RHP

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sexual gratification

February 06 2013

i've noticed lately that the women i've met are really only interested in what they enjoy and don't ask me if there is anything i want to do. this a backlash from them feeling like they were just being used when they first started having sex?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    He had a broken leg. I did what I wanted and he had no choice!!! Only backlash I want is a black leather one ... *insert devil emoticon*. Do you wait for your playmates to ask you what you want?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    just about sex,then maybe.Or perhaps they assume that in giving them pleasure it is giving you pleasure.Perhaps you need to say that you are interested in mutuality.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    errrrrrrrrrr NO!! My motto: Please me, I please you. Choose the right woman and you won't feel the need for clarification. :-) SuperFox- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Your a man, take what you want.. Haha really though the 50's/60's women is gone, gone are the days where a woman is there to please you, cook dinner for you, etc etc. nowadays, to a certain extent, women are able to ask for what they want when not so long ago they would be too timid. On this site especially, women are spoilt for choice and it's up to men to fulfill their desires/meet their standards. But in the end I am sure they want a man to be confident enough to ask what they want.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    @steve3800 At 55 years of age you should know how to please your partners in a way that pleases you! If it's something special/kinky/differemt, you need to ask/discuss. Just my two cents 😄- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    It's simple You were used for sex and she just wasn't that into you Welcome to our world !!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    It isn't all about me. I love to please my man!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' It's simple You were used for sex and she just wasn't that into you Welcome to our world !!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    your seeing women in the same age group, i doubt a woman of 50 years would be carrying that sort of baggage around for that long, so i doubt that's the problem. Also, people aren't mind readers ..ask and you shall receive.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    They may just be scared you will ask for something that will involve them heading to the bush...and quite frankly they may need a GPS to find their way out again. Did I say that out loud, or was it just in my head I'm sorry, I just coughed up a fur ball....that was out loud too wasn't it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I dont read minds, I read cock but thats just assumption some guys want me to hug them , with no sex   I gotta read the play a bit better

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Jo Jackson's Real Men going through my head.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Shinasbabe27'You were used for sex Sounds good to me :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    sux for you mate..   Selfish lovers can be a bummer....   Mike

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Communication Steve as someone mentioned u don't get unless you ask. I love to please a man but I love him to please me too. However if he is noting getting it quite right. Guess what I give a gentle touch to his hand and move it. If that doesn't work I verbally ask him how I need it to get my pleasure. I've also asked a man if it was working for him. He was quite happy to tell me in a what way I could to increase his pleasure.Then lets hope all you hear is alot of mmmmmmmmmmm.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Some are just in it for the sex, wham bam thank you m'am/man. You have choices as mentioned above, there is something for everybody here, just have to be definite about what you want and eventually like minded people will attract.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    As a women there is NOTHING worse I can think of than being asked what I want to do in the bedroom!Are you giving them this option?I want a man that is masculine, dominant and wants to take control in a passionate way.I can only imagine it being extremely awkward if a female stopped during foreplay and said "what would you like me to do you" and allow you to brainstorm your options. You should know what you want and go and get it, whilst pleasing her as well. Stop allowing these women to walk over you!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'buttsylicious'As a women there is NOTHING worse I can think of than being asked what I want to do in the bedroom!Are you giving them this option?I want a man that is masculine, dominant and wants to take control in a passionate way.I can only imagine it being extremely awkward if a female stopped during foreplay and said "what would you like me to do you" and allow you to brainstorm your options. You should know what you want and go and get it, whilst pleasing her as well. Stop allowing these women to walk over you!She then hands him a clip board with sexual options for him to choose from. "lets see suck cock, tick box, sit on my face, tick box, reverse cowgirl, big tick box, be fed my own cum with a spoon, might just not tick that box :/

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I wouldn't be so sure.. If a girl asked me that... Well, lets just say giving free range like that could be dangerous hehe ;)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    at the risk of sounding like the typical male I do what I want it just so happens to be in the woman's favour I don't know what its like for other guys but for me its the woman that comes first (that could be a pun) I enjoy the endless kissing and caressing of every part of a woman the going down on a woman running my tongue over that smooth silky clitoris and the hood until she say stop sucking on the breast to get them erect and pinching them lightly between my teeth the moaning is such a turn on massaging the inner G spot until she can no longer lay still and stopping just be for the stars come out then start all over again

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    all sorts :-) :-) :-) xx Q

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Yes but just reading that makes me feel pressured.... like I have to cum. I don't like it when blokes are on a "mission"

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Went right out the window right there. If SHE wasn't giving as much as you thought YOU were, I'd have got dressed and left. Simple. However, by the time you get to taking off your clothes, had you not discussed likes and dislikes of each other as part of your vetting process?? I'm not suggesting you've failed, but I AM suggesting BOTH of you have had no balls/vagina to make it about each other. - Posted from rhpmobile