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how sweet it is
July 30 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yeah for you Tuscan :) I joined to explore and found that after becoming a mum I had rather lost my mojo- am much more in touch with it now thanks for all the experiences especially the one's that have helped me hone what I am looking for :)Cass xxxHappy Seeking.
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RHP User
13 years ago
On here a decade ago. He was married to woman who would not sleep with him. This guy is shit hot, so what she didn't want, I certainly did. Last year he left her, finally. Now he has found a regular girlfriend, I should tell you first he is 17 years younger than myself. He still comes to see me but not as much. So now I have to replace him. What better place to look than where I found him.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Woooot that's amazing, Tuscan :) personally, I have no desire of rushing to find a significant other at this time of my life, and it gets frightfully boring hanging out with all my friends who are all half-betrothed. Being in the company of those who find me sexy, desirable and a laugh has resulted in a spring in my step, adding an extra hour to my gym workout, and having the confidence to openly slip some non-so-subtle cheeky flirtation into everyday conversation without being afraid that it may come across as inappropriate. Have found that I've also become more resistant to the spells of charming assholes - what a change!
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Smilingwithfun
13 years ago
Good forum. Crashed & burned 11mnths ago from a long relationship. Have been content to be a mainly "sideline"observer. Have learnt not to judge a book by its cover as the contents can be so interesting.We all can't change what we look like but we can control who we are.To me while physical attraction is needed, chemistry is by far a more powerful ahprodisiac.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was drunk, bored, it was late and there was an add on the TV..In the beginning, I was only here to perv and dream. But now I like to hang out in the forums... oh you knew that ~grins~This site has given me two friends, who have been close for over 5 years and one stalker (who eventually got bored). I've met a handfull of other nice folk too.. though not usually for the usual bakery reasons.It would be nice to find someone here who's on my wavelength.. A fling or even relationship. But untill then I'll carry on lurking ~smiles~
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Tuscan I have been on and off RHP for ages and for most it has been very frustrating. But every now again, out of nowhere, you meet someone or a group that just blows you away. Mostly its when you are not expecting sex, just a meeting of common interests. I stay on here for those occasional meets rather than a constant "depserate" chase for the next root :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
And just another thought..I think the Bakery may have made me a little fussier?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Tuscan, Well my story is similar to the above..............lost my libido, identity and confidence after having kids. But I have to admit that I have never really been that into sex (shock horror). This was until we stumbled across these types of websites and hearing about all of your sexy escapades and meeting such exciting sexual people!!! Thanks to RHP and the like, sex is now one of my top priorities!! Hahaha "I luvs yous all" XXX
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'dacougarbitch'On here a decade ago. He was married to woman who would not sleep with him. This guy is shit hot, so what she didn't want, I certainly did. Last year he left her, finally. Now he has found a regular girlfriend, I should tell you first he is 17 years younger than myself. He still comes to see me but not as much. So now I have to replace him. What better place to look than where I found him. Nothing wrong with the age gap, and as there are lots of very talented young and older guys on here,we can just take a nibble at what suits us. I have young lovers, but try to keep them over, my kids age..26 , so that gives me plenty of choices Every young man needs his "boilers" ticket so he knows how to do the job right in the future. I am just helping the nation get better skilled workers.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was with my husband for over a decade, but after the first six months he lost all interest in sex. It took me more than another ten years of begging, pleading, crying, talking, fretting, getting angry, ignoring and repressing, to finally realise that passionate physical intimacy is part of the glue that keeps a marriage together, and that I deserved better. I discovered swingers clubs and RHP, and over a period of months reconnected to my sexy self - the one I took into the marriage in the beginning. The clubs don't really interest me - I'm a voyeur and exhibitionist but not into group sex or swapping. But RHP did/dose interest mes. I talked a LOT to a LOT of people, via messages and in the chat rooms, and learnt about all the things I missed out on in my marriage. I had some flings,some one night stands, some awesome interstate long weekends :). I put on some shows on cam, I asked a lot of questions and I slowly started to drop my guard and believe maybe some men might find me attractive. Out of the blue I met the love of my life in the chat room and we spent a wonderful year and a half together, until things went pear shaped :( Heart broken, I went to ground, and when I was ready to come up for air again I found my way back to RHP. I mostly love the forums - I learn so much and I love the way normal, decent, every day people are free and open and accepting about sex in all its forms. RHP is many things to many people. For me, it's my safe and sexy place and it makes me a better, more open, more willing woman for any man that comes my way and wants to stay. Go on, everyone say awwww :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
did/does me
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'lil_bit_angelic' did/does me wonderful stuff and yes awwwwwwwwwwwww. And I love that the guys are posting as well. I think a lot of women come here from a place of no passion to throwing petrol on a dying ember...stand back boys you do not want to loose your eyebrows.
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RHP User
13 years ago
True to my profile I stumbled onto this site quite by accident, and curiosity got the better of me! RHP enables me to openly "talk" about all things sexual, something i am unable to do with friends (as it offends). I'm not really here to meet peeps for casual sex (although I have indulged a little). I'm still in search of "the one", my knight in shining armor but know it won't be on here! One thing I have discovered about myself is how tolerant and accepting of others I am (was a nice surprise). KK xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I too got my mojo back thanks to some very special people ... You know who you are!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Kinda bittersweet for me I joined here 4 years ago...met some lovely guys and then I met Mr Rite, who turned out to be oh so Mr Wrong, so after we split I wandered back here - thats close to a year ago now.. Ive met some lovely people from here, made some terrific friends who I see offline and made lots of terrific interstate buddies who I correspond with on a regular basis...and I hope in the future to catch up with.. I really enjoy the forums and the topics discussed, learned a bit which never hurts anyone and have been pleased that I may have come here with one opinion but thru thorough and well researched and thought out debate have opened my mind to differing opinions.... I have looked outside the square which has been a good lesson for me. Had a few randoms but found them to be of average encounters.....Im finding the men around the age Im looking at, as walking wounded, all angry and bitter form splititng with their exes and seem to take it out on each women they meet...and all are after quick shags of which I am well and truly over.....My friend Tuscan Red suggest I should be open these much younger guys who she informs me , are much more polite, forgiving, adore pleasing /pleasuring and lovely to spend time with..perhaps I should broaden my horizons.. Im a bit like lil bit and Keeping Karma (Hi KK) ... I hope to one day yet again to meet someone wonderful..it could be from this site, I was lucky here once, but to be honest I doubt it .... I believe in fate and what will be will be..my bestie met her bloke in the carpark of Hungry Jacks, while their respective partners at the time were inside ordering take out......go figure !!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I always want to hug you when I read your posts. *hugs*
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RHP User
13 years ago
Dying of flu !!!.......................... :( Hugging your rite back.....pardon my runny nose !!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Funny how I was pondering along these lines today the men (from here) that have brought back my self confidence taught me how to be womanly and sexy again. Dress in lingerie high heels and dresses. Push the boundaries discover understand give and recieve.RHP has given me my sexuality, desire and fullfilled some longing needs. It gave me passion, fashion and a voice LOL.It made me a woman again.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I forgot to say Tuscan that you also were on my mind today the hope that I too may still be sexy and wanting it at 60
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RHP User
13 years ago
... lots of healing vibes. Get well soon gorgeous xx
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WHY_NOT_LOOK
13 years ago
Its so good to hear that women are getting a voice and there mojo back. I found this place 7 years ago and i wanted in loved that i could chat from home with the kids asleep, it was like giving me a social life that i really needed after 13 years of marriage and a crap break up. Ive meet so many great friends that im still friends with guys girls and couples, meet a great guy who i was with for 5+ years but thats ended now so its back on here. Having a social life meeting new friends again and who knows i might meet somone that i can share my sexy thoughts with that i miss... Oh and i do have a social life of RHP as well, but on here i can talk about anything cant really offend anyone, and ive found that yes im all women and im good at pleasing myself and my partner so much ive learnt so much more im sure to learn yet>>>> bring on all the good times we only live once
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RHP User
13 years ago
i got dragged out of the transvestite closet screaming ,,,,,by 2 people on here who discovered my secret ,,,,at the time i hated them for it as they are very popular people over here in the west ,,,and it finally gave me the encouragement to go further with my sexuality ,,,,,,,,something id wanted to do since id been a child ,,,,,,,,they are now ,,,,,both ,,some of my best friends on rhp ,,ans have supported me all the way ,,,,,,,,,, and although not much sex for me ,,,i get heaps off offers ,,,,,,,ive made the most wonderful of friends on here ,,,,had no negativity at all ,,,and regard everyone on rhp as my second family ,,,,,,,,,,thank you everyone for your love n support ,,,without you all ,,,,,,id still be a frustrated in the closet tranny ,,,,,,xxxxxxxxxx n huge hugs for everyone ,,,,,,,catherine ,,,,,,,,,,
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RHP User
13 years ago
Isnt it good to be able to explore your sexuality again after your absence. Goes to show that age does not weary them as some would like to think. This proves that it should always be about the person not the numbers. Hopefully' some of the anti age brigade sit up and take notice. Go girl... you deserve all you can get.. Jay
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think it is fantastic that you found you're sexy side again tuscan, I'm in a similar situation only I have the libido just no where to use it!! I am new but this site looks like a site that doesn't judge but helps people out of their situations. I am hoping to be in the position (pardon the pun) to be able to enjoy that sensual, sexy raw hot feeling with a woman again soon. Good for you tuscan and all the woman on here, I tip my hat...
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RHP User
13 years ago
over this site,was googling Redcliffe,the town where I live and this came up.Being a curious person I was intrigued by the forums ,I still am, learning something new everyday.....sex. ed. 101 for vanillas. What I wasn't expecting was how many interesting and downright fascinating men and women I have found here. Some I have met,some I hope to meet quite soon and then there are the endless possibilities....mmmmm....the unknown..as yet x Hugs H ps TR you rock
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RHP User
13 years ago
I heard blokes telling me they were getting sex EVERY trip back to town from the mines from multiple women... so i joined to get my share. Damned pricks lied!! After a few tries..and a few more.. then a lot more, I started to get spoken to.. and was allowed to join in a little.. then one girl came to visit..and maybe she told some of her friends.. but, all of a sudden, i wasn't an axe murderer. One of my very best friends I met on here.. 5 years ago. AND I am happy with the males and females who I have met on here.. aand now list as friends, in the REAL world :) cavey
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RHP User
13 years ago
Brought sexy back.... And now I really know how to use it...... And also to my special friends, a BIG thank you... And a big wink and smile.......Men shouldn't marry nymphomaniacs, promise to satisfy them til death do us part or you cause them a cardiac arrest while Fucking ....., know ahead of time that one day in the not too distant future, they won't be able to satisfy you at all, and yet promise you that they will be capable.and interested..... Fail miserably and then try telling you that ten minutes of " pump pump" (what is a clit again, I seem to have developed amnesia) and NO foreplay should be enough...making you feel bad for still being the sexual animal he married, tell you he wants Fmf, and you can play with girls when he cant manage ten minutes with you.... meanwhile tell you that you can't have mfm........ I think that should be covered in the marriage contract with side clauses....certainly I won't be married again... I will be polyamorous and its stiff bickies if they dont like it...... RHP made me realise there is nothing wrong with me, but that I had a selfish partner who couldn't admit he had over estimated my sex drive which he was well warned about. I knoelw guys here mostly just want to fuck, I know there's no knight in shining armor for me here, and I also know I don't want some other male to tell to pick up his damned socks off the floor... And just as well the knight isn't on here, because I habr my own battle gear on already... I want a lover, but not some fantasy idea of love....rhp is perfect for me as a result. I love being able to speak my mind or be ridiculous and know I am amongst pals. I've learnt a lot more about myself here too.....and oh my god... I am mentally functioning again.... My friends tell ne I look alive again, that the light is back in my eyes, that I was looking so old and now i look like I am 30 not 41. My close girlfriend knows I m on here and my whole situation and is completely supportive....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' I heard blokes telling me they were getting sex EVERY trip back to town from the mines from multiple women... so i joined to get my share. Damned pricks lied!! After a few tries..and a few more.. then a lot more, I started to get spoken to.. and was allowed to join in a little.. then one girl came to visit..and maybe she told some of her friends.. but, all of a sudden, i wasn't an axe murderer. One of my very best friends I met on here.. 5 years ago. AND I am happy with the males and females who I have met on here.. aand now list as friends, in the REAL world :) cavey the told you the truth, I just have a lot of different personalities
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RHP User
13 years ago
Before I have to break out the box of tissues whilst I'm writing this, let me say: Thankyou. A heartfelt, sincere Thankyou to the open, candid, witty, touching, wise and encouraging people I've met through RHP (via messages, reading your posts and in real life). I s'pose I should be grateful to those that are cynical, pushy, sarcastic, rude and fraudulent, too as they have helped me to gain insight and understanding about the 'ways of the world' and a reminder of the yin-yang (or other equivalent) components of Life.I stumbled on to RHP earlier this year looking for free internet porn. I'd had an epiphany, realised that there WAS a life to be living after coming out of the fog after leaving my 30+year marriage. I was doing research (genuinely) as I had only even known one penis intimately and realised that I needed to be a bit more worldly-wise: basically to be desensitised to what other men's genitals looked like and what should be done with all the equipment and who/what could/might do what to whom ... Jeez Louise did my internet bill go through the roof that month!!!So, I joined up 3 months ago, wrote my profile thinking "what's there to hide?: like me or not" ... not knowing that there were ways and means of including (or not) information about one's self. I got 'hit' upon within minutes - bit scary, mild panic, somewhat amused ... but hey! nothing ventured: nothing gained and see what happens. Yep! Got busy, overbooked, got me an edumacation on bits, bobs, boobs and more. Learning along the way. Having fun, learning about people and myself. Some of my 'hook-ups' are still in my life - as friends, confidantes and/or lovers.Then I discovered the Forums. Value-adding extraordinaire! Besides the repartee, the wisdom, knowledge, openness, the intimacy, the friendship (oh! crap, where's the tissues!). I just can't find a bunch of people anywhere else where I can talk, read, contribute or learn about any of this Stuff.So, as some of the regulars here in the 'Fora" and in the boudoire will know, I have my L-plates on for many-a-thing: sexy lingerie, lace-me up pop-out-my-breasts corset, tottering on my new still-not-quite-high-stilettos, new toys (love my remote control Vibe 3 - birthday present to myself, myyy godddd!), new/extending techniques with Nina Hartley's instructional videos (what a gorgeous vixen!), venturing into anal play ... <*blush* stupid girl: now I'll get even more hits *naughty smile* ...> and more ...I have a spring in my step. My friends, family, workmates and even strangers comment on my confident, warm and open approach to my 'every day'. RHP has given me a booster shot and rejuvenated me. It makes me feel I'm in that place and age where I've learnt about myself, others, have insights and a bit of wisdom and can tackle big and little Stuff - that was me in my mid-30s - and The World is My Oyster. But, with the wisdom and experiences of being in my mid-50s, I do not carry the arrogant, invincible, 'can't be touched by anything' ego that I had at that age. RHP has helped with the self-aware and self-acceptance journey that I've been dragged along.The road of this journey has been bumpy. I have travelled in foreign lands, not spoken the language, not understood the signs, disobeyed directions, got lost, ... basically I felt that I'd been 'chewed up and spat out'. Now, I just step over or around the bumps, detour signs or holes in the road. (I do take *notes to self* for future reference, so I don't stumble, well, not toooo much!)"Looking forward" and enjoying the ride of my life!Hugs, Hugs and more hugs (thankyou Mrs P and Hesione for letting me sign off with the 'Hugs')Rox(learning to tread that rocky road)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Like minded individuals, voyeurs, exhibitionists & sex hungry lovers and connosiurs.. It is refreshing to be able to openly talk about experiences -without having to water down the story - and listen to other peoples stories, what worked what didn't and so on.. I do enjoy dating in the "real world" and it's funny how you find yourself comparing the initial chats/dates with an RHP encounter, and how sometimes you wish you could be straight forward and ask sexual questions along the lines of "do you enjoy anal" or "interested in some MMF" action lol I know we can -in the real world- but we tend to "wait" thanks to RHP I'm not patient any more lol We can be ourselves in every sense of the word, we choose the way, who we approach, who we ignore, who we pursue and who we enjoy ;) I'm a fan of the forums, and the ones who participate, it's always refreshing to see people be themselves and especially nice for us to be open :) tD&h
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RHP User
13 years ago
Its interesting how we have to keep the two separate. I think it also adds to the thrill of having a Walter Mitty life. Sometimes I know what people would think if they knew the truth about the whole woman I would be judged harsly.I really want to keep this delicious secret to myself. I am just an ordinary woman, you would pass me in the street there is nothing exceptional about me unless I let you see it. I went to a meet and greet on rhp with my x and another girlfriend who was straight and had no idea we were going to a meet and greet for sex date web site. I told her it was a vanilla date site. The problem is that we could not identify who were rhp and who were the norms. So we just sat at the bar talking to anyone that talked to us. I meet a few people that I recognised but overall you cant really go up and say, hey are you of RHP. I have devised a plan when I have my gallery meet and greet that people put a red dot between thumb and forefinger, like a secret code. Very James Bond of me. It is refreshing to be able to talk freely but also not to loud , in coffee shops. to people who are on the same page. To see that were not some devious people with a third eye , or sex fiends. Were just normal healthy people with needs that may not always be sexual as surprising as that may seem Perhaps we just want to connect our whole selves to other people rather than the restrictive world of the NORMS. My straight friend said, what a odd bunch of guys, one was asking me if I like anal, the other ask me if you and I slept together or were we part of a threesome with my x. I had to tell her , she punched me in the arm lol. Ouch!
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