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Why do men dump women after one root?

January 04 2010

sex

I bought a new set of leathers today. It's the usual thing... full of armour, but it has kevlar strips and stretch so the pants fit better, everything fits better... a bit body hugging.. but I'm improving that situation down at the gym.. lmfao. If you hear the unmistaleable sound of a Triumph Street Triple whisting passed you and the guy is wearing what looks like a latex skin suit similar to what Thorpy would wear in a 1500m freestyle event, plus maybe a black cape and a red Shoi helmet... then that will be me :p, so give me a wave and eat my dust!   We all have armour. Sometimes I take a risk and I ride without it... but not very often and also I choose my paths carefully. That is of course a metaphore. My armour is my sense of humour. This amourous clown face protects me from all evil and I smile in the face of adversity, in lieu of any fear. :p This is a part of the multi-faceted character that is Stalky. We all subconsciously built walls of protection, sometimes very subtle, sometimes bleedingly obvious, that conceal our true emotions and protect our egos and self esteem, all as part of social conditioning. So within each of us buried deep in our psyche  there is perhaps a little snippet.. that little voice within...  err... schizophrenic voice... niggling away that makes us reticent or forceful in a given situation... for others it is a booming voice, lmfao wooohoo ... and some of us just dwell on the edge of sanity at times.... let's just put it like that.   So how do you really get to know a person wearing all this armour? Guys are smothered in armour. We keep our emotions locked away and protect our testicles from the errant kicks of wild, wild women!   How do you undress a man's armour plating? Getting a person drunk doesn't do it. People exaggerate when they are pissed. Getting a person angry works a treat. The Courts have used that technique for years to try to get at the truth... but you dont want to make your potential lover angry. How do you undress him/her?   I think you need to get the sex out of the way early. Men obviously understand this. My wife knows that if she wants to find out a secret she has to fuck me first. Have sex some of the armour falls away... those last intimate moments during and following intercourse... you can ask a person just about anything and a man will purr like a cat falling asleep at your bussom.   So Ladies, next time you are wondering why men chase you, fuck you and then you never hear from them again.. it's because he has stripped you of your armour and has worked out by those last intimate moments that your true character is not really for him. I mean, really, you should try this, ladies. To find out if you really like the man, root him first and ask questions later.   Comments... Discussions... ... Dressing downs please form a que to the right.   Hugs Stalky<<<< brushes evil twin off left shoulder

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Great post Stalky. You're awesome mate!! I read your comments on the Coogee Bay Hotel the other night and I reckon we probably frequented the place at around the same time. We probably even shared the trough together (I hope you didn't look sideways). It’s a shame I didn't know you... a few beers with you would have been hilarious...   But anyway, onto the topic.   I have a view on this topic that most (especially the ladies) will disagree with. I've arrived at this view due to my own personal experiences, and have actually written about it in another forum - so apologies to those who are reading it again. And apologies in advance for hitting the nerve I’m about to hit... haha.   For me, the reason guys shag women then pretend to be asleep until they've left the bedroom (hopefully never to return), is that women have made it so EASY for us! Women all have the same role models and aspire to be the same people. They watch shows like The OC, Desperate Housewives, Sex in the City etc... and model their own lives and personalities on the characters therein. They all dress the same, have the same artificial personalities, have the same iPhone, have same music on their iPod, have the same self-diagnosed food allergies and intolerances.... etc... etc.... I think you get the drift. It's not just the teenagers either ladies... haha.   With them all being the same these days, it makes it easy for men to "crack" them. We only need a few carefully constructed "win-on" lines that work on them all at any age, and at any club or pub. The same lines or methods will work on them all!! It's bloody great!! Actually no, it’s getting boring. That’s why we join sites like this one – for a challenge. But sadly, it’s more of the same. Lol.   My point is this...  if you ladies have made it so easy for us, why would we stop at you when we can bed as many as we like??  haha. Funny because it's true.   If you want us to call you, see you again, or, God forbid, enter a relationship with you, give yourself a point of difference. Surprise us with something fresh about you that wasn't manufactured in an American Soap Opera. Haha. "Coming from Ridge Forester" you say? Why do I have him as my alias? Because he's a fictional character that the ladies adore. That's why. And since so many ladies live in a fictitious world, why not hop in there with them from time to time... It gets me laid ;)   OOOUUUUUCHHHHHH!!!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Congrats Stalky for attracting the admiring comments and agreement of our own self-described one dimensional soap opera character who likes to stir and create a bit of debate....   I've recently realized that a lot of people on here don't mean a lot of what they write... so I'm taking this with a pinch of salt... while actually agreeing with some of it, in reverse... I've definitely found myself in the "oh god... when is he leaving??...stop touching me and just go!!!" situation  lol :P   Well done Stalky... how's that reincarnation as Whitehawk II working out for you? You're a tease.... lol :P

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Your whole post is actually pretty much what I think about most single guys out there that I meet in "real life".... they are all carbon copies of one another...so it does work both ways lol   It's true.... I love it when I unexpectedly meet a guy who surprises me... a good time party boy recently suprised me with hidden depths and... wow... he rocked my socks off :P lol

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I don't watch 'The OC', 'Desparate Housewives', 'Sex in the City' etc!I do love 'Roseanne', that incredibly incorrect woman who I also can't imagine watching the shows you mentioned.'Judge Judy', Lie To Me and House... I have a thing for seeing assholes get their's, liars being exposed, solving mysteries and understanding body language.Mr P' tends to choose the movies cos he cares more than I do, you know particular, but that's ok because I'm pretty easy going in that area most of the time. And those 1 liners... make me laugh... I think you'll find I've got a couple more years on you bebe... and that's not all. Still it's nice to hear some of the fellas on this site are getting laid... but if it's at all like that 'all' reference of yours... hmmm. Hasta la vista, baby! Mrs P' >>> not 2 b sucked in again

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'sophie_74' I've recently realized that a lot of people on here don't mean a lot of what they write... so I'm taking this with a pinch of salt...Please feel free to join the queue... I made that point months ago but no one listened to me... Hugs! Deb

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    That's all right... I don't know till after I f**k them if I really want to get to know them any better... Yep, still me... Mrs P'

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    and something i hadn't considered...thank you stalky, ridge and sophie for some more to think about when i am driving...ooh la la trish...i am still waiting for you to tell me which library?...ya such a bad girl...sniff...but something to consider...especially you ridge....i was once invited to a nice ladies house...and i asked her would she like to go out for dinner first...and her comment was...quote "i'll fuck you first...THEN i'll decide if i want to have dinner with you..."...!!!nice sentiments...and i doubt that you'll believe me...i said thanks, but no thanks....cheersjose...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I think this applies to both men and women due to generally adopting what the media (tv, magazines, internet etc) is currently pushing. Brainwashing can be easily achieved through this medium. I also find it increasing difficult to meet people who are not part of this clan.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I feel a bit bad now hehe... like we (PeachypearWeR) don't spend weeks getting to know fellas and then take time to meet for a drink before maybe meeting again to check out their prowess, ya know ;-) I definitely would love to be offered dinner first! But could we make it home delivery... please? Hehe hugs... Mrs P'

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Queen Scheherazade who told stories to King Shahryār over 'a thousand and one nights'. The king was pissed off by his wife's infidelity, so he has her executed. Believing all women to be unfaithful, he marries all the virgins within his domain, deflowers them and then executing each one the next morning. The final virgin in town is Scheherazade, who is keen to keep her head, so entertains the king with a variety of stories, many sexual in nature, with one story merging into the other. The king keeps postponing her execution to learn the end of the story, but so inventive is Scheherazade that she keeps this going for 1001 nights, until finally he relents and they live happily ever after. English explorer Sir Richard Burton (1821-1890), who was a fan of erotic literature, translated these stories along with other scripts such as the Karma Sutra.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I believe there was another lady who kept her man till death did they part after holding his attention with the 'Story of O' read to him over many nights as she wrote the book that has now become a cult classic  with movies made in it's name. Hugs... Mrs P'

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Sadly O never married her Sir, not did the author, though she obviously had a fruitful sex life with her married male friend, who inspired her to write the story. Of course the story has more than one outcome. But it is true that she used the story to hold his attention when he was likely to stray from her arms. The Scheherazade stories shows you how rich the Persian and indian cultures were in those very early days, though some of their practices where somewhat cruel. Hindu wives throwing themselves on their husband's funeral pyre, should they outlive him. Nor would it have been fun being one of the untouchables. But then the early Europeans were pretty barbaric in those days... raping and pillaging. Even the more civilised Rome was not always a bed of roses... particularly the rein of the insane Caligula. Lots of sexual perversity then. Scheherazade's Arabian tales include the still popular Aladdin's Wonderful Lamp, Ali Baba and the Forty Thieves and The Seven Voyages of Sinbad the Sailor.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    was a much better example to use considering the 1 strike scenario lol! I have a sentimental feeling for the 1001 tales, I'm sure I had a child's version of it when I was a youngster. Funny, there I'm sure is another example of what is considered politically incorrect for our kids these days.Mmmph... really rather ironic from my point of the view. Those making the laws no better a parent than any of the rest of us.Excuse my dose of bitterness... Hugs Deb

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    lol Sophir.. Whitehawk and I acually agree on plenty of stuff... for instance neither of us like Ken Dolls... I'm much prefer a 6'3" GI Joe kind of guy. :p   Hugs Stalky Boy

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I go away for a coule of weeks and Garry turns to stalky, with a whitehawk lemon twist...man, I'm never going on holiday again!   TREV <<< thinks he might be one of those dime a dozen guys--whateva !

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Dont think bad of yourself, Trev. Maybe you just need to take more leave.   HUgs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    You could never be dime a dozen, babe.... not with your fingers on such a hot sexy girl... most single guys I know can but dream of such delights :P lol.....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Awwwhh Soph.. married men can dream too. :p   Hugs Stalky