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normal to ninfo ?

February 13 2008

Ok so I have a question that’s been chewing at the back of my brain, it come up when I put my 2c in for “Hot Topics - Valid Women” Women need to be validated a lot more then we (men) realise, and a lot of things ticked off there inner list of needs, heres the problem us man Don’t, as long as the woman is attractive we are ready (for sex that is, we need some common ground, and some validation of our own for any relationship). But here the thing there are woman out there that for some reason are ready to do just about any guy, any time, usually they are ether are proud to be labelled a “ninfo maniac” do you think porn stars are sitting at the end of the bed needing to be validated by all 8 guys who about to bang her I think not, and unfortunately most guy are looking for that type of woman on RHP (to much Porn me thinks), when the fact of the matter is, they are few and far between in ever day life. I have had 3 girlfriends that you could put in this category, and that’s what’s bugging me what changes these girls/woman from normal to ninfo. - I know one was abused as teenagers but not the other two (well they never talked on the topic, or acted like they had been). - 2 where rely big in to porn and told me they had found there dad or older brothers porn collection (this is all pre net years) and where hooked on it from then, but the other hated porn Other then the sex-sex-sex and porn addiction, they where just normal girls just the same as any other girl friend I have had, so my question is what do you woman think, is it how they where raised, is it porn (scary thought now any one can just click for the most hard core porn out there), or is just genetics. I ask in here as if any forum can answer it, it’s this one. Thanks for reading, look forward to some feed back keith

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RHP User

18 years ago

Ok I have a little experiiance and knowlege in this, women love to be appriciated. 8 guys on 1 woman, the girl in this senario is looking to be satisfied and the more men that surround her, pound on her the better. women need to feel its just not a physical thing for women it is an emotional as well as a spiritual journey. I have had more than 3 girlfriends and I am still good friends with them some are straight some are wild some are well........ really. not all women are the same. One woman in particular liked to cheat on me, It was a role play, she would pick up a guy and have her way with him while I was working she would leave small items out and then wanted to be punished for it. Its all different, Please Ladies if I am wrong tell me. but this is from my own personal experiance Lavish

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18 years ago

Nice question keith... I'm definitely one woman who resides in the "ninfo" (nympho?) category, and I have asked myself this same thing many times. I've come up with a few theories, but I don't think its ever as basic as just "found my dads porn collection". People are complicated, and I think a lot more goes into a person's sexuality than we are usually aware. Forgive me if I don't share details in a public forum - I may be a slut, but I'm also a very private person. That probably sounds odd for someone who will happily get naked with a bunch of strangers, but I think what it comes down to for me is that I don't see sex as an act of intimacy - often quite the opposite. Mostly I'm glad you asked because I'm very intrigued to find out what impressions "normal" women will have of this........ IF any of them have the guts to say what they really think, lol. nadi xx

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RHP User

18 years ago

Who really cares why some chicks will fuck anything that moves - just be glad that there are otherwise loads of men wouldnt get a look in me thinks. Kiss x

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18 years ago

I attended a gang bang once and the woman just could not get what she needed from one man. She wanted it hard and fast and every which way for ages. Of course she was just lying there (though I imagine it would take some amount of energy to receive that kind of attention) and the guys were doing all the work. Can this have something to do with it?

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RHP User

18 years ago

Well interesting point on some women on here about ready to do any guy...Funny how i see it as the guys trying hard to do anyone and if one woman knocks them back they go next...To me that comment screams sl*t's...After all we all did join a site called redhotpie sex swingers.... Sweetie by the sounds of this story you have typed sounds like your looking for a starfish to satisfy your sexual needs...Got to add spice to it...But goodluck finding a starfish *dead root* TIT xx

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18 years ago

Hey thanks guys thanks for the input so far I should clarify something for Lavishmicrobe I have had 12 or so GF, 5 long term casual relationships, and about 18 or so 1 night stands/week end flings, and out of all those 3 GF where well ninfos, and the difference between the two is a big one, that’s what’s get me. I guess that’s the kind of a person I am, I like to questioning the unknown, don’t get me wrong I’m happy that there woman out there with that mind set, I had more care free fun in some rely cool places, with those 3 GF then all the other girls put together, not that I didn’t love, appreciate, care for, and look forward to ever interaction of my other lovers, however I will say this, those girls always left me wondering, my 1st cheated on me with 3 guys that I know of over 2 months, my 3rd was a open relationship in witch we shared each other with a few people, and I can’t say one way or the other for 2nd, it would seem that one guy is never enough for this kinda girls not a bad thing just how it is. So keep them coming love to hear more opinions from anyone. keith

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RHP User

18 years ago

Thats cool I Just thought that your 3 serious relationships was all there was my fault, Most people have little or no idea what they want until the get it, people have to experiment to see what is what. I huess the women here have a better understanding than us guys. Women need a reason, Men just need a place. Lavish

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18 years ago

I’m not looking for any one singular / rare type of girl, if I have learnt anything in life it’s the more restricted your search for anything is, the perfect house, car/bike, or person then your rely just shooting your self in the foot with a rely big gun, take what you can - when you can. “no perfect time, no perfect place – do or do not there is no try” two phrases that are tattooed to my forearm, and they are both phrases I do my best to live by. So starfishes, gropers, catfish, snapper, hell an octopus I am open to a broad spectrum of people for friends, sex, or just some fun chat from time to time ninfo or not. It’s not like I’m trying learn some secret formula to turn normal girls in to sex crazed ninfos, besides I think they call that “Vodka” and well there a long list of others formula’s. I was just asking if any one, in particular any girls on a sex site, what there thought on the subject it seem like a good place to ask, so like nadi stated, if any of them have the guts to say what they really think lol, I know would love to hear them, if not you then a friends story. That’s cool Lavish, no harm done, maybe you just nailed it “Women need a reason, Men just need a place.” I guess the Reason is varied ,excitement, to see how far they can push them selves, fame and riches, a life style, the list goes on. keith

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18 years ago

well u gotta just luv nympho's .. i have had no g/fs ,, plenty of 1 night stands ,, heaps of group stuff ,, and my point is who cares what makes em tick ,, haven't met 1 that i would like too get to know yet and that ain't half bad from where i stand and i laugh at all of you's who waste braincells on the things that don't matter

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18 years ago

hi im kittypie and im a sex addict... lol i know for me i always want sex simply because i enjoy it!!! i guess a small part of that comes from wanting acceptance though as i was shipped around as a kid and never felt like i belonged anywhere.... but mostly just because i love to f*ck!!! hahaha I have heard that a lot of "nymphos" are like that because something was lacking growing up, be it parents (father figure), friends or something like that.... but i do agree with everyone, why question a damn good thing! lol

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RHP User

18 years ago

Your post was hot.

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