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Who's Kissing?
April 17 2009
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RHP User
17 years ago
I think each to their own, if they dont want to kiss, thats their decision. We all have our boundaries and to how far we will go with another couple. I think what they choose to do or not to do is up to them and they should be respected for that. shy
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RHP User
17 years ago
A girl I was playing with for a bit had the rule of no kissing. At first I thought it was just a flow on effect from Pretty Woman 'cos you know, prostitutes don't kiss because it's too personal...' LOL! But it turns out she had a real complex about any fluid exchange. So protected oral was totally fine by her. She quite often would kiss me in the moment tho and then realise and apologise. LOL. I didn't mind at all! It feels kind of weird not kissing when having sex for me, but you get used to it, and I respect other people's rules even if I don't quite understand them.
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playfulhorse
17 years ago
it is so much less intimate without kissing
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RHP User
17 years ago
It is very interesting... We like to keep the kissing between ourselves, and the girls only... Funny as it seems...It feels ok for the girls to kiss! I would not like to see my hubby kissing another girl, nor would he like to see me kissing another guy... But oral sex is fine... and girl on girl kissing falls in that catagory also... Hmmmmm... Strange but true!! lol We dont see giving oral sex as being more intimate... Its just sex! But kissing another member of the opposite sex is personal. We know alot of couples who feel the same way. XXX
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RHP User
17 years ago
We think there are different forms of kissing... Standard kissing is fine....but tongue kissing where the tongue is placed into the mouth as far as it can go...no way. Considerate couples playing should be testing and react to the reaction. It should be tested with respect....same as we have experianced a guy recieving oral then forces down your throat.... Bite it!
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RHP User
17 years ago
hotnluv -here here, thats us to a tee!
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RHP User
17 years ago
I really don't get revved up unless I'm kissing something. Ear lobes are one of my favourite locations. Men's armpits when I'm feeling extraordinarily raunchy lol... but kissing.. lip nibbling... licking... snuggling... I'm just not horny unless there's some o' that.
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RHP User
17 years ago
We both love to kiss and I love to watch her kiss either male or female I find it very erotic. We both however go with the flow, if the other person does not want to kiss then so be it. We think that kissing is a very sensual part of love making.
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RHP User
17 years ago
without kissing we find it a little hard to get excited about it all. Not to say it doesn't happen eventually, but it makes the whole experience a hell of a lot more enjoyable if you can really get into it, and you do that by kissing!
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RHP User
17 years ago
i rather like kissing both sets of lips :)
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RHP User
17 years ago
I see kissing as a far more intimate thing than oral sex.... anyone can stick a cock in their gob, but kissing is an art, intimate, sensual and sometimes people only want to share that with their partners. But each to their own... respect everyones boundaries and ya can't go wrong :)
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RHP User
17 years ago
hotnluv, you hit the nail on the head. I (she) feel probably more so than he, that kissing is far more intimate than anything else. If I saw my partner kissing another girl, then that would be it for me I'm afraid. but .. to each their own and respecting others boundaries too. :)
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RHP User
17 years ago
There is nothing more of a turn on than passionate kissing. We get off on watching each other in a pash session with some one else, whether it be in the bedroom or out in the evenings. Its a big part of the overall picture for us and we loose interest if the other parties are not into kissing. Each to their own I guess.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Deep sensuous kissing really gets me in the mood...........its all part of the foreplay. I am happy to see my partner kissing another girl as long as I can kiss her too !!! As long as people are clear and up front it should be OK. Having said that, I would find it hard not to kiss people I was playing with
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RHP User
17 years ago
Its such an individual thing, i've had some situations where kissing is a big part of the interaction and some where oral is more enticing. It really depends on mood and what feels right at the time, Its all intimate to me!
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RHP User
17 years ago
Thank you for your input into this topic. Respecting everyone’s boundaries is obviously the #1 rule in all that we do when playing. We have learnt to ask more questions straight up to avoid any uncomfortable situations. When we kiss another person we kiss them the same way we kiss each other, because that's the way we kiss. My kissing technique is part of my personality so although from the outside I look like I'm kissing other people identically to my husband, I'm not. The difference is that it doesn't have the emotional connection behind it that we have with each other. It's about enjoying the physical whilst not getting caught up in the emotional side of sex. Not sure if I've explained this in the clearest way but it makes sense to us. Cheers.
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WhispersAndMoans
16 years ago
For us it is highly likely that it will only be her kissing an outside partner (never say never) but we can't imagine a hot sex session wihtout some kissing.... it is part of the foreplay, the play and the after play.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Love to kiss but it must be mutual as not everyone likes it. Must say I enjoy some good cum kissing after I have been blown too! Or cum kiss her after she has blown hubby! Very erotic!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Its part of foreplay ( does everyone just bonk now)Its an essential part of getting things rolling.Without kissing there is no intamacy and I can tell you it is the best sensual way of arousing your partner...
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RHP User
16 years ago
kissing is a sign of affection blow jobs are blow jobs sex doesnt mean you have to even like the person but when you kiss them well thats different in know its a strange comment to make but kissing is far more interment
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah i'd have to say the same, i love kissing!!! but when playtime is happening, I'm more of a body muncher, i love kissing the neck but usually stay away from lips..but thats with random sexy men but my playmates, we kiss all the time..
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have to like the person I am kissing or blowing for that matter....otherwise I'd be charging you for the pleasure!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I (Mrs) just LOVE to kiss passionately. There is nothing more sensual and exciting than a good kisser.
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RHP User
16 years ago
we won't kiss ... only girl on girl ... just a rule we have its nothing against anyone but the rule is we will fuck etc other but not kiss them
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RHP User
16 years ago
I just love kissing both sets of lips when i am with a couple. I think it is one of the important parts of being together. Gets me roused up i gotto say.
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RHP User
16 years ago
For us to feel that delicious chemistry with another couple, it is vital that they both be soft sensuous considerate kissers. That needs both passion and beautiful kissing lips (full & soft). So much about a person's personality can be ascertained from a single kiss. Are they gentle, passionate, warm... or rough, lacking manners, and impossible to guide ? Compatibility can be determined in moments. As non-smokers, that also generally limits our compatibility to other non-smokers. We try as best as we can to keep to a rule we have set ourselves... a couple must first pass the "taste test" before we decide whether to take it to the bedroom. Better to have a pash, then figure out things just wouldn't work, than leaving it till later when things have progressed to the bedroom and the stakes are higher. It's an odd thing, when you think about it, that it's probably easier at a party to ask a couple whether they want to play, than whether they would kiss us. For us, kissing is a vital and delightful ingredient to this adventure.
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RHP User
16 years ago
We both have to kiss...it just adds to the whole sensuality of the experience, and revs us both up. I love seeing Mr kissing another lady, and likewise, he loves seeing me kissing another man. Kissing is a major turn on....bring it on!
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kassmebits
16 years ago
If I cant Kiss I wont play, my simple rule!
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RHP User
16 years ago
i find kissing is really personal, so unless i have feelings for the person i'm not inclined to kiss them, but oral sex is fine. i guess it's the exchange of bodily fluids that does it for me
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RHP User
16 years ago
We're yet to meet a couple that would refuse kissing ... maybe we just were lucky all this time. :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
we feel kissing on the lips is very personal. we have a no kissing on the lips rule, i can kiss girls, yes i know double standards, but thats what we have talked about and feel comfie with. kissing anywhere else is fine. xxx Mrs Bal
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RHP User
16 years ago
When Andy and I started playing it took me a while to be comfortable with seeing him kissing someone else. I used to freak out in general if I saw him do anything I liked, that I thought was special. However....I like kissing and I would find it very difficult to get in the mood if i could not do something as simple as kiss the person I am playing with. Andy and I talked about how it made me feel. He reassured me I need not worry, and really I knew that already, it was just new. I never thought of banning kissing, I just realised I needed to get over it as we both agreed that being able to kiss was important to us. Andy was great though, this is what we did (his suggestion), He would always kiss me first, before he kissed the other woman, he would always come back to me for a kiss during play.....overtime I relaxed and now it is cool and we love comparing what we each thought someones kissing was like and comment on what compatible kisses we are. xx Sal
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getmemoreandmore
16 years ago
It really depends.. seems like most have some form of double standard. And thats really cool, at least you all know where you all stand and what works and what doesn't. for us, kissing HAS to be part of it, otherwise its hard to find the real passion for hot sex.
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RHP User
16 years ago
we dont really kiss any one but each other, for me its simple, im an air hog i dont like someone else breathing in my air! as well as that the bacteria in another persons mouth is more potent than licking a toilet seat, no kidding, i dont like to be that close to someone elses face if im not really really into them. I (em) really dont lilke him kissing others asthats the one thing with us i define as mine, they are my kiss and he doesnt like me kissing others as a)not clean b)his lips to kiss and c)to intimate.
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RHP User
16 years ago
we have talked last night about kissing.. we realise that its not personal kissing on the lips with other couple.. but with single guy or girl well we dont think we will as due to past experince we ahd where the person has felling for one of us
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RHP User
16 years ago
We love kissing and have no problems with it in a swinging scenario. However we have met people for play dates who obviously weren't comfortable with it, yet instead of mentioning it when they asked us if we had any rules. they chose to let us find out the slightly awkward way . We have no problems with peoples limits...just would have appreciated a heads-up lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Angel and I love kissing. In fact it's what we do most of the time when together. We just love it, and find it so intense, erotic and intimate. Personally I (Mad) need it, and can't just get into the whole sex thing without a good pash to get the fire going.
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