RHP

RHP User

M49

cannot cum for ages.....

October 24 2009

sex

is it really that bad a thing.... i need a full on feast of sex and she cant hold on for me for that long.... usually, not all the time, but usually i have to resort to grabbing my cock myself and speed up the process..... but will that cure me? i think not...help anyone??

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Fact is, I get that way sometimes too. A lot more foreplay helps... plus an additional partner or two... lol. Mostly it's wearing condoms that slow my joy up, I think... but using your hand is still fair play.   Hugs Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I bet i could fix you!!

  • srogers

    srogers

    16 years ago

    I have the same issue. Usually takes me a very long time to cum. Partner usually gives up before I have a chance to finish off.    Any tips or tricks would be greatly appreciated.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I can sympathise here. After many years of training myself to hold out to prolong the pleasure for my partner I now have the nickname "Energizer Bunny" from my very close pals! This is all good but sometimes the control gets control of me too and it's hard to get over the line and with condoms I pretty much forget it.  More foreplay, partners etc etc can help but most often I just relax and enjoy the moment. It's not all about the climax and you don't need one every time to enjoy the experience. It's nice to let go of the assumption that everyone has to cum every time and just focus on the pleasures you are experiencing. Actually I have experienced one of my greatest climaxes wearing a condom, the foreplay was just so intense and immersing that I had a whole body orgasm - don't know if this is a term but to try and explain, well everyone present thought I was having a heart attack, me included!!!!Just relax chapelli and who cares if she cums first, just gives you more opportunity to give her multiples!