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October 23 2007

Why is it that girls often come in her and show off bits and pieces.. does it make them feel good? Does it give them self asteem? Do they have noone that appeciates them and finds that when 100 ppls at looking at them it makes them feel wanted? I understand men like and always like to look at that... but arnt there any normal ppls in the world that just like to browse and move along. in stead of making woman feel like peices of meat? The hot sexy woman get attention most of the time, u show body parts u get most of the attention. Why is it that larger woman dont get attention unless they show body parts? Then again some larger woman dont look that big till u meet them or show off there bits... I also understand this is a sex chat site no doubt about that.. but some peoples also come in here to chat meet poeples and have a laugh as they dont get any other time on there hands to do that? Then again maybe i am just to much of a winger.... plus i like to talk lots..

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RHP User

18 years ago

Forgive me if I am wrong but redhotpie, to me, especially the uncut section is a site for people looking for sex site. Yes, they, we, want to show what they/we are advertising, if you just want to chat here ( and I have taken the time to read your profile) there are lots of other sites, where you can chat. Us guys cant chat here unless we are a paid up member, so if you want to chat with me, and I am happy chatting, you can find me, and no doubt others elsewhere. hope this helps, ajdude, seek and you shall find

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RHP User

18 years ago

Hi Charkoale, I would agree with you if these pics were designed to exploit women, like pics one would see in a magazine. The women that post here do so willingly and one would assume that they have a certain level of self-esteem to do so. As for being normal, what is normal? Your perception of normal may not be the same as mine, or indeed the same as the women who post here. I think there is a place for a site like RHP, which is safe and allows one to express threir sexuality openly. Incidentally, I have seen heaps of larger women depicted here and I think they are amazing. Why is it one has to look like a bicycle with lipstick to be seen as sexy (or normal). Still, I think you're question was a good one.

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RHP User

18 years ago

but is rhp the site to ask it? You have to assume that most ppl are here to meet someone ... the site is for that, and the photo's ppl post are a part of that. Besides, some ppl do really like posing and showing what they have .. u only have to check the amateur pics section to believe that. Cheers, John

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RHP User

18 years ago

Hey Char, You know me, we've chatted a bit, so i assume, u probably also know that i have played on cam & i am not a skinny girl. I just wanted to say, that what i have done on cam, has been done because i want to do it. I like ppl watching, knowing they are watching gets me hotter etc etc. I also watch ppl play at times, what & who i watch will depend entirely on my mood. I dont think size matter's so much, as how u present yourself. I also beleive that confidence will always draw attention....if u dont have any, fake it till u make it they say! Now, sadly, some men here think that hurling commands at us girls will get us to strip off etc, NOT SO.... i do what i feel i need to do, when i feel like doing it. Even more sad, many girls here do lack self esteem & they are the ones who will show when men make demands. I also find it sickening how many men here prey on those girls...& no 1 can say they dont, as i've been going in that room long enough to have seen it all first hand. Yes this is an adult site, mostly used for ppl looking to have sex or meet, but that does not mean ppl should leave thier manners at the door either. Treat ppl with respect & hopefully you will be shown the same courtesy. To the WOMEN i say: (those here 4 esteem) Wake up, u dont need the approval of anyone here. Look at yourself & be honest, tell yourself you are worthy & deserve only the best, that you are special because you are you. To the MEN i say: (the ones who prey) Grow some balls & stop picking on the weak. Get a life & you might just meet a real woman. To everyone else, keep having fun! Just my opinions... xx iama xx PS. Chark, ur a great woman, dont forget it!

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18 years ago

I have been a member since the days when the chatrooms were free for everyone, yes it was only that way for a year or so but it proved to me that the chatroom was no different to another site i use and have used for just as long. Yes i can agree people are here to find sex but it is an Adult group, a tool for communication. If you want to explore in new areas of your own sexuality or the boundries of yourself these sites are the place to do so. Now not everyone is ready to jump in and see if they can swim and discussion of peoples likes and dislikes and experiances i have found quite priceless to my expanding knowledge of the endless types of fun to be had. I have found over the years it is the ones that prefer to chat are the ones that are real. they are the ones that show up to the drink nights. They are the ones who help new and inexperianced people and well im sorry but we all started there our selves at some stage in our lives. Yes its a sex site, yes its a good perv but i couldnt agree more that it is no ticket to leave your manners on the floor next to you. The degradation of the lower self esteemed ladies is pathetic on these sites and it is usually the chatters who can point out the fake and the real people and they will back up a real person and shut down an arrogant pig. I think this is an invaluable part of these sites. Without the regulars it would be much uglier. It works a second way too. I myself like the sites for three things one for learning; two for chatting to people with similar interests and three to hook up if the oportunity is there. Now the ratio of guys to girls has always left something to be desired onthese sites and it makesit hard for a real male to make an impression on a real woman. I have found that gaining respect from the regular chatters and makeing conversation people that watch to see who is real will pick you out. on this other group it is a world wide one but has an aussie chat room same dropkicks in there hounding women to give em a show or meet em for a root. but we also have a moderated chatroom where the members are restricted to follow the rules of the group. i have found this room to be amazing. the other room has its amusing and not so amusing antics yet this restricted room the discussions are real. questions of direct interest get answered without judgment. people who have contacts or know people looking other people will help if they find that someone. it works more as a community like a country town. the other room works like a city every person for them self and manners dont count or you miss out. sad really but it was a real eye opener for me. it wasnt till i started meeting people at drink nights and using this restricted room that i found that it didnt matter if you just wanted a chat or wether you wanted to get lucky, if you showed some respect in the room you were always made welcome and i have made more contacts in 1 week in the confined room than i ever did each year in the open room. later down the track when im no longer after the oportunity to get some i would hope to be able to become one of the chatters because right there in that room is one of the few places i can feel comfortable talking about anything and everything without being judged. I dont see it being any different in structure to a sports club, you go there to catch up with people with common interests and enjoy the sport, not everyone that goes there will play any sport wether by choice or inability too. oh and im not calling this a sport the sports thing is a template only to prove my point. thumbs up charc for the discussion. cheers elrond

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