how hard is it

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Time to reinvent yourself perhaps?

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  I understand the difficulty when you get too close to friends with benefits, and the intimate feelings that can and do arise. But are you sure your not gonna have the same issue's with people you don't know? I know it seems easier with people you don't know to keep the emotions at bay, but where is the line in not knowing them after being intimate/chat/meet with another; or are you thinking of having one night stands with every unknown female, you would run out of females fast. I think you need to recognize your emotions when they start to stir and keep them in check, ( which it sounds like you do notice them quite well). Or maybe the friends with benefits is not for you, cause the emotions are to raw/sensitive. Is hard at times with the friends with benefits issues, and sound advice isn't always easy neither. I hope it works out for you zafiend take care

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  thank you very much you seem like a great person at least you replied to my topic your the only one cheers

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  I always feel that connection with casual sex partners, even take real joy from sharing in that special relationship with couples. Those feelings can become real caring for those i meet regularly. There is still a big jump though between those feelings and a "relationship", which i take to mean a level of committment and accepting/sharing responsibility for and with the other person. Something i am not looking for and make no secret of it. There is nothing wrong with having feelings, all part of the fun, only in making false promises or being misunderstood. Where i keep out of trouble is in doing my best to only seek out those that definitely feel the same way as i do and in never telling lies about what i am offering. That certainly cuts down on my options, particularly with the single ladies lol. On the other hand i rarely find myself getting into situations ;). Sounds to me like you enjoy being their friend Zafiend, way beyond the respect it takes to enjoy life's simple pleasures but to most females it seems friends and lovers takes it that one step further. At least in the minds of most single girls i've met in here... ;). Ah the couples, now thats where a relaxed, caring but non-committal attitude seems a little more appreciated ;).

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  its easy m8 as i hve learnt growing up you learn to shut the feelings dwn hard for sum but 4 ppl sch as my self very easy one can never let ones self get to close you hve to remember that as a humon your most primal instinct is to procate n in that lies your answer m8 never get to close go to a pub n pick up alot easier n mre efficent no emotions need to b attached as its a one off you never run out of ladies that way hope you find your answer bud wish you the best of luck VLADIMERE

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  only feeling i like is the hardness............i can F**K without feelings its called LUST hehehe good luck in your search

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Its the old double standard in reverse now days. If we guys admit to lust we are just "typical" lol. Know where you're coming from though, even if i can't admit it *grin*. And no, this doesn't make a lie out of my previous post. Lust doesn't exclude feelings though its recognition can help to control them ;).

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Here!!! Here!!! Woody I liked the first post you put in here & the second one is pretty good too..... I think to f**k someone you have no connection to........You might as well have a loose WANK There has to be some sort of connection..... be it only a smidgen of....... mmmm he/she's nice....Then the SEX is Great..... You dont have to be in LOVE to have sex & a lot of younger woman/girls think SEX is LOVE,...... So Im a typical male....Im in LUST lots...but I do find the connection first..... Good Luck dazichane

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