M38
age preference
March 16 2009
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2more4fun
17 years ago
Maybe it's your looks or how you come across in your profile? There are very young sounding 28+ year olds that I probably wouldn't get along with and some very grounded under 25's that I've enjoyed talking to. Age is just a number I guess! Otherwise please remember that some people just don't pay attention to their own profiles and perhaps never got around to adjusting it.
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RHP User
17 years ago
You are lucky that they have bothered to read that much into your profile. I continuously get flirts etc from guys that are younger than 30 despite the fact that my profile says otherwise. I do agree that there can be very immature 30 or 40 yo's and very mature 20 somethings so chose your words wisely when making your advances. I fyou want to meet intelligent people, try sounding the same...likewise if you want to meet dumb blonde bimbos (no offence ladies, some of my best friends are blonde) etc etc. Its not rocket science but first impressions do count for a lot!! Good Luck!!
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RHP User
17 years ago
Age isn't a number, it's an attitude. My ex-wife was 17 years younger than me and my ex-girlfriend was 25 years younger. I was with the both for about 8 years a piece and was dropped for guys around their own age. They both told me that it was a big mistake.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Your profile could do with some work. Too many lol's and haha's. It makes you sound like a giggly school boy, but thats just my opinion Good luck in your search
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RHP User
17 years ago
I wasn't going to post a reply but then I thought, 'what the heck', the guy deserves a response. You might have a fantastic personality...(who knows) but portraying that onto a profile is very very hard to do. Some people have a gift in writing, yet others seem to do better when face to face with people. Have someone else look at your profile and maybe they can make suggestions for you (someone you trust that is!!!!). :o)
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RHP User
17 years ago
coz maybe they changed their minds?
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RHP User
17 years ago
it depends on the chick, everyone is looking for something different, as long as your happy with yourself.
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RHP User
17 years ago
You've got an age limit set at 32, you've cut out at least 50% of the possible and maybe interested population. And you can't blame someone for checking that you're serious about meeting someone older than you, noone likes to play baby games when we're all about adult fun
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RHP User
17 years ago
Some change their minds on what age they are after but don't update their profile. Others just get so many replies that they may start becoming more picky. Then there are others that really don't want to meet someone and maybe they are using you being too young as a excuse to let you down gently.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Yea I must say I have found this, I thought it must be their nice way of saying no I don't like you. Makes them look stupid or inattentive to what they put in their profile though.
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windtalker38
16 years ago
In melb soon would love to hook up with you to again how about it guys
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't have a problem with taking an 18 year old lover, but the same proviso has to be followed as with someone older, ie. they have to be seeking what I'm seeking, and we need to get along on more levels than just the physical. However, there are very few 18 years olds who actually understand or seek the same things as me, but the same could be said for men of other ages. Basically, I won't reject someone young because of their age, but because they might not have come across as someone mature enough and with enough depth to hold my interests. I have come across some exceptions, therefore I have kept my age range wider, but generally it's not the case.
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RHP User
16 years ago
People can and do perceive how someone may speak, act or behave based on their chronological age. Also, you only get once chance to make a really great first impression. Try to act wise beyond your years if you are conversing with someone much older than you.Personally, I find more common ground and shared life experiences with someone around my own age bracket. I want to enjoy the whole experience, and not just focus only on the intimacy. If there's too much of a generation gap to cross, then it can be harder for people to feel at ease or relaxed with someone they're not in tune with.As a draw card - you could tell people you're a gym junkie and have lots of stamina. But, ultimately people do have the right to change their mind, long before they meet you, and age may only be one of those factors used in the elimination process.Good luck :-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
My partners have always been younger than me by a few years but the best was in there twenties..best sex best fun best exploration..Ide go it again with a younger guy but i want longer term r they mature enough to go the distance not just a night a week or a mth...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Who really cares about age? I agree with sssensation, younger can be more fun, and older more mature, but when it comes to the crunch, Isnt it more important to be happy with the one your with?
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