ever tried group?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I've got nothing but bad advice on this one... and been haggling over the same issue for the last 25 years. These are the comprimises we make for love.   Hugs Gaz

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Not much you can do, if she doesn;t want to, then she doesn't want to. A lot of females dont even on here, they would prefer another female or a FFM. You just have to decide to you stick with her or give her up and find someone who swings but doesn't have some of the other good assets the current GF has. On the other hand if you are super super lucky you might find someone with everything rolled into one!!

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  ....and while I didn't get any answers to what is a very very tough question, I did get some great advice. Check it out here if you want to........   http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/great-boyfriend-vanilla-sex-help-24364

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  It's a hard thing to find someone you are 100% in tune with on 100% of things. That's why the first commandment of a relationship is Compromise. BUT compromise shouldn't be a bad word, by compromising you learn other ways of seeing things and actually can grow instead of being stunted. BUT you can't expect someone to compromise and do something that they won't enjoy or will adversely affect them. There's lots of BUTS in a relationship as there are a lot of nice BUTTS on RHP. To get through the BUTS and BUTTS you need the second commandment and that is communication.   If group play is essential to your sexual satisfaction you should discuss it with your GF. Sometimes the sweet, innocent ones turn out to be a real surprise. I know I married one! There may be some form of play she will enjoy, it might be different to the idea in your head but it may just be enough to satisfy you both. If there's no common ground to be had and it's a big thing for you then you have a problem. If it's no biggy then just savour your memories and get on with enjoying all the other things you have together.   Cheers

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Does that mean she wants to think about it? Or does that mean she point blank refuses to discuss it??If she wants to think about it....perhaps suggest that SHE can choose the participants...and that you have a drinks night...no expectations...but open to something happening.It may be that she may not want to see you with another?Perhaps she is insecure about your feelings for her??But talk about it....be honest with each other....and compromise.If she says no full stop....then there's not much you can do about it.Just my opinion...BJxxx

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Make it HER experience and you'll have a lot more chance of something happening.  If you are approaching it as something FOR YOU then you have far less chance.   As puppy said (kind of) relationships are about bringing new experiences and ways of thinking so you can both help each other grow.  I don't really get into compromise, but I do like the opportunity to try new things.   If she doesn't want the experience... you've got to accept that.  What you do after that is your own decision.   I SAY DITCH HER!!! RRRRRRRRRRAHHHHHHHH!

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