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Would you let your partner play alone??
December 21 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
No, just not for us. I bet your be expected to return the favour.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Playmates can be great, I get sooo horny before, during and after, so winners all round! I like to know hubby's playmate, helps if I know her. Trust is the key. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not focus on what you mean by you "wonder how you will feel, when he plays alone?" In my view, if those feelings may lead to jealousy or feelings of indifference, then Maybe it wasn't such a good idea for YOU to play alone??? On the other hand however, if you're quite turned on by the idea of your partner playing alone, then just roll with it. However, I do think its needing to be said and reminded to ALWAYS keep the lines of communication open with your partner, and make it HONEST communication. Same with the 3rd wheels of the situation. Make sure they're understanding what they are, not WHO they are, and I think some people don't always maintain the right thought process when it comes to the "third party."
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi, I think in theory it may be ok but in reality....could cause your relationship problems. I think it is better to keep playing something you both do together with no secrets. My man and I talk about the things we would like to do and I think it is a special relationship that can be so open and honest. I know it can be hard when a partner works away a lot (as does mine) but it depends how much the relationship means to you. Yes, you probably enjoyed the experience of being with someone on your own and it is great that you did not do it behind his back, but if you are unsure how you will feel if he does it as well, then maybe it is something you shouldn't do either.... Just my thoughts.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Whichever way you look at it. it's better than playing behind your hubby's back.. So yeah' all seems OK .. After all' you said hubby suggested it and gets turned on by the after story . If you are both on the same page and both getting something out of it... go for it.. Jay
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RHP User
13 years ago
It had been a fantasy of mine for years. A couple of months ago I convinced my wife to play with a young guy. She was very apprehensive as she thought it might change us. It has for the better. I love the thought of my wife being plesured all night and then coming home and telling me all about it. It realy turns me to hear all about it. I trust her fully and we don't keep anything from each other. She would not won't me to be with another girl and I fully respect that. She loves it and so do I.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't own my partner and I don't try to impose any restrictions on her. She has played without me many times.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Be really careful playing alone. Hearts can be broken xox- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I wouldn't play alone and I'd hope my partner(if and when) wouldn't want/need to either. I think the whole idea of couples playing is exactly that, the couple plays and the "3rd wheel" is just that, someone to come in when the mood strikes. That's it!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I couldn't if my partner and I were in a commited relationship. Jealousy would creep in, and it is a feeling I like to stay well away from. I much prefer to be the person to join a couple. No baggage for me and the ability to leave if there turned out to be baggage for them. Call me Unicorn, but don't call ever me Third Wheel.
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RHP User
13 years ago
i 'let' my partner make her own choice when we began this.... to this day its been her preference to never play solo...suits me fine, as I'm of the same mind... theres no point indulging in this 'play' as a couple, if we play like 'singles'.......its about 'us' after all, and was 'our' fantasy that lead us here... having said that, we dont and wont play with others who are coupled and playing solo........
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RHP User
13 years ago
My wife played with a single guy a few years ago (after I encouraged her to when at the last minute I couldn't make it due to work ) and made a DVD of it and gave it to me for my birthday as a suprise would do it again in the right circumstances as it was a real turn on her playing with another guy while I was at work - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
when I play alone and tell him all about it after..
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
My husband n I have both played alone - it is a big trust thing n it can be very exciting when telling each other stories about the event...
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RHP User
13 years ago
When my wife and I started down this road a few years back, it was only ever meant to be alone. My wife prefers it this way. Having said that, I have joined her and a boyfriend on a number of occasions. We are happy to play alone, provided we abide by our rules. Namely ; safe sex always, we must know where and with who the other person is with( safety reasons) We trust and respect each other and are comfortable in the knowledge that we will both happily return to each other
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madotara69
13 years ago
It would worry me sick, all i could think of would be the poor blokes health condition. Definitely not, I would have to be there to give him a glass of water or something verbal at the least like "breath mate breath"
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