sexless marriage

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Yardley   Do you mean to look for something with a guy that won't compromise your marriage?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Yardley I'm not personally married, but my honest suggestion would be if you're not getting it in the marriage, then discuss it with your wife and work out what the issue is.  If you want to go outside the marriage to get it, then she probably won't be around much longer, and you possibly won't have respected her by doing it. Seriously, work on getting it going back in the marriage, even counselling if need be.  There's got to be a very good reason, don't just take the short term easy option and cheat on her.  I've heard heaps of examples where a couple have been dormant, figured it out, and they go off like a cracker factory.  Others have never fixed it, just cheated, and they end up breaking up in a bad situation.  Work with your wife, not against her.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  There is nothing respectful about doing anything behind your partners back, in fact it would be cowardice on your part to not talk to them first, who knows your partner may be up to sharing each other "together".My suggestion is go see a councillor together, or have a wank.Cheers

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I have a wife who has never had any sexual urge or interest. She enjoys sex once we get started but is not interested in initiating it and is happy for me to fill my "needs" elsehwhere, obviously there are some conditions on that. Such as safe sex, no sleepovers etc. It is to be purely a physical thing and that is understood with my partners. If there is any suspicion of feelings then the liason has to end.

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