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age bracket on profiles
January 01 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
If the use-by date on your favourite mango and passionfruit yoghurt says it has expired, but you dip your finger in and it doesn't taste off... do you still eat it? . I like to check ID's regardless... keeps you out of prison. Although i stand by the fact that "2 x 16 = 32, your worship."
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RHP User
15 years ago
There are always exceptions to the rule. However for us personally, we want to make friends with people and that is much easier to do with people of a similar age. Also the idea of doing stuff with people of the same age as our parents for us is a big turn off.
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RHP User
15 years ago
It seems to me that those of us that have had more years to hone the art of love making, are wasted information and hands on teachers.
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RHP User
15 years ago
plays a big part for me also i think having sex with someone my parent age just isnt right
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RHP User
15 years ago
Although we occasionally make exceptions to age based limits... it's got a lot to do with making friends and not playing with people the same age as our parents. We have also realised we aren't nuts about couples with a huge age difference between partners (typically younger girl and older guy). Miss has done the whole relationship with a much older man so there is no thrill for her to play if its a straight swap. Shallow, judgmental, dismissive... maybe but it's all about boundaries and what you are comfortable with. We have made friends with some great couples who are 15+ years older than us... and they are heaps of fun to spend time with socially - but when an older couple contacts us via rhp (and hasn't met us in person at a party before previously) - it's become thanks but no thanks.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MRSSWEETIEPIE' Quoting 'mes1358'It seems to me that those of us that have had more years to hone the art of love making, are wasted information and hands on teachers. The cold hard facts of the matter is that age does not guarantee a good lover these days mes1358. You can very often find a 35 year old man who is a much more skilled lover than a man 10 or 15 years his senior. Age quite often means NOTHING in the skill stakes, it's all about listening and paying attention in class. xx Sweetie Hammered! J Quoting 'MRSSWEETIEPIE' Quoting 'mes1358'It seems to me that those of us that have had more years to hone the art of love making, are wasted information and hands on teachers. The cold hard facts of the matter is that age does not guarantee a good lover these days mes1358. You can very often find a 35 year old man who is a much more skilled lover than a man 10 or 15 years his senior. Age quite often means NOTHING in the skill stakes, it's all about listening and paying attention in class. xx Sweetie
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'butterflybabe90'plays a big part for me also i think having sex with someone my parent age just isnt right Totally agree, I should have added more detail about my perspective. I meant no offence to anyone.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We've been really surprised by the interest from the younger set, both surprising yet flattering too. As a result, we've made some great friends from unexpected corners, young and old. There's always exceptions to be made and although we stipulated ages that were 10 years each way, we're pretty damn glad we bent the rules and tasted beautiful juicy ripe fruit and firm, fresh varieties. All delicious in their own right
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ditto guys :-)
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
We have a ball park figure..but will definitely go outside that if the people are cool. We have met folk in their 50's who are hipper & more fun than some people in their 20s or 30s. Some people pick an age group and don't move from that...and well, they could be missing out on good times. We can understand 10 years outside of your 'preferred age bracket' might be a bit much but to class someone "too Old" when they're just 2 or 3 years over is a bit silly. The years catch up with everyone eventually..so remember the day will come (and fast) when those being picky about one or two years will then become the oldies .. LOL
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well it goes to show a large age difference between the young and old is the issue like playing with your parents as most put it, agree with older don't always make better same as younger aren't always are better alot of guys just want to have a wam bam thank you mam parden the pun just a quick fun and run , slow and sensual is the way to go forplay with heaps of body carressing , also lots of men just like to treat women like rag dolls and pull them around no concerns on how the woman feels , same with women not all men like to treat women roughly soft and sensual vanilla sex only .
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RHP User
15 years ago
once the young ones that are now at the age of 30 - 40 age bracket if still on the swinging scene when they reach the 50 age bracket will they be looking for 30 - 40 ages , seems as though this is lifes circle when you get older will the younger bracket still want to have sex with us . And there's nothing like giving the females a full on orgasm by the tongue i prefer to give the ladies the treat and as i'm a vanilla sex guy and not a fisting or rough sex guy yes that's my treat for the ladies if interested .
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'hc2528' There are always exceptions to the rule. However for us personally, we want to make friends with people and that is much easier to do with people of a similar age. Also the idea of doing stuff with people of the same age as our parents for us is a big turn off. If your still swinging when you reach the 45 -50 year mark let us know if you do search for the younger bracket ? , or just a phase that you won't as you will look back and think we were once there oldies are out of bounds .
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RHP User
15 years ago
We have met many people from all different age groups in the Lifestyle and as we age ourselves we find that age really has not a lot to do with Swinging its health and looks that play the main issue in choice of partners when a couple for example is in there 50s and a couple is in there 40s we look at it as when they are in there 70s we will be in our 80s so whats the problem.....? in the mind thats the problem!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
We do definitely have an age bracket and we try to keep to it when we play, but of course there can and will be times when 'something' clicks and an exception may be made or simply may just occur.But, we have that limit there simply because we have kids in their early 20's and to us, to play with males of that age (both kids are male) would seem like we were 'fucking' with one of their friends and would to us anyway, feel very weird and would likely lessen any enjoyment. However, if we do not know the age than one cannot be so 'certain' as we may have played at parties with guys outside our bracket but because we have not asked, then we will never know.As for girls, well none in their early 20's hit on us so we just cannot comment there although we suspect the attitudes would be similar as they would be (to us - and apologies if this offends people) simply kids of the same as as our kids.Best way we can look at it is that whilst we appreciate all who flirt/wink or whatever us, we just feel old at times.Shebagaz
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RHP User
15 years ago
The profiles we load are simple preferances some things are strict other can be flexible...No matter whet there is always an exception to a rule. Especially when you get to know some one like on the forums. I have no doubt that people who post here would like to meet up with others who post even though they are outside of profile preferances. My thought is once you get a seat at the table you might be able to see what is in the drawers :) LC
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
We have never had that thought of it feeling weird cos playmates are the same age as our adult daughters ...we've played with people from 18 to late 50's. So long as they are mature in mind the thought of their age never really comes into it. We have met quite a few younger couples who only want to play with people much older than themselves because they say younger people can have more issues like jealousy etc.
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