M46
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May 16 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
Are probably better off focusing on attached or married women as I think most of the single women are not interested in guys who are already taken. I am sure you will have more luck. Otherwise it's a numbers game dude. You have to write to the right woman, at the right time or should I say when she has had a good day and it's in the right part of her cycle when she is as toey as a cat on a hot tin roof. :p
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MissBishere
12 years ago
I second that. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree with Meeka too. And in your message, make it personal, refer to her profile so it looks like you are interested in her and what you have read about her. Break the ice with a common interest (other than sex) and make sure you match what she is looking for. It gets pretty old when you are being contacted by people you don't want. Good luck
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi there... I noticed your profile, and enjoyed reading it. While I may appear to be headless I assure you I do come with two ;) It does say that I have a passion for coaching and motivating, but I honestly had to write a forum thread to figure out my first approach....what??? It's very intimidating messaging a beautiful woman such as you!! And....yes...my balls did shrivel a little, but I'm hoping you could help with that..... Babe!!! So while I wait for the forum replies, and put on my mascara(extra volume maybelline) why don't you tell me what your thoughts are; on the current state of hypoxia in within the genocidal fighting fish population in south west Greenland?? Yours... The headless fucker.... *ahem* NY152 :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
'Hey Hun would you like me to split you in half lol.' Oh hang on. Don't say that. At all. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sometimes you won't get replies - it's a buyer's market here dude, and there's no escaping that fact. Still a lot of laughs though! - Posted from rhpmobile
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laidbackguy1978
12 years ago
I find the the smae thing happening mate. Ladies say in the forums be polite not disgusting ask about them and their interests and they still don't reply. I always thought and do so myself that it is polite to at least reply no thanks etc. But as the ladies above say it is a numbers game I think and the right time, right place etc. Keep at it mate.
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RHP User
12 years ago
To the above poster, I don't think that the status matters. Most people that contact me say they too are in a sexless marriage, but their profile says single or separated. To the question of the original post, I always like a guy who is relaxed and just a little cheeky, but who allows me to be super cheeky without taking it personally. A guy who doesn't want to meet up the second after seeing my private gallery. Someone who is willing to show they are into me, not just my pants.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If nothing is working talk shit thats bound to catch something !! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I disagree. It doesn't matter for a hot young married woman as lots of blokes don't care if you are married or not. But if the forums are any indication lots is single women prefer single guys. They want fun, spontaneity, and to have on going friendships. That is just not going to happen with married men who are cheating on their partners. They are too restricted to be real fun. ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not to add the reduced intimacy of being able to walk down the street, head nestled into ones neck, hand in hand or hip pocket.... Ahh yes.... Life's good to be single and able to mingle ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
How's that working for you mr Big? Lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Question? Why would you show them your private gallery up front if you don't want them to get into your pants rather then get to know you first????
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RHP User
12 years ago
The thing is, stop treating it like a job interview. Fun also doesn't necessarily mean sex... Interest doesn't always mean messaging all fricken day either. Make messages - as DG would say - inviting and inspiring to reply to. Asking if she likes "stuff" just won't do.... For example:- A professional lady 70-90 hours per week worth of work...instead of asking "so....what do you do for work??" Make a statement!!! "Wow you work lots...70-90 hours a week....sounds to me you get paid on attendance rather than productivity ;)." Or ... "70-90 hour working week.....and that's just tea breaks, I bet you're a Mr Whippy Van!!!! :p" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Meeka has got it !!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I personally like a first message to be fun. Mention something about my profile...that proves you read it. Mention something about yourself...personalise your approach. Ask questions that a woman will want to respond to...can be completely random like what was the last book you read and why. Put a little detail in your profile... I'm also a sucker for a witty joke. Don't give your or ask for email addresses, phone number and gallery pics in a first message. Don't put your life story into a first message...sure way to scare someone off! Don't ask to meet for coffee or sex in a first message. Don't be boring by asking me how I am going, this is not going to get much more of a response than an eye roll. It really is a numbers game and it depends on my mood and if I have time to respond. It could take me a few days to respond or I really don't think I'm interested in a person because they don't meet my criteria. Women can afford to be picky! Happy messaging! Xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I say what i admire and invite the girl for food and a chat. It seems ok since the girls i want to meet like food and a chat as well :)
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