RHP

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is bi cheating?

March 01 2010

Ive recentlly raise this issue with my wife that i would like to suck cock, she freaked, she is bi and we have been with other women, both as a couple and her alone so it boils down to if i want to try same sex fun, i have to do it behind her back, she would warm to the idea, but at first id have to be sneaking, is it cheating coz i could never cheat on her, but there is things i want to do in my life that she cant help me with am i being unfair or unfaithful thoughts?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    If its good enough for her to have chicks,its only fair for you to play with guys.My wife and I are both open about this and have allowed each of us to go and play. Just dont go behind her back as this is dishonest,whats good for the goose is good for the gander!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    almost the same here my wife is bi and im looking to try but she is ok with the idea im just looking for the right guy she can only play with girls i can only play with guys

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Between a cock and a hard place...I dont like that about females...we are sooo complicated u guys are not.....and i think your girl is way outta line....spell it out to her...or hit her over her head with her double ended house wrecker.....that you probably bought talk...then fuck some....then talk more.....oh moaning...and silence is sweet xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    If you want to play with guys go for it! She is playing with girls.. Just dont go behind her back..it is def cheating that way.. Good luck and hope she joins you. huggies sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i say go for it,,,just explain to her,,and only to happy to help out,, msd,, if required bigbitts,,,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i think its a turn on i would love it if my man was keen

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    NO...............................

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    God I hope not :-) Hey Jak, how r u gorgeous ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Is it jealousy or is it control? No, I think it's fear. Yes, you heard me right. I said 'fear'. Your lady's scared that once you get into some bi-action, you'll find: a) that other men give better head than she does b) you'll become such an artist that not only will you have higher expectations of her in the bedroom........but you will probably show her up, cos you do it far better. Look, as a special favour to you and other men on here, I am willing to drop my pants as part of your study, and critique you, scoring your performance out of 10. It'll be like Masterchef, except I'm the meal AND the judge. But, hey, usually 3 judges critique one meal, so let's mix it up here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i dont think being bi is cheating, she has been with women by her self is that cheating?? what is she freaked about?? you being with guy or the thought of you being gay/bi?? if she is that worried tell her to buy a strap-on

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    bi is great fun, Im lucky my lady got me into it, and fucks me with the strapon, and loves seeing me being fucked too, talk to your wife, tell her that same sex is normall, i for some time had to question, if i was turning gay, ? as i liked bi fun so much, but when we worked it out i was only after sex with guys not love my mind was calmed, ry having a biguy join you in a mmf and see how she responds to you sucking his cock etc, and work up i did , or down lol, we have found most woman once they see guys having fun together love it , I know i for one would like to get bigbitts to email us at our handle where the livedot com emails go to, and have a mmf with him,, maybe buy a strapon for her to use on you to start things rolling, can i ask does your wife like anal sex? if so tell her you want to try it too, good luck

  • twowithnolimits

    twowithnolimits

    16 years ago

    Its all a question of whether she is comfortable with double standards, and if she is I would be uncomofrtable with that. Lost count of the number of couples with bi women who wont meet a couple with a bi man. Not sure where it says bi men MUST fuck your straight partner but it seems biwomen can swing with straight women in the couples situation and not abuse them....hmmmm double standards... Say NO to double standards and NO to cheating. If its not equal dont do it, or go to where you can. Paul

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Sounds like you guys need to do some more talking about this. Maybe you just suprised her. I would think finding a couple that are both bi would be a good solution. I hate the double standard too, so Im hoping she comes around for you! xxx Mrs H

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Sounds like your wife is hypocritical , try her with a 3 or 4 sum