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thanks for nothing
November 07 2009
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Darkknight81
16 years ago
Hey there, Sorry to hear you guys were stood up first of all. I have had that many a time believe it or not from a few couples as well. It is hard enough getting to the point to meet as a single guy and to have people just not show for no reason doesn't help. Make sure if your going to bail at least let the people know. I am sick of sitting at a coffee shop by myself. lol.thanks for the post Sorrentosexy so I can vent too :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lolz... I arranged a play date from here to meet a at club once... the person concerned later told me that she was in her car in the carpark and just wasn't brave enough to go through the door. I hear of people doing this at private parties too. lolz... well, fortunately it was a sex club so I have no end of fun anyways... but still.... It really isn't that intimidating inside, people. Everyone inside is an average kinkster just like you. People with bodies of all shapes and sizes, normal jobs and normal lives and normal families who like sex, just like you. Just suck up a deep breathe and walk in like you own the joint. Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
Did you play with the other couple whose playmates did not show??
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RHP User
16 years ago
they were still holding on to the idea that their couple would turn up,we decided to use a room while we waited it was a strange room there were glass bricks in one wall that faced the front door,as people walked in you got a free show...good for a laugh.
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RHP User
16 years ago
So sorry to hear your man is/was such a prick so cruel, men are like cars sometimes you get a lemon, maybe time to trade up.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Trish she can have him, she has probability just gone and saved the rest of your life! I think you should send her flowers thanking her for taking out the trash, Life is so special every day is a gift, it would be a crime to waste it by loving a pig that doesnt love back. I promise you the hurt will pass and someone will steal you heart for real.
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RHP User
16 years ago
He will get his just desserts, and i dont mean me, without you doing a thing, and just remember men are like buses. Another one eventually comes along.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm sorry. My hearing is playing up. Did someone say "banana in her tailpipe"??? Hugs Gaz<<<<< puts hand up highest of all to assssist.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am sick and tired of people not being polite enough to reply to a message or a wink with a simple Hi or Sorry not interested !Fuck is it really that hard to be nice !I was raised to always be nice to people and give everybody a chance at least, but this seems all to hard for some who simply just ignore everything.I am either too old or too much trouble it seems (without being given a chance) maybe I should just cut the fucking thing off so I do not have to be so frustrated.All I can say is - fuck it ! - Fuck them !
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RHP User
16 years ago
I hear you man, aint hard to send a simple reply saying you're not interested.Really irritates me.
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RHP User
16 years ago
If you cut it off you'll send Gazza into three day mourning period, much better to find what does work for you. in a town like yours i would think a different tact would be more helpful, maybe send a message not a flirt it shows you took the time for the contact, i'm not big on cock shots. seeing eyes on a gentle face is easy to talk to. maybe you on your bike is a great shot,keeping your snake to show later on .....but that just my thoughts every girls different.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Its a big step we think meeting another couple at a prearranged party or club, We have been to both 2-3 times and would not consider meeting a couple we had not met before at one. Whilst saying that we have arranged dinner with coupleswe have met previously with the intention of going to club after dinner but everytime we got side tracked back to our own places to play! Its not a problem couple to couple over dinner and our private play place. But its a big step to meet and play at a party or club without actually meeting your potenetail play mates first. Small steps? And get to know your play mates? Just some thoughts Cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
This is why I either have a back up plan, or just don't get too caught up in ONLY the person I'm meeting. Just go, have fun, and if the person shows up then something MIGHT happen. Not everyone is as brave as you. I learnt that real quick.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks sorrentosexy I do value your comments and you make a good point, I have found there are very few girls in my local area it seems that are interested in a guy my age. This is soooooo frustrating because I am strongly attracted to nice young lady's and struggle to find women my age sexy. Don't get me wrong, there are some who are very sexy but simply not available at all it seems.I am struggling with my natural urges because I am a highly sexed guy with virtually no way to meet my needs as they are. I know it is natuaral selection and all that but it is getting to be rather serious and it is affecting my everyday life. I am unhappy to say the least and I don't see things getting any better without some lustful fornicating and all that goes with it happening.Anyway I will make some changes shortly and hope for a change.I really am a nice, trustful, reliable, Capricorn guy that needs a friend (with benefits).
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RHP User
16 years ago
that last line is great, but always keep in mind woman our age (my and yours) are beautiful too, dont get caught by this idolistic programing that magazines portrait, im 43 and in great shape, we can be more fun too. good luck.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi All :) Bit of the subject but, Trish I sooo Agree with SORRENTOSEXY in that you should send her flowers and thank her for making your life better in the long run. I know in some ways it may not seam like she has at the moment as it seams like you have only found out about the "import" recently. For one thing sending flowers to her may make you feel better about the situation and secondly, once she receives them saying "Thank you for making my life better and giving me a happier future" she may start to wonder just what she has gotten herself in for and start realising for herself just what sort of A## hole your ex really is. It not a nice thing to hear of happening but stay positive and life will get better, As they say there are plenty of fish in the sea and prob alot of them on here (including me if i was single lol) would not say no to you :P so there is positives out there :) Cyas Hihellogday :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'SORRENTOSEXY' that last line is great, but always keep in mind woman our age (my and yours) are beautiful too, dont get caught by this idolistic programing that magazines portrait, im 43 and in great shape, we can be more fun too. good luck. I agree whole heartedly but it seems the beautiful lady's in question are more interested in massaging their own ego's or after young studs or money and not the "friends with benefits" with "nice guys" like me !.I do get really frustrated and somewhat angry when I am not treated with the respect I deserve, like an answer to my messages for example. I humbly respect each and every girl/lady on here, we all have needs, but we also need to respect the boundaries and have decent polite dealings with each other.Lady's all you need to do is answer with either " I am interested ---------" or "Sorry not interested" is it too hard or what ?Thanks SORRENTOSEXY for your understanding, you are obviously a wise and smart lady.
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RHP User
16 years ago
everybodys got a story... maybe a few..lol.. l ve met with three from rhp and its been fantastic. we chatted and got to know each other first and l even went so far as to go out of state with someone i conected too. hang in there guys, standing someone up never crossed my mind as l m into honesty first,reasons second. trish lm so feeling u, only my ex brings his girl around and throws her in my face weekly, what lve learnt is they ll learn they cant do it when u let them know, either by going to her with flowers, which l think is priceless, or by just getting so distraught at facing them in thier lovy dovy stage that u spit words in great sentances at them until they leave.!! hey l am a redhead!!! anyway u r better off without people to drag u down, b yourself,thats what l say, b yourself, what goes around comes around!!! let karma bite him on the ass!!!!
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