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till text do us part
January 07 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
Mmmmm Ive just returned from having coffee with my good friend Tuscan Red.....where we had a in depth conversation regarding this subject, hence why she decided to post. Tuscan Red received a sms at 4.00 am this morning from a amorous one who didnt seem to completely understand the concept that most normal people are like asleep at 4.00am Saturday morning and not usually up for textsex !!!..funny that...TR made it very clear to this person to bugger off, (yes he woke her with no apology) but he still kept on coming....but what was annoying/surprising was that even after being told to politely beat it...he sent her up to 46 sms just today, 12 while we having coffee together.....even after TR told him to please leave her alone (I would have said Fuck Off at this point (I like my sleep) but TR is too much of a lady) and this was a mature aged man as well ...not a young'en People note...when a person says...No, it usually kinda means NO !!!! even more so at 4.01am Saturday morning when one is SLEEPING !!!! And all this back and forth sms is exhausting..look... do you wanna play ? or are you playing with one hand in your lap and one on the keypad ????????????????? and do you own shares in a mobile phone carrier company ???? Chilli, you have so got it sorted girl...Im so printing your post off and pinning it on my wall to remind me...of what Im REALLY ooking for... Cheers
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RHP User
14 years ago
When we were young we did not have mobile phones (or the internet). We conducted our courtships on the family phone usually in front of half a dozen siblings snickering and sniggering and pulling faces, Mum screamiing to "get off the bloody phone". Not condusive to sexy conversations and was pre-sexting days. These days I notice that most young couples are constantly in touch via text and social media sites like facebook. I also do not do the text thing until I know the person. This involves some email time yes. Sheesh, if someone annoyed me at that hour of the day I might just turn off my phone and the answer from here on in would be no anyway. He would have lost any and all chances.
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RHP User
14 years ago
AFTER, AFTER, AFTER You gotta make sure you don't have a pain in the arse/psycho/nutjob/stalker/needy whiney eyeore on your hands before you go handing out numbers. I had one guy who was constantly asking me when i was going to call him or text him....faaarrrkkkk!!! I have a friend who has women who are the same. needy, needy, needywhen he's hardly had any contact with them
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RHP User
14 years ago
Women on this site deal with obsessive and rude men acting inappropriately, not all but some. Men on this site deal with haughty and rude women acting inappropriately, not all but some. So what??? We all have these problems. A cheap mobile and a pre-paid sim card and the problem is fixed. Turn it off when you want Redhotpie world to turn off like when you go to bed or have coffee with a friend. Calls from dickhead man or haughty woman? Block the number. Where is the problem? Or.......... Do you prefer complaining about this problem rather than solving it? And what can we learn from that? No offense...... Real question......
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RHP User
14 years ago
Tuscan Red a generall accepted and a perceived font of wisdom needs to be introduced to two other concepts. The first is that phones have a power offswitch designed for sleep :p and the second is that calls and text messages can all be heldas silent if appropriate. Text sex (or sex references) is good ig there is a pre-existing connection between two people. Sending 46 textmessages is weird at best and surely something that could just reported to the police. Agreed everyone should respect the choices of others. Men should respect NO. And equally women should also respect choices. Chilli implies that eMail is much safer communications mechanism - and she is so right. In the TR example a single block as junk mail would silently fix the issue.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I got a good book called” the gift of fear”,good read for all ladies. Its probably my own fault to tell the truth, it started out nice and I do not mind a few texts, but its just the insistent ones who go to far that are a bother at times. I need to be clear up front but with my work its not that simple as I get a lot of nice clients of rhp to photograph and have had some fun along the way. I am flattered at attention to a point. Like all people we think its rather nice to be thought off as a desirable person. It was suggested I get another phone, and I see the logic in that but I have my work and my private life often merge so its a grey area at times. But in the end its my choice what I do and with whom. I cannot blame a man for my own stupidity In the book it says do not reply or engage with a person when it gets insistent and I returned the text and some with a NO No is actually a full sentence. I would have been happy to meet him if he had not kept on and on with asking if we would have sex. How the hell would I know that without meeting a person? He may have had a third eye!and seen me coming ( small joke there) But the smart thing is do not reply at all, try to add them so you know who pops up and ignore the text. I had not added this person so when he started to text I did not know who he was, as I thought he was a client or one of my models for my painting. Its like one of the other posts, about overlap and with the numbers game and me being a total blonde at times it is hard to keep up. I do get a lot of people contact for photography so I need to give my number and most of them well nearly all of them are lovely people. Its up to me to get control of this kind of thing and yes have noted the chilli wisdom I think guys can have the same problem, especially the married men who give out their number it can backfire. I think a lot of guys have a second phone for rhp or separate sims card I have enough problems with one bloody phone, I used to have two with my other job and it was a pain in the bum. ok so not multi skilled can’t answer two phones at once :) great day in the park with you SLK27 and Artistic wench, nice to compare notes and the seeds for the ladies RHP drawing nude model class has been sown ...oh what fun we will have just have to find the poor guys to be the models for us naughty RHP wenches.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't like sexting. No pictures, no insinuations, no direct "so you gonna fuck me slut?" texts. If you're my woman, I might get you thinking about sex with a promise or a threat, but that's it. Texts are so you can pass information. "I'll meet you at the restaurant on the corner of 5th and Main." "I'm wearing a blue shirt under a grey jumper" "Sorry baby I'm running slightly late" "Shit ok, taxi just hit a traffic snarl up, go ahead and order an appetiser" "Ok FUCK THIS TRAFFIC, I'm going home."Notice I did not text "Ooh baby, what you wearing?" or "Is your vagina runny?"RA
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting Chilli: The really scary thing is, despite all this, sometimes pathological personalities or those with unstable mental health or concealed addictions don't become identifiable or apparent until AFTER things have gone amazingly right for several blissful months AFTERwhich things start to go horribly wrong by which time your lives are truly entwined and the smell of sadness is in the air..." So very true Chilli and excellent post Goodgirl (as per usual ) Dave 8271 - you raise some very valid points and your advice is well worth considering. I have to carry a phone for work at ALL times...two phones is a great idea but a pain in the ass (I have done this juggling before) ....and Im on call 24/7/365 so turning my phone off is not a option..perhaps Im stupid but I have a Iphone, I was not aware you could actually block a caller/sms ???? can this be done ??? ...Prepaid sims also have a time restriction on them which can be annoying at times as well if you are contemplating the second phone issue You say we are complaining and not solving our "problem" (and your suggestion fo a second phone is a great idea) ...however our argument is (mine and TR) the crux of this forum....when you politely tell someone to bugger off....then one would think they would ..I dont know....BUGGER OFF !!!.....46 sms in one day is beyond excessive..and surely we have the rite to say thanks but no thanks and not be repeatedly harassed - and a second phone would not stop that..but of course you would probably just turn it off....the basis of this is that some people (not gender specific) cannot accept rejection no matter what shape or form it comes in..and that has got to be scarey/off putting for anyone !!! and a sms at 4.01 in the morning can scare the shit out of anyone cause the adrenalin races thru you and all the time your thinking "Oh God, whose dead ?" etc...cause most normal people arent sms for sex at that time..they are just dreaming about it !!!! And as TR said in her opening post...all this sms .....when you havent even met, is exhausting and off putting especially when it does go along the lines of TR thread ....hey sexy sms is hot....I love it but only after I initially met and we are planning to do the deed or already have and aare contemplating going back for seconds... Explore fun ...sadly having had issues with a stalker before (see another forum on that) trust me the police dont give a shit about this kind of stuff...not at all...you literally have to have a axe hanging out the back of your skull, before the police will take any action and restraining orders count for little.... I guess for some people No really does mean...."Yep Im in with a chance if I keep on harrassing"...sad... Lovely day in the park TR and Artistic...you've got to love Freo on a beautiful day..and well with great company as well..this wench is sooooooooooooooo looking forward to our "art Class" ........says she, who cant even color between the lines !!!....mmmm....wet thinking about it...... mmmm....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Have to turn off our phones, just because some moron decided that they are awake --- we all should be awake. I have had the occasional mmiddle of the night text message or phone call ... but lucklly only one of two at the instance .. repeat messages past two have been very rare. I for one will not be pushed into turning off my phone ... for two reasons .. ONE - I use it as my alarm for getting up in the morning. TWO - It is the first port of call for my mothers back to base alarm for my mothers house ... and it needs to be on incase of emergencies .. Some people just need to learn phone etiquete ...or end up being blocked and ignored ..
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RHP User
14 years ago
A cheap mobile and a pre-paid sim card and the problem is fixed. Turn it off when you want Redhotpie world to turn off like when you go to bed or have coffee with a friend. Calls from dickhead man or haughty woman? Block the number. Where is the problem? Why the hell should we go and get yet another mobile just because some man can't take no for an answer? It is his problem, not the womans! Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
I meant that in the figurative sense, of course.I have been reading your posts, somehow you're able to objectively identify... everything. You're definitely a live one.Much love little chica!RAPS Also love it when you drive your point home @ people who are (SCENE DELETED) or in nicer terms, people with far less self awareness and insight.
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RHP User
14 years ago
But they won't....... because they are 1000's of different people. Look you cannot control what people do, you can only control what you do. Like it or not, that is how it is. Just coz it is right or wrong doesn't change how it is, just coz you think it should be different. You can avoid the reality, but you cannot avoid the consequences of avoiding reality. Reality is risk of some jerk who is going to sms you repeatedly at stupid hours and say creepy disturbing things that make you feel unsafe, both the terrible evil men and the sugar and spice women will do that. Different results sure but both serious results and both from the same problem. You have to take it in your own hands, or manage the consequences of avoiding taking it into your own hands, isn't that empowerment? I agree that it shouldn't be that way, men don't like crazy obsessive women concoting imaginary problems messing up our lives any more than women don't like stupid arrogant men projecting desires and menacing women. Should not happen. Does happen. Empower yourself to deal with it as much as possible. Complaining is not empowering. TR your reply post was interesting thoughtful. SLK yes that man is seriously crazy. Personal choice weighing up if 2nd phone is less trouble than crazy people for individual. Can always throw sim in bin and get another for $2. Agree police are often not helpful in preventing crazy people problems. Chasing Studette yes I agree about noting crazy actions but note on paper or computer, brain has way of forgetting.... I am ashamed of abusive men just as I am of abusive women because I am ashamed of abusive people. I am not one of them and neither are most men so why should we decent men feel bad for having a dick? I am proud to be a man, proud to have a dick and all good men should be proud just as all good women should feel proud. Haughty women and abusive men can go **** themselves. It is sad you call me d***head just because you don't agree with me. It would not be fair of me to call you a c*** just because I don't agree with you. Calling people names for their opinions is something my gay and lesbian friends can talk about with hurting experience but apparently I would not understand that, yes........?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Chasing Studette, the guy TR wrote about is obviously crazy mad as a cut It is obvious he is the bad and wrong person in the situation. I would have done what SLK said and told the person to "F*** off" too. However the reality I am pointing out is that you cannot change other people's behaviour, let alone 1000's of people's behaviour. You are only able to change your own behaviour. That is a fact of life. Complaining about other people's behaviour and saying that it shouldn't be that way, while true, does not help change their behaviour. So in the end, you have to empower yourself because "You can avoid reality, but you cannot avoid the consequences of avoiding reality." (Ayn Rand) It is everybody's individual choice as to whether they prefer the inconvenience of two mobile phones over the inconvenience of risking some jerk (male or female, they both do it) ringing them at 4am. There is no right or wrong, only a personal decision. TR seems to consider it, SLK and Celebree both think it is not worthwhile. As pointed out, it is a first filter in what should be a number of filters. Everyone including myself managed to write their thoughts without insults except you, I find it really sad that in your reply you make such haughty comments about people with dicks, lumping decent good men into your judgement. Most men are decent men who should feel proud, not bad, about their dicks just as most women are decent women who should feel proud as well. All people should feel proud regardless of their sex. It's sad you felt the need to stoop to insults about dicks on heads just because you do not agree. Would it have been good form for me to say the equivalent to you? I hope you can allow yourself to disagree without insults next time because discussion of subjects is good and constructive. Insults don't help and you're the only one who felt the need to use them when talking about this.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Didn't look like the first one went through..... Different words..... same message.......
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RHP User
14 years ago
"Should not happen. Does happen. Empower yourself to deal with it as much as possible. Complaining is not empowering". Dave8271 Let me clarify something to you. I am not a weak whinny woman, its just a topic nothing more. I do not reply to the text from this man any more, no problems there, he will get tired of it. Its now talk to me babe, or good morning babe I never reply. This is a forum. I am a very much empowered woman, (arches eyebrow at the sweet young thing) Its nice you have a cock, congratulations and its nice you have an opinion as well. I have worked in all the male prisons and heard all the stories and worked in social welfare for many years. I know what I have to do, but I also know I can voice my thoughts on here as well. I choose not to have two phones, I choose to answer in the early hours as my daughter is an actress working in Italy Time zone problems there. I have had far worse problems than this, and I deal with it. I just thought I could talk about it here without people making assumptions about me, the topic was about over texting, from either males or females and the content of that. If I had fucked this man, I would lap up the sextext as I can put my brain at work over a cock I know, not a cyber cock You get my drift?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'dave8271' It is everybody's individual choice as to whether they prefer the inconvenience of two mobile phones over the inconvenience of risking some jerk (male or female, they both do it) ringing them at 4am. There is no right or wrong, only a personal decision. TR seems to consider it, SLK and Celebree both think it is not worthwhile. As pointed out, it is a first filter in what should be a number of filters. God do I wish that people would read what is written and NOT make assumptions .,... I DO NOT believe I addressed the issue or having a second phone ..I simply addressed the issue of the OFF buttons on a phone ... I dont make insults about people as you Dave are addressing ... but it is soo soo soo easy to get that way when people are misrepresented or assumptions are made because people dont read what is written instead they read what they THINK they see
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RHP User
14 years ago
TR, not implying you are not empowered, is obvious you are a strong empowered womam. You assumed, we all assume sometimes and sometimes incorrectly, I did to Celebree a bit earlier. Statement is as written, complaining is not empowering. Complaining does not create empowerment. Action decision choice and more create empowerment. I get your message of you wanted to talk and vent on subject, I develop conversation, felt it valid, ok if you're not happy with direction, is fine. Good you don't sms him back now, not worth giving him time. I do not need congratulations for having a cock, is no better or worse than having a vagina, both are part of a complete person neither better or worse than the other sex. Hope you got my drift too, we have different drifts and both drifts are respectable yes? Celebree, you are correct. My drift was of your power from choice is what I meant, remembered details wrong, I was wrong and apologise. Appreciate you not insulting in discussion, I understand insulting can result when rational thought boils over but is never necessary and never helpful.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Im with you Celebree I’m pretty sure..yep that I did not...yep... Ive just checked.... Quoting Me…””Two phones is a great idea but a pain the ass ( I have done this juggling before) and I also then went on to say …(and your suggestion for a second phone is a great idea) end of quotes: At no time do I see the words in my postings (nor Celebree) … that I thought it was not a worthwhile idea (having a second phone) ..my posts refute your claims….please don’t make assumptions…you are entitled to form your opinions naturally but please don’t tell me what I have said, not said or assume you know my thoughts, other than what I have posted. Your postings were quite valid and did raise some debateable issues about human behaviour (however even I would not assume that the texter in this story is crazy – and I’m a doctor !!!) – I work on fact not assumption….. and the fact was that this person, relentlessly sms my friend Tuscan Red……this does not make him crazy….define crazy btw ???? – all this made him was a person who could not, or would not take No for an answer, some would pity him and some would applaud him for his persistence (and TR is well worth chasing !!) …..we all come from our own perspectives…..the fact is that MOST normal acceptable behaviour is that you don’t wake people at 4.01am on a Saturday morning with raunchy texting (especially if you don’t know them) and yes, we should be able to leave our cell phones on for whatever reason without having to justify why we do and MOST normal people would not keep relentlessly pursuing someone when they have clearly indicated that they aren’t interested…………the key here is to define NORMAL/SANE and ACCEPTABLE behaviour and that is debateable among prominent psychiatrists even today !!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Apology to you SLK I did read in your words that you were saying you made choice to have one phone, that you had weighed advantages of two but decided for advantages of one, seems I understood incorrectly, am still slightly unclear, thought I had understood, I apologise if offended, not intended, liked your writing. I wrote crazy as informal, should have wrote inappropriate inconsiderate and such, more descriptive than a lazy stereotype of crazy. I would think that would not (I don't believe in 'could not' in this situation) take no for an answer makes for a large risk of danger, yes? Personality to avoid and protect selves from comprehensively, yes? My thinking is person who 'can not take no for an answer' is not true, all people responsible for own actions and 'can not' excuses responsibility and is not true, even if very difficult from fault or not fault of own. All men and women are able to and responsible for taking no for an answer, and they all should. I know this is controversial due to mental illness, difficult cases and such, but I think still true no matter how hard. Just my thoughts. You are right, great minds debate this and we probably will not solve here. We should be able to leave our cell phone on for whatever reason and yes we should not have to justify why we do it, but we should not be suprised when inconsiderate desperate man or inconsiderate obsessive woman wake us up at 4.01am, not suprising, I won't act with suprise, it is not common but much more possible here than in non-redhotpie life so seems right to accommodate for it with 2nd phone or accept possibility of it on 1st phone. Thankyou, interesting reply SLK.
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RHP User
14 years ago
and you are welcome to have a coffee, bourbon,wine, bottle of water with us anytime Chilli - that would be lovely.....and couldnt agree more....nothing sexier than a man that can say sorry - appreciate your postback to me Dave Cheers xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
i carry 2 phones (work and personal) , and while at work, a 2 way radio. i dont want another phone. nor does my wife....she doesnt want a phone that has a publicly available number..........courtesy of an ex who rang and texted her 24/7 for 4 years... it was estimated he sent her in excess of 10,000 texts and rang her on average, 10 times day...(10 x 365 x 4yrs = 13000 times)..just to harass............ we've had guys from here send text after text, at 3 am, which is annoying...as i'm either at work.......or trying to sleep (shels up at 3, i'm up at 4)........... we provided our phone number to facilitate play.........not so inconsiderate people could torture us with the damned thing.. its our phone, or one of, and we use it in an appropriate manner.....but as Tuscan and SLK and Chilli and celbree all indicate....its the misuse of the phone number by others thats the key issue...........why should anyone have to go and get another phone....or another simcard (ffs i dont wanna turn one number off, just to turn another on!), when its not them, or us , who is the problem? we arent about to make accommodations for other peoples lack of respect, as its the poorly behaved ones who needs to fix this.... changing phones and having multiple numbers, just makes it easy for them to continue to behave badly..............we too are in our late 40's/early 50's.......we have adult children who have children of their own....so we are available 24/7 to them (2 autistic daughters makes this imperitave), and our parents are all in their late 70's..(with the usual age related frailties and problems)...we need to be able to be contacted at all times of the day/night............ should we turn our phone off?? discussing this and airing grievances and sharing frustrations is not whining and complaining.......this is a forum....and this is an absolutely relevant subject...... we all stand to learn something by taking part , even if its just a better understanding........
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RHP User
14 years ago
ChasingChilli, thankyou for writing comprehensively. I try my reply to be full and succinct. Good we agree that you cannot control what people do, you can only control what you do. Very important and missing from much rationale in current era. “”Different results sure but both serious results and both from the same problem.”” “It's not the same problem” Different results yes, but both from the same problem, I should use the word “stems” to be clearer, yes? “the risk for women can be incomprehensible to a man” Many things are incomprehensible to many people. Back home I work in domestic violence support and gay lesbian bisexual transgender support, I know risk and difference of risk of men and women in many ways and targets, my opinion remains as it is, I am educated, what matters is each individual, every individual. Each case is different no less we wish to group them together, each is what it is to the poor victim, male, female, straight, gay, anything. No hierarchy, no priority, no more notable than another. “You are comparing apples and oranges, Dave, and by doing so are MINIMISING what is a very real and complex problem faced by all Australian women.” It is as real and complex and awful for every individual. This is how to progress the solving of this problem I believe, not by centralising and minimising fringes or statistically less, yes? You write “you will always have testosterone and a dick...... even if you choose to wear it on your head” and you justify “I did not call you a dick head, I made a tongue in cheek play on words……” Unfortunately I do not believe how you explain, I am sorry if wrong but I do not believe. I show housemates, all agree you call me a dickhead in the way child does or in the way lawyer does. They say why not write dick on chest or dick on heart, why choose dick on head other than to call me dickhead. All four understand this way, I agree with all them, I am sorry if I am wrong, only you know in your heart if wrong, should be enough, no need for more. In words, we disagree, is ok for both to accept, nothing can be shown so we let it go as disagree, yes? “You are still a man, and therefore are not faced with the same type or degree of threat that TuscanRed and all of us women unfortunately have to live with.” Gay man, crippled man, unconfident man, no-English man, in some cases not faced with same type or degree of threat that women have to live with. Same true for women in same situations. Progress can only be made when we see as individuals. Understand sex, understand statistics, treat and care as individuals and see answers for individuals. “…….TuscanRed is almost 60 years old and as such, it is probable that she was raised with a 1950s notion and instruction on how girls behave.” 70 years old man does not wear seatbelt, raised without that notion of seatbelts, so what? Live to the years you are in, not the years you grew up in, that era is gone, this era is now, must live in this era. Certainly must be a 1950s notion to not join sex club and not have sex with many newly met people but should 60 year old people act like they are still in 1950s, of course not!! This is 2012, not 1950s, for all things, not just some. “takes a lot of time, money, hard work and effort to change that conditioning, to be able to stand up to an abuser or perpetrator and say "no.” This is why obsessive or ‘will not accept “no”’ people, whether male or female, should be discarded early and clearly. It is dangerous to allow to continue in any form regardless of sex. “Setting healthy boundaries (no comment on TR's boundaries) is not taught in school. It is taught by parents who have healthy boundaries (if you're one of the few lucky enough to have them) or by support people when we decide to change our less useful boundaries.” True! Excellent comment. “It's certainly not learned in one careless sentence from a 20something guy who gives casual advice which isn't even applicable in TuscanRed's circumstances as she herself expressed in response to you, Dave.” As some reply to me, this is forum, we talk. Also, is own choice if advice, casual or formal, is taken. “Your words "Do you………. ………..your comments are out of line.” Do not agree with above paragraph but ok we disagree. “ Your superficial and one dimensional "solution" to the situation faced by TuscanRed and other women clearly shows your life experience in perspective on work and responsibilities. As TuscanRed said, she needs her mobile on permanently for family reasons. “ So many people say “you make assumptions” in thread but now I humbly say “You make assumptions about me that are incorrect ChasingChilli”. I have need for mobile on all time for work and for family which touched by tragedy and miracles. I use two mobile so only woken by need of work or by need of those I love, not by inconsiderate or drunk or whatsoever. I have responsibility and care, and I humbly say your assumption of me is wrong ChasingChilli. “…….and if you care to read many of my previous posts on older threads……….” Have not taken time to do so, time is precious, you understand I am sure. “Dave, I really like that you are encouraging people to take responsibility and change self because you're correct, we can never change others. Change is usually made slowly over time, by small increments which, when repeated, become new behaviours. TuscanRed is on a journey and I believe we should respect her no matter how far down the path of wisdom she has gone with regards to online safety and as yet it's all assumption. Let's not minimise her for speaking out.” Excellent, I agree and we have common thought and understanding here. “Dave - it's great to see that you take constructive criticism on board and even better, you know how to apologise - that's very sexy in a guy” I learn as all smart people learn and I hope you learn from me as well, there is no person that we can not learn from, believing otherwise is day of stopping learning. I apologise if I agree I am wrong as all smart people do, I trust you feel same. Is not sexy in a guy, is sexy in a person. I think this important, is for thinking. SLK, thankyou for kind words, I am fond of your both being strong and gentle. Mikeandshel, I am afraid to answer ha ha ha, thoughts already made, addressed yes? Goodness for you two.Apology for big length, wish could always say same ha ha.
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RHP User
14 years ago
You say there were four people that read the posts, your friends. I may be a bit pedantic but this last post is written by a person who has English as a second language the other posts are different. Maybe its a collective answer?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hello TR You are not asking a pedantic question, you are asking a good question. When I first write one housemate help me with English, my words are good and I understand well but writing grammar not so good as you see ha ha!Have help but not much help after. More on my own writing replies, have less help from housemates but all housemates want to see when I ask is person calling me dickhead!Glad you read and trust you understand my good meanings TR.
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RHP User
14 years ago
A little help at times I am dyslexic, try getting a uni degree and you cant spell or do times tables and blond!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am good at asking for help, is how we learn.Good you get uni degree, you will finish it, you work hard when difficult, I understand.Do not be negative you are blond even in joke, be proud. Is not good to make stereotype.
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