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sex drive
October 06 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have my moments when I can't get enough and moment's where I am just not in the mood - either option could be as long as a week and they don't come in any cyclical way either. Poor Trev sometimes I don't think he knows if he is cumming or going :) K.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Surely RHP's resident bad girl hasn't started to cool off!!! If you're off the boil Hotazice, then there's no hope for the rest of us LOL!!!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Awwww..... sorry to here that's happened (if it has happened to you) Jess.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have those every so often! Some days i'll be going for it (solo or not) a fair few times and then jump my hubby when he gets home and then still rub another one out!Other days i'll go even a week without doing anything sexual at all (sooo rare though LOL) but yes it does happen!xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
mine seems to be going on for a while tho mayb its coz im not having regular sex i just dont want it anymore or im not fussed or the guys SUCK lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
You may well be right that it's because you're not having regular sex... something I remember reading about looong time ago lol was that rather than the libido building up cos you're not getting it regular, it gets used to it and goes down...Good luck with that!Cheers Mrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
Missy gets bored very easily if not kept constantly stimulated and not just rudey fings either, otherwise I just wander off and find something else to do with my time.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sex releases dopamines... the same stuff that is generated when we are high on drugs.. so for some people it's a cycle.. like being addicted to heroin.. you have a serious high.. followed by a serious low.... like a pendulum.... what you want to do is try to keep your urges in some kind of balance.... at a similar level at all times... how you do that, I am not sure... but I think it is health related.... e.g. if I stick to my physical routine my libido stays relatively constant... but my libido ebbs when I over do it at the gym or if I don't go at all... like take a month off or something. I think our bodies react to physical and mental stress by lowering libido. So make sure you're getting all your essential vitamins and enough sleep... and feed the fire regularly, even though you do not fel like it.. or else when it returns your body tries to make up for lost time! :p Pure speculation of course. hehe. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hows the rest of your life hot... are you happy....even if you are our bodies go through stage as well at different ages.... might just be a seasonal sort of thing you are experiencing.... best not to worry to much about it,( but keep an eye on it still tho) and follow the advice of Gaz et al and get your activity levels up ... even if its solo. single sex lets you whatever person, place, thing, kink or whatever fantasy you want... as far as the brain is concerned its still sex after all ( and is crappy man independent lol). . But if you are a bit down or it doesnt come back of its own accord and is taking a long time... pop in and see your GP - its not uncommon and often its something simple like the pill. Good luck... 2b :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Connection is also important.Sometimes far more than sexuality even though our lives get preoccupied with it.Even at low times , one may experience a touch that sends instant thrills pulsating through the body.If you find someone like that enjoy it while you can and if it subsides just be patient and wait for the next wave.Life starts with sex but it's not all about sex.
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RHP User
16 years ago
those replies r helpfull...I am a very healthy person tho I go to the gym 5 times a week and eat rlly healthy i think its bcoz i havnt found that connection with someone in a while so yeh that must be it ;p
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ttgong
16 years ago
here's hoping you find that again soon ....you're too gorgeous a girl to not have that big :) out and about :p
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sounds like a challenge Jess.. heheheheh.. In all seriousness... I hopee you get out of the 'rutt' if you can call it that.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't have a high libido in the first place, but if I don't have a partner, I'm quite happy to go without for a long, long time. Unless I'm really, really, really, really bored, but that's rarely the case, I'm usually always too busy. While I can sleep with someone out of boredom, I know I won't enjoy it as much if I have a connection with the person, so these days I'd rather go without. I really need that connection before I'm switched on. My body reflects the stresses of my life at the time, if I'm really stressed, or sleep deprived, or my mind just refuses to let go of something, particularly if I'm working on a design or a choreography, nothing stirs me, even if I have a gods gift to women for a partner...nothing happens.
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RHP User
16 years ago
...damn shame for all the hopefuls out there but HotAz I wouldn't worry about it. Life has many facets of which sex is just one. Maybe you're more focused on other things at the moment. Relax, the ol' sex drive will always be there when you need it to be...I hope we're near by!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I go through phases... totallly orny all the time, where i have to masturbate like 3 times a day ( when not having regular sex on tap) to nothin at all.... My last live in partner, had surgery and i was like he lost his sex drive for a few months, i was going crazy. But about 6 months later, i lost my sex drive completly... not sure why, we tried everything, i enjoyed sex when it was actually happening, but actually getting me in the mood to actually do it was difficult, Honestly the thing that made it return was our plans of a 3some, we both got really worked u talking about it, and finding that right person...we had some of the best sex after talking bout what we wanted to do with the 3rd person...( unfortunately we split, b4 we actually did it) Stress can also kill a sex drive, stay relaxed and it will come back... u will find the one that rocks ur socks and u will be BACK!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
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RHP User
16 years ago
The more you have it the more u want it
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RHP User
16 years ago
sounds like your stressed out!!! you should try something different a holiday maybe or just a relaxing weekend!!or even a relaxing dirty weekend!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
sounds like your stressed out!!! you should try something different a holiday maybe or just a relaxing weekend!!or even a relaxing dirty weekend!!
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