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how often do you orgasm
February 12 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Did you have this "issue" with your previous long term partner? The reason I ask, is that the brain and the "business" are linked. How we feel about ourselves also has a direct link to libido and performance....you seem keen to let everyone know that you're "no stud". People will make up their own mind about that...attraction is a curious thing ;-) But if you keep telling people that you don't think much of your looks (you mention it twice in your profile including the header)...it tells me, your self worth is a little lacking (just gotta see yourself a little differently thats all ;-) Just my thoughts (from a chick!)....and not necessarily the answer :-) Jx
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RHP User
16 years ago
ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahadirty old Earl
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RHP User
16 years ago
re; Dire Straitsi fink i too pishednot worskingahahahahaahahahahaahahahahahahaEarl
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RHP User
16 years ago
weesh all brosh manlove ya bro, hicahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarlsh
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RHP User
16 years ago
but have heard in the past that that fellas can have a lack of sensitivity if they have been circumcised. Not a lot you can do about that if that is the case I guess but other guys might have suggestions... just one of the reasons I'm so glad circumcision is not a standard practice anymore. Good luck with that... Mrs P'
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have read that guys can find it hard to orgasm if they're overstimulated - not sure if this could be an issue for you. If fact, same could probably be said for women too - when we get to that point that is really really awesome, but can't quite manage to push over the edge for that ultimate release. Trish..."Female orgasms are measured by the sphincter scale. It is not the quantity, but quality that is important!" - love love love it! How true, how true!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well, my body knows what it wants to do. If I lose my erection, I just don't use my dick... it doesnt mean I'm not enjoying myself. As a guy, you know sometimes all you want to do is cum.. it's very frustrating when you've worked really hard at it, as Sonsie says... "overstimulated' and you feel the need to come but you know you're just not getting there... and finally, when you do.. it's not the normal... "wasn't that fantastic" feeling.... it's more like "thank fuck for that", a relief... If I feel myself feeling that way.... I know the moment is already spolit, so I usually stop, regain some composure, maybe get a drink.... start again from the top... or say "next" hehe. MAsturbating to finish is not an anticlimax for me.. .. I dont know if you've ever felt this way, but sometimes I need to stop.. I feel like saying "dont touch me, I'm too sensitive now".. it kind of hurts... Instead of being dissapointed, I would prefer my lover to feel pleased that effect on me has been delivered succesfully.. hehe.... and to watch someone make themselves climax is very exciting, all the same. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
How about finishing with some good solid HEAD after penetration ? I'm a big believer in the power of the mind. I believe you need to allow yourself to relax enough to go with the experience without thinking about what you are doing. When I totally go with the moment my orgasms can be amazing but if I allow my brain to stay switch on (eg, I need to buy milk, what am I cooking for dinner) then the orgasm may not happen. I really think the answer is in your self belief and the thoughts you say to yourself before and during sex. Don't focus on the action, the pumping in and out. Focus on your partner... just noticing her smell, touch etc. Good luck, Miss Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'OneBrightStar' Did you have this "issue" with your previous long term partner? The reason I ask, is that the brain and the "business" are linked. How we feel about ourselves also has a direct link to libido and performance....you seem keen to let everyone know that you're "no stud". People will make up their own mind about that...attraction is a curious thing ;-) But if you keep telling people that you don't think much of your looks (you mention it twice in your profile including the header)...it tells me, your self worth is a little lacking (just gotta see yourself a little differently thats all ;-) Just my thoughts (from a chick!)....and not necessarily the answer :-) Jx My bits are sore onebright....but for a good reason... I concur with the lovely bright one....sounds to me like business brain is still engaged....cut the vag strings mate...and let her rip!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't cum very often during sex but I have found that to be an advantage rather than a dissadvantage. Don't sweat it....concentrate more on makng her cum....and when she has once...then again and again.... Your orgasm doesn't make you a good lover......your ability to please your partner does !...and once you please her again and again your confidence will rise to the point where you become confident, but not arrogant and as I think most of the ladies on this site would concur, confidence as a lover is something that women look for in a guy. Perhaos then you will fin a lady who is determined to make you cum....and she will....trust me. Turn a negative into a positive dude.....and enjoy ! Dogism.
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RHP User
16 years ago
give up and die.think i like dogs idea better though.ahahahahahahahahahahaEarl
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