M67
Why is it ..
October 22 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mooka you were bored in the powerpoint presentation... why oh why....
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RHP User
15 years ago
A two hour presentation on future Terms and Conditions on a contract is not what I would call enthralling - worse it wasn't even the contract I am working on!!!! Apologies to anyone who realised most of this is covered before lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mooka, Mooka, MookaDoes that feel better my friend???? Is it off your chest now???I think we all have a 1000 questions from being on rhp and trying to meet up with people, we feel your pain.Good luck.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I usually have one question worth asking.. Who wants sex with me?!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh Mooka you were bored. Is this your equivalent to the doodle pad? It is because we are human. We all have faults and foibles, we all have double standards ( well most of us anyway ), high expectations and..... SUCH IS LIFE!
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RHP User
15 years ago
What about the Profiles that State Thin, Athletic or average ... when they are near on OBESE. If you want to be picky .. better be honest also
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well Mooka, as much as I loved your questions and largely agree with them, I'm going to play devil's advocate and have a stab at answering them. I just finished a 2 hour meeting too, and I'm feeling argumentative...Why is it people can demand, often in bold, capital letters, in their profile that they will not answer anyone who doesn’t have a face pic visible etc yet they, themselves, have either no photos or some obscure ‘arty’ photo that could be of anyone or anything!Clearly they value their own worth above those of others and although that's natural, I agree that it's annoying. Why is it … that some guy can send a message to a woman he has never met, never communicated with, and immediately ask for, nah demand sex?Because this is a sex site. If this was Amazon and a man asked for or demanded a book, we wouldn't be terribly surprised.Would this same guy walk up to an unknown woman at a bar and use as his opening line ‘Hey Baby, I am hard for you, come over my place now and I will make all your dreams come true’?He might, but unless he was gorgeous and/or hung to the knees, he'd likely get knocked back. The primary purpose of a bar is to serve alcohol though, not to facilitate sex. If he asked that question in a sex club, he may get a yes. Conversely, if a man walked up to an unknown woman at a sex club and asked for a chicken sandwich and a side of fries, he'd likely also be disappointed at her answer. Why is it … that so many couple seem to only consist of one person?Because couples seem to be more successful than single men. Someone will always try to game the system, though I agree that this seems to be a pretty dopey way to do it. Why is it ... that the only people who seem to be interested in you are interstate?I'm just gloating here - yesterday I found a really fun and interesting woman who lives 5 minutes from home. I realise that's no answer, except to say that some locals are out there. Why is it … that a woman can state categorically that unless a male has an appendage of over 8” (that’s 20.3 cm for the youngsters reading this) don’t bother contacting her?Not being endowed to those exacting specifications, I never contact those women so don't really have any insight into the way their minds works. I have a preference for slim women, but I'd like to think that I regard a woman as more than a set of dimensions.Would she be happy to have to verify the size of her female naughty bits, maybe pass a saggy boob test to be allowed to contact a male?The dynamics of RHP make that a rhetorical question, but I suspect that no, she wouldn't be any happier about that than we men are about being told that we have to be of porn-star dimensions to even be in the race. Why is it … a couple or a female who states, again categorically in big bold emphasized text in their profile “NO SINGLE MEN” yet their only friends listed on their profile are yes, single men?Recent change to their profile due to overload of options? I have seen that before - women start looking just for other women as they have a list of single men to choose from as long as... a baby's arm holding an apple... Why is it … that some people will set unrealistic criteria for that perfect partner yet loudly condemn anyone else who dares sets similar criteria that excludes them?Because humans are hypocrites and value themselves more highly than they value others.I have one to add to your list - hopefully you'll return the favour and answer it for me...I'm listed as straight and only seeking women, so why do men think that I would want them somehow attached to my bits?
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RHP User
15 years ago
LOL Mooka you beat me to it.......have been postulating the same wonderous things myself of late. Why is it that while sharing a meal with an RHP male does he feel compelled to tell me the size and skill of his appendage ??? I have had lengthy discussions with many men and none of them feel they need to share this information with me....least over a meal.........do RHP men discuss their sexual creativity with all they meet or just us lucky RHP gals ?? ................................................................................................................................ Why does "ok Lets meet for coffee" mean " i agree to let you tear my clothes off in the carpark and do erotic (unmentionable) things to me ??.............................................................................................................. Is it to do with boy speak vs girl speak ?? Makes for interesting opportunities for come back lines tho........
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RHP User
15 years ago
are you in the same powerpoint meeting ...That is a looooooooooooooooooooooooooong answer zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
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RHP User
15 years ago
Think you'll find most of your questions come under the age old saying... '' do as i say, not as i do''...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Why is it … that some guy can send a message to a woman he has never met, never communicated with, and immediately ask for, nah demand sex? Snowshoe....... Because this is a sex site. ...and here we were thinking it was a meeting site. It's this mentality by men and their attitude "Well here I am, I'm telling all these women i'll have sex with them but why arent they responding?'' Manners and etiquette seem to be lost or forgotten by a lot of members. What you say in a message to another member is still communicating to another human being. So again I disagree with you Snowshoe... Would this same guy walk up to an unknown woman at a bar and use as his opening line ‘Hey Baby, I am hard for you, come over my place now and I will make all your dreams come true’? Snowshoe..... He might, but unless he was gorgeous and/or hung to the knees, he'd likely get knocked back. The primary purpose of a bar is to serve alcohol though, not to facilitate sex. Wheather on this site or in a bar your character will be judged by your initial words. Heres an example of many emails we ignore.... "hey sexy,Luevd your profile...luved it .....cant get my eyes of you...here is my email [email protected] let me know. .... liitle bit abt me... i am 6ft tall tanned musculer body hispanic born.... let me know if you up for fun...." We agree and disagree with some of your points Mooka and yes the one that amazes us is the request for a penis no smaller than 10 inches. Well I guess its her wish and therefore entitled to request it. Mind you, statistically unless the guy has four legs and neighs her chances are slim. Mooka we suggest you chill and do as we do...ignore them.
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RHP User
15 years ago
There are two answers to many of these questions - testicles !
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RHP User
15 years ago
Let me get this straight... You were at a Powerpoint Presentation Meeting and you were jotting down notes about your observations of RHP members profiles?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Why is it that after so many years and years and years of those corporate style meetings where they bore us into a comatose state with slide after slide after slide in PowerPoint...thave they not figured out that most of us are not paying the least bit of attention and our minds drift off to thoughts of anything from what's for lunch to who would rather be with doing any number of much more pleasureable things? Help, Mr. Gates.......you have released a demon on the world! | I just hope that whoever came up with that spends eternity being forced into watching a presentation on the benefits of long term celebacy! | That would be pure hell!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ucantouchdis'Snowshoe....... Because this is a sex site. ...and here we were thinking it was a meeting site. It's this mentality by men and their attitude "Well here I am, I'm telling all these women i'll have sex with them but why arent they responding?'' Manners and etiquette seem to be lost or forgotten by a lot of members. What you say in a message to another member is still communicating to another human being. So again I disagree with you Snowshoe... Snowshoe..... He might, but unless he was gorgeous and/or hung to the knees, he'd likely get knocked back. The primary purpose of a bar is to serve alcohol though, not to facilitate sex. Wheather on this site or in a bar your character will be judged by your initial words. Heres an example of many emails we ignore.... "hey sexy,Luevd your profile...luved it .....cant get my eyes of you...here is my email [email protected] let me know. .... liitle bit abt me... i am 6ft tall tanned musculer body hispanic born.... let me know if you up for fun...."Facebook is a meeting site. On RHP we're asked to disclose information about our penis size, breast size and sexual fetishes - the purpose is unmistakeably sex. I met a lovely RHP member this week and I assure you, it wasn't because we have a shared interest in crochet. (Well, we might, but if so, it's one of the few things we didn't talk about.) As for manners and etiquette, I issue an open challenge to anyone to speak up if they feel that I've ever sent them an inappropriate message. Communication is a tool that the canny employ to their advantage.The messages that you ignore are no concern of mine. For starters, that doesn't sound that inappropriate and even if it is, it's not my style - I like to think that I try a little harder than that. If your issue is with the spelling mistakes, I'm not going to kick anyone for that. Although I try my best with grammar and spelling, I don't regard it as a deal breaker if I get a message with mistakes, nor would I expect to be rejected for the occasional typo of my own. It's horses for courses - of course we behave differently in a bar, just as we behave differently in a library.
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RHP User
15 years ago
As Homer J Simpson would say 'JEBUS'!!! This thread was not a whinge, a rant or anything except the musings of an idle mind that was bored stupid in a very long and tedious meeting. Believe me, if this was a rank, it would have been titled as such and there would have been no doubt about it! Some people look far too deeply into things here (and YES that was a very mild rant) Mooka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Meeting for what purose? Well I guess it would be the same purpose you'd meet a someone on facebook or in a bar is it not? As far as disclosing sexual interests or fetishes I believe it is allowed on Facebook. Disclosing the same information on RHP is not a requirement, it's optional. I have searched the web and nowhere does it state RHP '' the sex site.'' It is called Adult Dating Site. You're getting a lil side tracked here Snowshoe, Mooka pointed out some members rudeness with which I agree. You believe it is appropriate on this site I take it? I have no interest in your spelling mistakes or conquests and you're damn right, who I ignore is my option not yours. Now a little quiz for you Snowcone.... You deemed the message I used as an example as not inappropriate? Now just for a second I want you to pretend that you're actually in a relationship, even married to someone you love. Now..... Think really hard, read the message again and then tell me why it might be inappropriate.
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RHP User
15 years ago
You know Mooka and Mr Midnight, while doing my degree I had to learn how to do presentations so that I did not bore my subjects (Opps, students). I have also been to some absolutely amazing powerpoint presentations. Many of them in Economics which is usually major yawn factor. Dont blame the powerppoints, blame the presenters Mr Midnight. I am 100% sure I could make you sit up and take notice of any corporate lecture I did, including powerpoints. As for the rest of you, RHP cuts straight to the chase, if you dont like being approached for sex...stay off a sex site! Tooooo easy.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ucantouchdis' Meeting for what purose? Well I guess it would be the same purpose you'd meet a someone on facebook or in a bar is it not?Now a little quiz for you Snowcone.... You deemed the message I used as an example as not inappropriate? Now just for a second I want you to pretend that you're actually in a relationship, even married to someone you love. Now..... Think really hard, read the message again and then tell me why it might be inappropriate. Perhaps you use Facebook for the same purpose you use RHP - that is of course your prerogative. Personally, I use them for very different reasons - I wouldn't want my parents, daughter and friends to know things that I share here in a more closed environment.Snowcone? Is that intended to be derogatory? I've seen that twice in the past few days from people whose opinion I didn't share. I'm just curious, it doesn't really matter...I thought really hard about the appropriateness of the message when I responded last time, so I'm afraid I've already failed your quiz. Perhaps I'm missing something - from reading your "We Are Looking For" section, it seems like a reasonable, albeit somewhat inarticulate message. It would be better if you just explain why you feel that it's inappropriate than asking me to guess.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well Snowshoe where do I begin.... 1... Yes wait for it, some people who meet on Facebook do have sex, and it gets worse ...people who meet in bars, god forbid, sometimes have sex. I don't know what the world is coming to. 2...Snowcone was a typo, my apologies, if i was to be derogatory I would of said something like you're head is shaped like a snowcone, but I wouldnt do that. 3...Now it's completely beyond your comprehension what is wrong with that message isnt it, firstly i'd suggest you ask any couple on here and they'll give you the correct answer. Let's refresh your memory...... "hey sexy,Luevd your profile...luved it .....cant get my eyes of you...here is my email [email protected] let me know. .... liitle bit abt me... i am 6ft tall tanned musculer body hispanic born.... let me know if you up for fun...." Isn't this message completely disregarding the husband, is the sender assuming he does not need to talk to the husband. Now a few questions for you snowshoe. Do you think because a woman is on this site she should accept invitations from all men? If a woman has a nude photo in her profile or even if she states she enjoys sex she should be asked for sex upfront. Because she has a sexy photo does it make her easy? Any and all gestures from men on this site should be tolerated? Enough of your crap, stick to the point Mooka was making about rudeness. Your argument is that it should be allowed because, as you say, THIS IS A SEX SITE
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RHP User
15 years ago
people making long replies where the quoted material is very important cannot figure out quote things properly so that their posts don't require backtracking so you can understand who said what, and which is a reply to what. (posting from phones/ipads/similar I get it, they frequently seem to screw up the formatting)Quoting 'ucantouchdis'Now a little quiz for you Snowcone.... You deemed the message I used as an example as not inappropriate? Now just for a second I want you to pretend that you're actually in a relationship, even married to someone you love. Now..... Think really hard, read the message again and then tell me why it might be inappropriate. I have to say I'm struggling with that message you gave as an example - you expressly list that you're after single guys for threesomes. The guy who sent that message hasn't written a carefully crafted piece of prose, but I woulnd't count calling someone sexy, and asking if they're up for fun in the same category as "oi, you! wanna root?!" type messages. I fail to see what being married to someone you love has to do with it - you're after people for a threesome - so unless the guy specifically was only after you alone and not in a group I don't see the issue
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tank__girl
15 years ago
6th, tanned, mmmmmuscular? Apart from saying that which is probably in his profile anyway, it was a glowing message compared to some of the three word messages I receive. Poor guy. Feel free to fill in the blanks, and I'll sort him out for being so out of line...........?! And Mooka... Hiiiii! Nice to see you again..x. It must indeed shit men to tears having to pay for 'this' and for it to frustrate you so much..I hear it over and over again. From ALL sorts of men, including what '280' would call 'Ken Dolls'. It's just women, they're full of shit!! Lol... Jokesssss girls. Well, some are!? Not that I feel I deserve a reply, obviously not allll girls will be attracted to me.. But, am a little over these new girls 'only looking girls' too! I totally understand the 'getting bombarded' with attention and fan mail by an array of single men part. But, if you say you're there looking to meet only girls etc. 'Why' have all single men as your friends etc.. Look at my profile, read the flirt and not reply? You don't 'have' to accept those 'pesky' single men you tell us you dislike so much. It happens all the time...is it just me...maybe I need to cull my profile that resembles one off Facebook? Or maybe. But no one reads that anyway, especially these people. At least that's where I stop. I may ramble on at times about 'non sex related stuff', but at least I do reply to messages (ahh most..not intentionally!) I meet real people, not just see how many of them i can add to my friends list. Maybe just time to stick the the older, or just more mature ladies....with validations, from other ladies, or join a lesbian site?? OR..........if you are a genuine female on this site, living near Me....say hello!! And I can message you ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
PMSL have just finished reading all the comments and wow some people will argue about anything lol Mooka you stirred a small hornets nest lol but oh well it has been entertainingHave a gr8 day/week/year everyone and remember censorship should be left up to the individual (if ya don't like dont look or read heheheCheers Ps maybe all profiles should be verified mmmmm food for thought
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