful partner I have now is just a lot better in bed or if it is a maturity thing but on thinking about your post I believe that the thing that turned my sex life into one of better and better orgasms including vaginal ones would be, being introduced to fisting. The pressure on the G spot is incredible. I don't know if it is a coincidence but I am now able to have vaginal orgasms with or without fisting. The most intense ones are when I am fisted first then fucked. I realise this may not be something everyone is willing to try but for me - I'm very happy I did!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am also in the clit stim only category. Apparently 1 in 3 women can only cum by clit stim so the numbers are pretty high, we're not that much of a minority! I have tried heaps of different things but nothing over the years has worked, including the machines that eunuch mentions, the g-spot just isn't there... medical research supports this. I once saw this fabulous show on sbs that detailed the female anatomy and there are studies being done to see if they can puzzle out why women are so different when it comes to orgasims... in the mean time I continue to be satisfied with a very handy vibrator or two and a patient husband who does whatever I ask to get me over the edge... elbiet clitorally Wanna hear the strangest part though... when I dream about sex and cumming vaginally I often do, waking up with the best tingling sensations between my legs... where's the justice in that! then there is AMI the company that is apparently revolutionising the bedroom for men and women, it's a bit pricey and I've heard mixed results but some of my friends think it works pretty well... hope this helps :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
We were with a single lady on the weekend,To keep the story short,both females were so relaxed on the night that they both had multiple orgasms together with the double ended dildo the girls were using.I think it happened so many times, the fact being they were both so relaxed.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey hon...Unfortunately....I too am in this category.I used to have vaginal orgasms when I was younger (and dare I say it? tighter??)But then...I had a baby and all that changed.I went for ages without having any type of orgasm while having sex coz I was too embarrassed to rub my clit!Now I don't have any reservation about rubbing the life out of it while getting it on....lolOh...and Ive tried fisting....and still couldnt cum without the clitoral stimulation.For me...I think its in my brain. I need to love and to be loved to get back to where I can cum vaginally.Sounds silly....but there it is.Just my opinion....BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
ladies and gents - good to know I'm not alone and thanks for the tips! Keep them coming ... :D
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RHP User
16 years ago
i'll be brutal.. no offence ok? fuck someone you are actually conected to.. now thats a hard one, but take your time and believe me its worth it... heard someone here say" fucking is good , fucking with connection is great!" it sums it up!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Lilmiss, may be able to help you out here. I have learnt a technique that has resulted in multiple vaginal orgasms on every women that has let me use it. The resulting orgasms are intense, body racking and come minutes, sometimes seconds apart. The end result, is a women who feels completley satisfied after sex...as it should be. The technique is described in the following video...you will have to type the address as show below into the address bar in your browser. The video is called "HOW TO GIVE WOMEN SQUIRTINZG ORGASMS" If you bear down or push out as you come you will soon learn to squirt as well. You may feel like you want to pee...don't worry you won't pee yourself, the resulting ejeculate is crystal clear with no odour...And an awesome sight for your partner to enjoy...More so you will be near on out of your body with pleasure. Just witness the girls response in the clip...you can only fake so much lol http://www.redtube.com/15878 Hope this helps lovasmile
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RHP User
16 years ago
checked it out, yep, it can/will work for many ... not for all I'm afraid :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
...Kegel exercises... no one mentioned so far...found to be useful :-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
For me..... sex is about giving to the point of exhaustion. The POWER for me is seeing delight or hearing a sigh or more.... Fussy.... my ex could not cum either .We didnt try it all..... she loved the penetration and i loved serving her ...for 13 and 1/2 yrs i tried. She had had a cpl of operations apparently downstairs that she thought might had hindered her... scare tissue and what not .... you may go and get it seen to from a medical sense and then from a sexual sense . My exs vagina changed in smell and taste after our first born----it was soo much betta ----pitty she didnt hang around lol after our 2nd was born ..another was tasting my hard work ... Any way trying with a dedicated partner with depth of understanding and care and practice may help you ...maybe i was not the right fit for her..My gf and I have the best sex eva with care and lust and excitement..she finds it diff to cum coz of medication...but we have cum together on many an occasion too. Try it all then if not happening seek a sexual Psyche not a person at a fair ground but a real one love and best wishes my friend Atomic
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RHP User
16 years ago
ok ... i used to be just a clitoral orgasim chickie but after many months of playing with myself trying different techniques and angles holy dooly i hit the spot and have never looked back...... i found that putting pressure on the top of my vaginal wall reallly did it... not heaps of pressure though cause i know of a mate that broke through the wall ..... feel how far in your gspot in and massage a few times with your finger while tensing your pelvic floor muscles....... feel the diffent sensations as u try this at diffent angles... u will see that each one is differnt. once u do this yourself a few times have that sexy hunk of a man try it with the dildo a few times u may be able to work it out together as well and he will be able to see from down there how he should position himself at the end of a lovely evening to make his wonderful gal explode all over him.... hehe its all about knowing the inside of your body .... i have even had one while getting a papsmear.... embarresing i tell ya ... but the pressure was in the right spot. well thats enough from me :) research babe xxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
sexy times ahead for me xxx
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