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straight?

September 28 2009

call me naive, but why do straight male click on to a profile,that clearly states bi male for couples and bi male.are they hiding something?what do you do? respond to there message?politely say no thanks?i see myself as bi male on rhp,and advertise as such.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well clicking on a person's profile isn't really a request for a fuck. Maybe they're just wondering why you chose your nickname. Anyway, it takes a little more than just looking at your profile as an indication that they are interested in you in any sexual way..... which is what I keep telling all the homophobic straight guys who comlpain if I accidently click on their profiles. I mena to say.. hasn't everyone clicked on a profile and then thought "nah.. definitely not for me".....   Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    In my experience there are alot of straight men on this site in particular who are curious about trying a guy.  What annoys is me is they justify it to themselves by looking for a tranny or she male - not understanding it's still a guy they are fucking

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    "straight" is a label that seems to mean a lot of different things to a lot of different people. One person's definition of straight is not anothers, I've seen this right here in the forums! Are you no longer straight if you fantasize about sex with the same sex? Are you no longer straight if you've kissed a person of the same sex? Are you straight if you like cock in your ass but only if you don't look to see who's doing it?? lol etc etc etc etc... you get my point :P   "Bi" also seems to mean different things to different people - are you bi if you like sex with the same sex but wouldn't consider having a long-term relationship with him/her? etc etc etc   I guess labels are useful for people to put everyone in little, neat boxes but it doesn't seem that simple to me!   So what if one of these guys who messages you, for the moment, identifies as straight and wants to explore his boundries? If you think he's hot, message back, you might be the one who opens his eyes to the fact that the world isn't black and white but lots of shades of grey. If you don't think he's hot, politely say no thanks!   I don't really get the problem here, am I missing something? Too many labels... and now I'm all confused... going to go lay down and contemplate my navel... Gaz, wanna contemplate with me?? :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Why of course! I've been contemplating your navel for weeks now, Sister Mary Sophie.. errrrr... I mean Sophie. :P Shall I bring the scented candles my love?   Hugs Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Ha!  I am not bi!! the sex I had with males was all in prison...and none of them fellas were bi either.. *smiles* Seriously now... Umm most profiles, you cant tell how old the person is, OR thier sexual proclivities.. Or what they may or may not want until you click on it..and view it. I often read fellas profiles.. mainly if i see them chat on line.. OR, if they have something quirky or interesting in their name.. Fck.. I am interested in Different.. I have mates who are bi or gay... and some of them bastards are damned tough..AND good blokes... well.. good people! SHOCK horror... I even COMMENT on some.. and here's the rub.. I comment on females too... NOT hitting on them... and, it is the females who get most bent out of shape.. AND, there's another thing that pisses me off with cowardly fckrs... I recently commented on a lonley girls profile.. and wished her well... NEVER suggested anything sexual or anything..and she got so stupidly agressive.. no wonder she is a lonely girl :) no wonder her EX kicked her arse out of home!! You know.. I am yet to be abused by a bi or gay MALE... EVER!!!!   I am sure there is a moral here... but, you go figure huh?   :P