RHP

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You wanted a what?

December 15 2012

Hi,   First time forum poster here - so please bear with us as we try to articulate our question to the public out there...:-)   Have you ever participated in a straight MMF, only to be told afterwards, that the guy wanted a MMF (bi). That's awesome don't get me wrong and we are absolutely fine with either scenario, but wouldn't it have been more appropriate or even time-friendly if he had of suggested that in the first place?   So I guess our question is, did you participate in play, only to find out that wasn't the true motive for all involved, and someone else may have had something completely different, or something more in mind?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Yes I have done them and they are great. Focus on her and her pleasure, don't be selfish and work with your male buddy and she will enjoy herself to the maximum.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Or maybe they realised at that time that they felt an attraction to your man on some level, whereas before they didn't think they had an interest in the same sex in the slightest?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    He'd been asked to leave for suggesting it in the past, and decided to not tempt fate again??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'He'd been asked to leave for suggesting it in the past, and decided to not tempt fate again?? Actually makes a lot of sense. I think Truckin's on to something here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    That happens all the time. Most guys are wary of telling couples or women they are bi-sexual first up unless they mention it first. There is still that stigma attached to men playing with each other.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    always changing their minds

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ...a debrief session after a good game. If you meet with them again, you'll know what to expect.Have fun and don't read too much into it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thanks for the comments so far guys and believe me I've taken on board most of what you have said...thanks again!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    One guy came to me for a BDSM session but didn't want to do any of the usual activities. All he wanted was me to give him anal with a strap on. Nothing else, just a quickie with a strap on. Upon investigation I discovered that he loved anal but he considered it a homosexual act. By getting a woman to force him to do it then he considered that heterosexual. I explained that anal was a normal sexual act and had no gender bias but I don't think I quite convinced him.So if you are not upfront and tell people what you want you may end up getting your bottom spanked.

  • cbdlivin

    cbdlivin

    13 years ago

    As truckin said it could be that, as a lot of couples turn down guys who have bi on their profile so a lot of guys on here have straight on their profile just so they can get more couples play. Once they have met a couple then if the couple suggest bi play then they can extend into that area. If as a male you have bi on your profile a lot of couples assume you have no self control and will try things uninvited, so by being a little untruthful on your profile and saying straight you get to meet couples and have a great time hopefully. And just having to concentrate on the female is not a bad thing after all a lot of fun to be had.B

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I agree with you MistressT and MadamDragonfly....if you can't be honest and upfront on your interests on your profile, let alone at a social meet so everyone knows what they are all in store for, it doesn't set the right mood for play, for the right type of play and sometimes, not meeting again for second helpings. We are going to see this person again in the New Year and at least we do all know what we are in for...at least that's what I believe to be true. This man says that in his opinion play with a couple is way more fun than with singles, and he says when it's a bi-session, everyone is involved. Umm...excuse me if I seem confused, but isn't everyone involved in a 3some even if its a MMF straight? Even though a true blue MMF straight is for the pleasure of the lady, isn't everyone involved? Or am I perhaps reading too much into this - or have I raised another issue within the context of my earlier question? Hmmm...lets keep the opinions rolling on in...:-)