F65
peed off
September 24 2007
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RHP User
18 years ago
You are right there is more to life than in sex drugs and rock 'n' roll and that some people don't seem to realise that. Have you tried taking garlic for your cold. A nice soothing drink is orange lemon and honey anyway hope you feel better
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RHP User
18 years ago
It's a world of instant satisfaction, self gratification, road rage, uppers and downers, high caffeine drinks, non stop high octane computer games and truck drivers living on NoDoze. So it's possible your male MSN contact has attention deficit, a personality disorder or just goes into transmit and turns off the receive. He's obviously not listening. I never seem to be amazed at how everyone is wired differently in some way. Cats and dogs are the same... each has it's own quirks. So it seems this chap spat the dummy because you're off colour and not performing like a 'Dial a Dirty Chat' Phone Number Girl. The cheap skate... why doesn't he go and pay for it, if that's when he wants. Meanwhile, it will leave the airwaves free for more considerate gents, with a little more empathy, to provide you with friendly company until you're feeling better.
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RHP User
18 years ago
i moved on...
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RHP User
18 years ago
Hi Nerfertiti, I know how you feel. I have had positive replies and sent messages only to never hear from them again. In fact I'm still waiting to hear from you!.
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RHP User
18 years ago
sorry I havent deleted you just my work hours and time online dont seem to coincide with yoursor others anymore :(
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RHP User
18 years ago
and you are? not even talking about you good lordy
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RHP User
18 years ago
to alot of guys this is just a sex site hence being redhotpie sex swingers site.....am sure if they wanted just to chat they would go to pubs or elsewhere..they come here as alot of women are easy to f**k.......and if they wanted dating am sure they would try the dating section TIT_witch xx
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RHP User
18 years ago
The sex may or may not lead to far more but that is what i'm here for and i for one am not ashamed of it. Where else am i to go? Working guys don't have a lot of time for the kind of groundwork it takes to compete now days given the odds we're up against ;).
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RHP User
18 years ago
In principle, a site like this seems ideal if one applies woodyperth's reasonable notion... regarding a means of hopefully discovering what's in the love and sex marketplace, and making contact, particular when people lead a busy life, and find it a handicap competing with those who have idle time on their hands. In this electronic age, technology is here to serve us, so one expects the Internet to be a more efficient and effective way of achieving this. But just as a freeway is designed to speed up traffic and reduce transit time... it often gets congested in peak hours... and does the exact opposite. Clogged mailboxes full of unread mail from prospective suitors seems the sad outcome, and there's disappointment over a lack of replies, after reading such comments, left in the forums. Maybe it's back to the drawing board for the software boffins... to come up with an improved concept. Possibly that's why there are new subjects in the questionnaire? But there needs to be a more effective means of processing and filtering, that promptly feeds back the outcome, giving helpful hints as to why a suitor is rejected. I'm sure genuine people would welcome knowledge of the reasons they fail... likewise it would be a great aid to learn what successful suitors are doing right. Maybe each sex can vote for desirable attributes pertaining to various worthy members, based on real contact. This could provide a measure of such things as personality, libido, performance, attraction, honesty, trustworthiness, etc. Whatever is needed to streamline the selection process... with the additional aim of gaining better results for all. Having said all that... I do think that the boffins have done a pretty good job of designing this site.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Far and away one of your better posts ;). I think a lot of the complaints here from both sexes are just natural selection due to the difference in numbers, upbringing and social values. The site does work, just in different ways for different people. A little understanding and acceptance from all that there are a lot of very different men, women and couples in here all looking to fulfill different wants, needs and desires would help lubricate the wheel and it may roll a little smoother ;). Not everybody is going to click, actually given the variety in the type of people and what we're all looking for the odds are against any of us on any one meeting. There are a lot of people in here though... :). That is also assuming one is looking for more than sexy fun, i think casual reduces the neccessary requirements for compatability a lot but they're still there lol.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Thank you woodyperth for the kind words... and you do raise a number of valid points. The interests of people here can vary greatly from married people who either want to play or just chat with like minded people... to those who participate in BDSM. That range is enormous and can get very intense, as the indulgence of sensual pleasure deviates from the simple erotic to a more risky and debauched lifestyle. At that extreme level of participation, events become almost ceremonious, with costumes, apparatus, and endless activities, often involving pain... some of which may not even involve sexual penetration. Life is like an ice cream parlor which serves thousands of flavours. Some want plain vanilla, whilst others are more adventurous and will experiment beyond neopolitan. Now assuming a couple find common ground with their needs and kinks... they may not click at first contact, for a variety of other reasons. But often the most unexpected things happen, and it may occur during a chance encounter in a shop or at a party... where the most unlikeliest of people gel... regardless of age, appearance, or other matters which one may expect to discriminate. A face to face encounter can be all telling... which a remote contact here may never disclose. I was explaining to a lovely lady here, how I'm very handicapped in the chat facility, as people may have observed. Firstly, I'm only a slow one finger typist... and secondly, my eyesight ain't what it used to be. So therefore have trouble keeping up when the chat is busy... as it seems to fly past whilst I'm still pondering a long past passage. My replies also tend to be unfortunately brief and often full of typographical errors. The video camera aspect cheers me up no end when the ladies tease. I can follow that endlessly with ease, which results in me once again missing out on much of the text conversation. Which probably leaves others thinking that I'm purely a voyeuristical dirty old man. No wonder the wires got crossed in Nefertiti's original post...
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RHP User
18 years ago
If you're not perfect enough for someone i wouldn't consider it your problem. When it happens to me i usually consider it theirs ;). Nefertiti, we're all looking for different things. What this site is to you doesn't mean it means the same thing to me. I've never bothered you because you are obviously not looking for the same things as i am. No problem but i am a guy, not a "you guys" ;)
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RHP User
18 years ago
woddy why is everything have to be about you?
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RHP User
18 years ago
hmmmmm sometimes peoples posts tell so much more about themselves than their profiles do. keep smiling andy&jo xxx
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RHP User
18 years ago
Probably the main reason is that i don't feel qualified to speak for others, unlike so many it seems. I can only genuinely offer my own opinion. If that offends you then its not really my problem, you just go by what others tell you... ;)
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RHP User
18 years ago
Woody yo the man! I may not always agree with you but I admire your candor.
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RHP User
18 years ago
super gran deleted NO WAY ahhhhhhhh i feel for ya granny stop upseting granny you bastards!!!!!!!!!!! starrxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
18 years ago
sorry Woody but you are one of the "you guys" in general. :) *waits for an onslaught of new abuses of the same words used int he last abuse*
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RHP User
18 years ago
try hot irish whisky with honey tried and tested abundantly by myself and my forefathers
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RHP User
18 years ago
A glass or two of Cabernet Merlot or Shiraz a day will keep the doctor away...
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RHP User
18 years ago
bloody hell.. and i've had ladies delete me because i did not want to talk sex strait away... OHHH the confusion... calm down and cheer up nefer.. LRE
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