M47
anal sex
December 31 2008
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hey Bluey Wow do you really think it's as high as 80% ??! I don't do anal ... why any straight man would want to put his precious penis into a sewer pipe is beyond me!!!! Perhaps they wanted to be plumbers but never did the course! lol But each to their own :-) I would NEVER list anything as a "preference" if that was a lie! I think a lot of people have lied in their profiles. Sad really as you get found out in the end. I'll be interested to see the responses. MissDee
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playfulminx
17 years ago
I think a lot of women will entertain the idea of anal sex with the right man. I list anal as an interest (I think) but that does not by any means mean that I will have anal sex with anyone. I will not take anything longer than 7 inches up there and prefer average thickness. Maybe the women you talk to are happy to try anal but just not with you for whatever reason. Perhaps some women list it to suggest that they are not against the idea or may be interested in anal play (beads, rimming etc.). I also feel you need a good level of trust in your partner to do anal as well as some familiarity with the person. Anal sex can result in some embarrassments so you sure want to be comfortable with the person you do it with.
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Loveknot
17 years ago
well put playfull, thats the bottom line x
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RHP User
17 years ago
many women do enjoy it but as it is an area of sex that can cause a lot of pain and damage to the woman, most wont do it with just anyone. Personally I love it but have found many who are not interested in listening to my needs with regular sex so why should I risk damage with anal. Anal is definately about trust and listening to make it a great experience, and definately not for the one off type of encounter
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RHP User
17 years ago
that my mind is in the sewer.. so i may as well put my dick there too !! ~~~Horriblass~~~
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RHP User
17 years ago
I wouldn;t have thought that it was as high as 80% and i wouldn;t put it on my profile, but just to check, i looked at my own profile which did say anal giving and receiving and now i am thinking that since this website was updated a few months ago, or whenever, maybe some of those things have automatically gone on. Needless to say i have changed my profile back to what it should say. I will do anal but like others have said, it really involves trust and i need to be reasonably involved with the person concerned, not just anybody. In fact i think that it is a bit presumptious for guys to expect females to do anal sex with all and sundry. There is a new party listing on here and ion reading the details the guy says that anal play is expected at his parties!!!!!!!!!!! I wonder how many females will show up there.
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RHP User
17 years ago
This subject again......Yawns.........
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RHP User
17 years ago
OMFG - How Rude!!!
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hi Bluey, I have to say that I have noticed a similar trend but think it has more to do with the anonymity that the internet provides and the opportunity this allow people to be creative (read embellish or lie) with their profiles. It's much like people listing "Open for anything" - this may be a little more ambiguous of course but my experience is that peoples online personas are often very different from their personalities in the flesh.. As the cliche goes, ..don't believe what you read.. Best of luck! Tigrrr
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RHP User
17 years ago
Covers mouth while yawns hahahaha
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RHP User
17 years ago
Is this not the "____" That is, the boring subjects of: bi-curious, photos, gang bang, etc, etc. Don't read one profile aspect and go hooray or not-ever. Take a whole profile in context after looking at the ticked boxes and written words. Some will be turned off wrongly (your problem) and others will be turned on and make contact. Hey Bluey, if you want to stab shit - broaden you your options and check the profiles of males. (Anal is anal whether with or without dicks or boobs.) Hey your life will be boring sticking with the stabbing of females. Enlighten your thoughts and choices to include males (also offer yourself to receive). Everyone will wait with interest for your postings when your mind gets out of submissive female expectations.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I believe the problem may lie in the profile settings, under sexual preferences: (Anal sex/play - receiving) This is the only option regarding anal, therefore, we can't specify if we are only into anal play or only anal sex or both. When reading a profile, upon seeing this option has been checked, perhaps you should not assume that the person likes anal sex & anal play, as they may have checked it because they like 1 or the other. Perhaps you could write to rhp & ask them about changing it, so there are both options. Might save some misunderstandings. Personally i checked the box because i like 'play'. I think it's a matter of comprehension or interpretation. Just my thoughts, I'm sure I'll be corrected if I'm wrong. xx iama xx
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RHP User
17 years ago
i love anal sex but i like to choose whos penis goes their and i do believe that girls if u dont do anal dont put on your site
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RHP User
17 years ago
One of the best posts i've seen in a long time. I'm sure if we asked guys to do what they often expect of us, then the answer would be "no"
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RHP User
17 years ago
Already been asked of the forum in girls ask, ANAL SEX: Who enjoys receiving it?? And is healthy and thriving ;) pretty interesting place this... lol
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RHP User
17 years ago
i say i dont want anal at all, but i still get asked or pressured. i dont do anal and would only consider doing something like that with someone i was in a relationship in coz i dont feel i should give up everything to everyone i meet. also coz thats just not where its supposed to go lol! i would feel safer trying things considered 'taboo' or 'excessively kinki' with ppl i trust only.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Firstly, I don't think women on this site or any other would use the suggestion of anal sex to lure a man, from my experience, they use their brains. Secondly, most men have no idea of how to start the ball rolling with anal sex / play. It's not a matter of slamming your piece of pork into a womans backdoor as if she's a anal porn star that could take a fire hydrant. I believe you have to be extremely gentle, feel, fondle, lick, spit, tongue and finger that sensitive area, perhaps while you are going down on the lady in question. A combination of anal play and oral stimulation can heighten almost any state of arousal. Lubrication is a must of course, saliva being my preferrence. You can introduce anal sex into any sexual encounter, keeping in mind to respect limits, and if you're a pushy bastard, expect a slap round the chops, and a firm resounding "NO"! Other than that, take it slow, make it enjoyable, lick and suck and play with that ring, treat it with respect, make its owner want you to make love to it. RL
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RHP User
17 years ago
Ok, this is a topic im always keen to talk about. Now, i didnt list Anal as something I do. And when asked i explain that i dont like it. End of story. Tried and tested... Not a goer. Yet, on serveral occasions I get the responce... "Oh, he didnt do it right" ... So now your telling me What I do and dont like? There is a right way to do anal sex and a wrong way. The right way being... plenty of lube, paitence, a gentle guy and a modest penis. And a couple of drinks helps too.... My point is... its all well and good to complain about people saying they do something and then dont do it. But when i clearly state i DONT do something, why do some feel the need to push me/nagg/pressure me to do said thing. Whats the point in stating what we do or dont do when peple arent even gonna listen?
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RHP User
17 years ago
there are pple who tried this.. and from these.. some likes it.. some dont.. its all about personal taste.. And it has nothing to do with what the guy did or didnt do... I gave anal sex few times.. it was different, but it felt weird down there.. But then, that was my first time. Perhaps later.. it might get better.. or it might not.. so long she felt the same i suppose...
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