M48
Women & the "C BOMB"
January 11 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes I did use Mrs P's" Topic Search Guide". I appreciate the time she spent in constructing it, a mammoth effort!! But as there is no obvious title for this topic, I did could find a similar post :( Just thought I'd clear that up before my head is bitten off :) Cheers x
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RHP User
16 years ago
My previous post should read "Could not find a similar post". Sorry!!! In a hurry to head out... Quoting 'Ridge_Forester' Yes I did use Mrs P's" Topic Search Guide". I appreciate the time she spent in constructing it, a mammoth effort!! But as there is no obvious title for this topic, I could not find a similar post :( Just thought I'd clear that up before my head is bitten off :) Cheers x
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playfulminx
16 years ago
... and tell her that she shouldn't drop the C-Bomb if she wants to attract a higher standard of men folk. Yes, she may tell you that you're a C%^t but certainly not your loss! If you're lucky she may be just a misguided person who thinks it's OK to drop the C-Bomb and thank you for alerting her to the fact. Maybe the penny will drop as to why she's only been able to date arseholes, bogan and non-English speaking backpackers.It reminds of how the whole cinema was taken aback during American Beauty when Mena Suvari dropped the C-Bomb lol... It sure does sway one's opinion about a person :DPS - You'd laugh if you find that in bed she's coy about referring to her vagina as anything other than a hoo hoo, or 'down there'.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would agree with you Ridge. I find people who use offensive language casually to be a bit lazy, linguistically speaking. Personally I would have used the word pussy, preceded by the words would you like to lick my.... ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
You seem like a reasonably intelligent man so why the confusion? You have values and can obviously out smart the 'dick think' syndrome so let ur instincts be your guide. Personally, I am not a fan of profilic use of profanities in public. Demonstrates a lack of respect, creativitiy and just downright laziness. The C bomb, has a cosy little place in my bedroom..on the proviso it is used correctly...dirty talk...with the right person.....HOTTTTT
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RHP User
16 years ago
http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/The-C-Word-24761 LoveCurvie Similar topic and the feel was...there can be a time and place where it is quite OK LC
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Ridge, Who cares if the topics been raised before... I don't sweat the small stuff.. lifes too short to get hung up on forum etiquette (or spelling) ! So I say... raise what ever you want... I like what you have to say. A man who can communicate will turn me on anyday ! Speaking of your topic... Yes, there are some words that irritate me. I much prefer the sentence "she's such a vagina to, she's such a c...t" ! But I guess it doesn't have the same impact. In general the only time I like such dirty talk is when I'm feeling dirty ! Perhaps she was trying to give you a hint of what she wanted ? Perhaps you could have shoved something in her mouth to shut her up and just admired her good looks ? In my opinion, looks only account for so much. I'd much rather intellect, respect and good manners and average looks to gorgeous but rude, crude or stupid. Perhaps you could have told her that you don't like the word. I generally turn those moments into jokes. For instance when a guy says "fuck" too much...I say something like, "are you trying to tell me your are really horny? You keep using the work fuck. " They generally blush, apologise and say, "well now that you ask..." !!! Have fun Ridge... lifes too short ! Hugs, Ms Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
Turns out there is an obvious title... haha. Ta mate ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well i for one just cant stand the use of the word.... sorry but i just cant, i dont think there is any need for it, i cringe when i hear someone use it and yes i do form an opinion of that peson if i hear them use it.... did i mention i just cant stand the word ....................
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'saturn86' Hey Ridge, Who cares if the topics been raised before... I don't sweat the small stuff.. lifes too short to get hung up on forum etiquette (or spelling) ! So I say... raise what ever you want... I like what you have to say. A man who can communicate will turn me on anyday ! Speaking of your topic... Yes, there are some words that irritate me. I much prefer the sentence "she's such a vagina to, she's such a c...t" ! But I guess it doesn't have the same impact. In general the only time I like such dirty talk is when I'm feeling dirty ! Perhaps she was trying to give you a hint of what she wanted ? Perhaps you could have shoved something in her mouth to shut her up and just admired her good looks ? In my opinion, looks only account for so much. I'd much rather intellect, respect and good manners and average looks to gorgeous but rude, crude or stupid. Perhaps you could have told her that you don't like the word. I generally turn those moments into jokes. For instance when a guy says "fuck" too much...I say something like, "are you trying to tell me your are really horny? You keep using the work fuck. " They generally blush, apologise and say, "well now that you ask..." !!! Have fun Ridge... lifes too short ! Hugs, Ms Saturn Exactamundo Saturn...you utterly sexy smart siren!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Like some of the previous comments there is perhaps a time and a place for that special word.... You seem ok with other words like the F word etc which some people might consider just as bad in a social setting...... Persoanlly, I'm ok with swearing as long as it's not around kids or perhaps ultra conservatives like gran and grandad ! lol To help with your problem Ridge, and if you like this girl....(remember we all seem to like a lady in public and a badgirl in the bedroom !lol) perhaps you could indicate that a better time and place for the use of her special word would be whispering it hotly in your ear when you are alone, telling you what she wants you to do to her ......? Perhaps then it would mean a lot more to you.....it certainly does to me !!! Bad Dog. Always try to turn a negative into a positive ! Um...I do know a little joke on this topic as well..... Once upon a time Little Johnny was busting to go to the toilet......but his Mum was in the shower......in the end he had to just burst in on her.....as he was doing his business his eyes opened large as he saw his Mums huge 70's bush in between her legs..... "Aw gee whiz Mum....what's that ?" he said pointing at her hairy thatch..... "Ah Johnny"...she said embarrassed.....not sure what to say....."um, thats where god got me with the axe" .....she blushed.....using a phrase she had heard her uncourth husband say many times.....the first thing that popped into her head..... "Holy cow Mum..... God's a good shot 'cos he got your right in the cunt !" Very Very Bad Dog. (wags tail and smiles)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I really can't stand the word being bandied around and I think it shows a lack of social maturity as well as laziness and downright crassness. My suggestion is ring her and tell her that her foul mouth is a deterrent to further contact, perhaps not using those words but you get my drift. A someone else said, she may appreciate the social education and the opportunity to review her behaviour. Some people are unaware of their behaviour and its not until its pointed out to them that they get the chance to modify it. Have you ever done studies in communication. The Johari windows are a great tool for giving people feedback about their behaviour because of the premise that we all ahve aspects of ourselves we just don't see. Good luck
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'saturn86' Hey Ridge, Who cares if the topics been raised before... I don't sweat the small stuff.. lifes too short to get hung up on forum etiquette (or spelling) ! So I say... raise what ever you want... I like what you have to say. A man who can communicate will turn me on anyday ! You're awesome Saturn! I wish everyone had the same attitude... But some people think they own the forum and take any opportunity to stomp on other peoples' posts. It kinda kills the whole vibe. Maybe they need to get out of the house or something... lol. That may be another thread?? haha. Thanks Saturn. I like the rest of your response too... Ridge :) xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
that i cringe when i hear my son and his mates use it...but ta hear it from a girl....urrkkkk....i hear the dutch have a rule that ya can hit ya child around the ear up to the age of 18 (for bad manners and bad behaviour)...grinsi am thinking about introducing this rule into my 2 male household...lol....mind you, in the bedroom, when ya hot and sweaty, and feeling as horny as hell, then it does come into its own...luv ya workcheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
the "C" bomb...not the hitting around the head......giggling...ya know...ummm....well...i'm sure you do jose....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Its not a word i use around females ever if i can help it, much prefer pussy! Usually save that one for at the farm when things aint going so well...!!and definetly not a word i want to hear come out of a females mouth....ever...ever...ever!!!Cheers Nev....doing the Voddies and Rammstein thing tonight....Links 2..3..4
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RHP User
16 years ago
(warning - this turned into a long post)...but at least it is consistent if they're happy to use words like dick, cock, fuck, shit, etc - I wouldn't get my knickers in a knot over the odd cunt here or there ;) (my "ugh you've gone from the most beautiful goddess to gutter trash" thing is smoking) That said, I'm not big on the overuse of swearing - if someone can't talk without swearing its a bit offputting, often they don't even realise they're swearing. A little here or there I can live with (in the right setting) but I like to stay a little bit civilised outside the locker room. (I'd dock her class point equally for the other swearing Ridge)Slightly digressing... I particularly have to bite my tongue when I hear hypocrisy like people carrying on that using the word is an affront to feminism - that using a reference to their anatomy as a derogatory term marginalises women - not catching the problem when they're happy to use the masculine version (starts with D or C) as a pejorative term.(I find it amusing when people are happily sh*t,f*ck, etc - but apologise profusely if they say 'damn' - only noticed it amongst North Americans)Perhaps something to wonder is: why do you find one C word so vile, when you don't find the other C word the same? (is it women swearing in general or just that word? is it just a bit more taboo than other words - it isn't common, so it is that much more shocking to here, but considered objectively it needn't be any more offensive than the other words)
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RHP User
16 years ago
But not when you're in a social setting with people you've only just met. It just says "bogan" to me...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with Saturn - it can be very sexy when used in private between consenting adults.Not in public and not as a term of abuse..Mr. SR.
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RHP User
16 years ago
What is going on here! While its not a word I use very often (usually in the middle of a hot sex session) but lets not get ttoo hung up up on its use and give the word more power than it deserves.
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RHP User
16 years ago
You need to save swear words for when you really need them. People who use them too much diminish their significance. Once 'c' becomes socially acceptable (like 'f' more or less has), what will we have left to say when we get our genitals caught in a fanbelt? I detest the word 'c' from anyone except this one friend (F) who I would only see 2 or 3 times a year. She has a real public potty mouth, but for some reasons it's just plain sexy when she uses them. For some reason, it just works for me, I can't help it - STOP JUDGING ME!! PS - Ridge - How are you coping with all this advice to educate her... Apart from Saturns worthwhile suggestion on how to keep her quiet... I can imagine that she will just tell you to take your fucking lesson elsewhere! You c&^t. (If she's feeling polite that is)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ankle is more of an insult = Its 3 feet lower Arsehole = you are not being sexist cos everyone has oneKeep the c word or intimate moments. personally I think it should only be used as a term of adoration.Wildly reverencing cunts
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorry just trying to make every forum include the professional topic... I agree with your last comment Ridge - that using in everyday language isn't called for, but in the heat of sex, it can be a seriously sexy noun. My nickname used to be C**T..I think there may be people that still think I am..but they don't know me very well Trev
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RHP User
16 years ago
the words, d-head, f-wit, c-sucker, and c--t are generally used in a very derogatory way, political correctness may have to step in here as well, heaven forbid if you say, "don’t be so retarded”. reference to others in a derogatory way is poor no matter what words are used. To each his own, as I don’t like the word p---y either. I would have raised my eyebrows and expressed a liitle shock when the word was first used, nip it early then everyone knows where you stand rather than letting it go. dzynr
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RHP User
16 years ago
They are just words at the end of the day....and i would much rather hear someone say the word cunt that to hear them be racially, religiously or genderly (is that even a word??) abusive or degrading.I am not offended as a woman by the use of the word...because I have found that when its used to describe a womans bits...its crude but generally positive...but when used to describe other people....its negative.But if you meet this girl again...make a point of letting her know that you dont approve of her language,...but perhaps in a light-hearted way...such as...wow...you really like the C word dont you?? If she keeps using it...and you cant get past that...then move on. Simple. She may think youre a prude and move on anyway.Just my opinion...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
It is an intersting topic. Rdge, I missed the previous thread so, I am with you there buddy. I have never been a fan of using C*** in every say language like f*** is used and bloody etc. I usually reserved it for when someone was about to feel my wrath. Or is omeone called me one, I knew a war was about to start and i loaded my guns. Recently my lady has introduced into our lovemaking fuck my c*** you bitch, fuck my c*** hard" for example. I still find this somewhat off putting, not used to hearing such words used in that setting let alone coming out od a lady's mouth in the heat of passion. Anyway Ridge, maybe she thought you liked that sort of talk. Was she drunk? Could she see you wince when she sad the word? I'd call her. Her mind set is interesting. Take on board BJ's comments as well. So, starting another thread: Any ladies here like their pussy bing called a c*** in the heat of passion or call their pussy that themselves in the heat of passion? Or as a part of foreplay? Cheers WR2
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RHP User
16 years ago
i agree but maybe there was an oppurtunity to explain to the young lady in question , that the C word does not make her seem worldly , and does not impress you , maybe the young lady could have surprised you , and refrained from dropping the bomb . i really do try and not swear in the company of ladies and kids , but occaissionly , i slip , although ten times is not a slip , the most constant thing in life is change , maybe she can change to dont write off a book because of one bad page im pretty sure thats about as helpful as a steering wheel in a hot air balloon
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RHP User
16 years ago
kinda off topic, but I prefer to call that special type of idiot a "puddle" as they're generally shallow and stagnant, and you usually prefer to avoid them as you go about your business. Plus it enables me to cut down on my use of four-letter emphasis words. cheers, Adrian.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Whether the word "cunt" is offensive or unattractive is entirely subjective. There's no objective reasoning either way. Therefore, there's no sense in taking a strong stand on the issue. Yay for logic.
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RHP User
16 years ago
personally i've got no problem with people using "the C bomb". i even know girls who throw the word in every now again. my previous girlfriend even started using it a little bit after hanging around with me for long enough =P of course it was only ever used in a humerous context, we never used it agressively with eachother. for myself and just about everyone i know words are just words, we don't care what's used in general conversation.if it winds you up when people say certain words then ask them not to do it. can't be that hard can it? i'd say it's better than sitting back, holding your breath and not saying anything when someone says/does something you don't like.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree wif ripped ranga. Doesn't mean people are bogan's or lesser people. That is their way of expressing themselves. Everyone is entitled to an opinion, but if people don't like that, they should say. But politely, as everyone should always show manners.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Fantastic analogy, if you have anymore little gems, please post so we can all be enlightened and possibly broaden the australian vocabulary dzynr
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RHP User
16 years ago
Remember when "fuck" was the most terrible word you could say???Ahhh...those were the days.Just my opinion...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mate,I'm the same age as you mate and the scenario you're in I wish I was lucky enough to have.When you cop rejection from every girl you're interested in....to be picky and whinge about the "C" word with yor dreamgirl is just being picky.But I gues with your looks and the fact this dreamgirl is chasing you,you can afford to be picky.Not saying I'm desperate,but if she's beautiful and likes you..let it side,deal with it AFTER you're going out and then discuss it with her.Don't cut your nose off to spite your face...you have been given an opportunity here that other men like me only dream off.....don't waste it!
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