M44

Young or Mature

January 30 2008

Here is just a curious age related type question for Y'all! We all have a dream of the perfect guy or girl that we would like to roll between the sheets with, but I was wondering who most people would rather have sex with if they given an ultimatum to? 1. A young male of female ...say in their twenties or early thirties but obesely over weight or just a sagged and battered unattractive body. Or 2. An older male of female....someone who is say 40 - 55 years old, but has kept fit and active and has quite a good sexy body. Sure, there are going to the wise-arse people that say that they would rather take neither and abstain from having sex with anyone at all. But hopefully there are some honest and intelligent people on this site too. Which one are you ......... 1 or 2.....? Just a hypothetical for ya! But it would be interesting to see where the stigma of obesity and the stigma of ageism Vs aesthetics lie.

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RHP User

18 years ago

..though not because of the body...because of the age and experience. The maturity, whch i simply dont find in the majority of males my age :) Granted though, everyone is different..why cant one be young and mature? G_Ana

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playfulminx

18 years ago

While I don't call early 30s particularly young (it's all relative I guess), I would probably prefer a well-maintained guy or gal in their 40s as presentation is everything. It also means that the person has pride in his/her appearance. I would not choose a early to mid 20s guy/girl with a mean bod over a 50s guy/girl with a similarly mean bod. I need more than the physical to get me going ;) (well ok, maybe a hot girl in her early 20s would be fine...)

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RHP User

18 years ago

Purely because of the body number 2 otherwise my preference would be young and hot.

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RHP User

18 years ago

neither because its based on pure physical appearance alone and I like to consider the persons personality as part of the equasion too. (amongst other things) in fact i find the question offensive. but thats just me and my opinion and im allowed to have it. :)

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RHP User

18 years ago

Thanx for answering guys! I definately go for personality over anything!! I would choose both one or two if he or she was both comfortable with, and liked they themselves as a person. Looks are irrelevant to what a person is like on the inside! We all are going to experience getting old......(and there ain't no escaping that). It would be great for alot young people to have the insight to know that they are also going to get older too. But I guess that's where maturity comes in, because it give you life skills and foresight. Thanx again! Have a great day!! :)

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RHP User

18 years ago

To me, definately has to be an attraction, not worried about the age, but also needs to look after themselves and be fit. shy

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RHP User

18 years ago

Two all the way. Though as I get older, I am getting over the whole attraction only to thin women thing, I still would prefer, as a general rule, an "older" fit and lithe woman. When it comes to older women, there is a simmering history of sensuality and contentment that really does it for me so it needn't be a choice even between two, apparently, lesser options. Older and fit CAN be a double bonus!

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