RHP

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straight ladies limits?

July 26 2012

As a couple with bi-girl/straight-male dynamic, we would like to hear from straight females who have experienced or are considering group/same room situations & what is considered acceptable interaction?We have left the question very vague & open as we're interested in all points of view on the subject.Thanks for sharing!

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    We once played with a couple who we had only briefly exchanged messages with beforehand. The opportunity presented itself to play so we all dived in head first......eager beaver here immediately went in for a kiss with the lovely lady and worked my way down her belly only to find a hand gently pushing me away!! Um AWKWARD!!! Yep, she was straight and I felt terrible.....So somehow, I dont think that was acceptable.....XXX

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Our lady has said a couple times now to couples with a bi girl in bed, "make yourself comfortable, move over, it must be uncomfortable on the edge of the bed. We can touch you know"   Much the same as the guys they are going to touch its part of four in one bed.   In both instances there is a difference between a sexual touch and touching causually. The lady here quite often gets the other female touching her breasts and she gently pushes her hand away and welcomes your husbands hands. But if it persists she will get out of bed, get dressed and we are on our way home.   The lady is looking for a sexual experiance with the opposite sex....your husband combined with the erotic visual of her husband with you. There is no Bi anticapation / curiousity, we find the opposite sex extremely exciting and thats enough for us combined with watching our partners with you / your partner.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Waterbabes'eager beaver here immediately went in for a kiss with the lovely lady and worked my way down her belly only to find a hand gently pushing me away!! Um AWKWARD!!! Yep, she was straight and I felt terrible.....When the eager beaver comes across a not-so-eager beaver.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'neptune_drift' Quoting 'Waterbabes'eager beaver here immediately went in for a kiss with the lovely lady and worked my way down her belly only to find a hand gently pushing me away!! Um AWKWARD!!! Yep, she was straight and I felt terrible.....When the eager beaver comes across a not-so-eager beaver. So you reckon its more eager for same sex play ............... Opposite sex attraction is not eager?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I am straight and not bi or bi curious in any way but I didn't have a problem with a lady pleasuring me in a group situation a few years ago. She knew I was straight and I would not reciprocate so it was her choice.It turned out to be a fun night and I had two gorgeous men to play with......plus the guys found it a huge turn on watching her pleasure me.Its always best to discuss these things first with a straight woman but its not as bad as most straight women think.....so try it.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'neptune_drift' Quoting 'Waterbabes'eager beaver here immediately went in for a kiss with the lovely lady and worked my way down her belly only to find a hand gently pushing me away!! Um AWKWARD!!! Yep, she was straight and I felt terrible.....When the eager beaver comes across a not-so-eager beaver. A case of "beaver fever"?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    But the rest is ok, and I do not mind if a woman enjoys my Y mca.   though mostly its men that turn me on.   I am the accidental bi tourist

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Futurenomads' So you reckon its more eager for same sex play ............... Opposite sex attraction is not eager? Wordplay is not your strong suit, is it.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'TongueCramps' Quoting 'neptune_drift'When the eager beaver comes across a not-so-eager beaver. A case of "beaver fever"? Love it!! Very funny guys XXX

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    i am bi curious..and also interested in a 3some..but ive never acted upon my fantasies and would probably expect the couple/female to take the lead (especially if they have done this sort of thing before) im a very shy person but seriously the skies the limit. i personally am open for anything.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    As the great playwrite once said "to thine own self be true". We all have different turn ons and turn offs, I think the most important thing in a threesome, foursome or group situation is that everyone is on the same page. If limits are respected then how can it not be fun!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I once played with a long time male school friend and his wife. I am straight. I couldn't go down on her but she certainly did to me and it was awesome. Loved kissing her and tounching her.   Need to mention that I was slightly intoxicated as we all were and I don't think I could participate if I was completely sober. Love big cocks too much!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    There are way to many variations here. The only way to be comfortable is to ask at the beginning of the play... just simple questions like, do you guys have any boundaries or are you into girls. That way you know what is on and what isn't. Makes it easier that way.Meeka xx

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Thanks all for your responses & your generosity in sharing your thoughts & experiences.We always discuss boundaries & limits before play as it would be remiss not to. However when the pressure to perform/be liked/ppl please etc. is present sometimes the conversation/response does not reflect true feelings. We're just hoping to get a peek inside the heads of ladies who've been in that situation & learn what they may have experienced emotionally & physically.We appreciate that every person is an individual & each encounter/experience is unique, though are grateful for a little insight into what it's like for a straight lady to be in the mix with a bi lady. As ms Fantasy cannot remember ever not liking girls, we cannot draw from experience.Thanks again & we look forward to reading more !! M&N