Where are the manners?

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  RHP User

  2 years ago

  Maybe for a start have a photo or are you hiding from somebody

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  FeistyFatty

  2 years ago

  As above. I also always respond with a thanks, no thanks not what I seek and usually block immediately. Only because the majority men can't accept this response and carry in like pork chops.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  2 years ago

  It's either, IGNORE or CHAT. In most cases if we reply with "CHAT", with a no thanks, it's left ourselves open for vulnerability: I'm not prepared to place myself in that position especially with a profile with No profile pic, so it's an instant BLOCK. Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  2 years ago

  Turns out my main photo was removed. Even though I could see it as a preview and it was working for me. Could not understand why you was saying i had no photo.

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  RHP User

  2 years ago

  Unfortunately, even if you respond with a Thank you but no thank you message, most guys then start a barrage of abuse and it becomes tiresome. A lot of the time they dont read your profile so people you are not looking for will send messages. Some women find it easier to block than to face a nasty reply.

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  This_couple

  2 years ago

  We will usually either give a no thanks, or just let the conversation die out. That is unless the person messaging us has disregarded what we've said in our profile. We shouldn't need to say no thank you again if we've already put it in out profile.

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  RHP User

  2 years ago

  Being blocked or not answered is a no. Its closure. You’re seeking a binary out come of interest or no interest right? I don’t see why you need a response to clarify the lack of interest, logically speaking. The game won’t change for you. You have to adapt to the game.

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  Obi1kenietzsche

  2 years ago

  Where are the manners? On Manus Island I think. 🤔

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  RHP User

  2 years ago

  Because men have turned violent towards me when I say no. I get called a fat ugly cow just for saying no. Id rather not risk it

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  loveYOURpleasure

  2 years ago

  I get where you are coming from, and in a normal societal situation yes you might anticipate a short reply. The thing is people - not all but evidently many - don’t act here as they would in ‘normal’ society. My simple advice is don’t take it personally, because if you are being polite and respectful it’s likely not personal (aside from not being interested). It’s just practical and as women have mentioned a mitigation against the risk of retaliation. It will do your head in if you take it as a reflection on you. No answer, or being blocked, is simply a straightforward No thanks.

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  RHP User

  2 years ago

  Why? Because so many men seem to be desperately insecure. If you politely decline guys will either abuse you, argue with you (Why aren’t you interested? Give me chance I can 100% guaranteed make you squirt 😆), or instantly ‘I blocked you first!’.

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  jetset05

  2 years ago

  Unfortunately some men get upset/rude towards me after I've said no. So I'm just blocking now especially if they haven't read our profile.

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  RHP User

  2 years ago

  I hear that. Even a non reply is better than being blocked lol. I had someone send me a friend request the other day, her name was "mocha##", never spoken to her before, so thought I'd send her a message as I didn't feel right accepting a friend request having never spoken to her, and just got blocked instead of getting a reply. No idea wtf happened 😂😂

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  WaChick

  2 years ago

  I like the chair photo 😉😘

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  RHP User

  2 years ago

  Ive not read through the comments but… Assuming you messaged a real profile (sooooo many are not),…… if they blocked you, they helped you with the screening process and you no longer need to give them any thought. They owe you nothing. Walk on

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  New2Tasman

  2 years ago

  I get that. I dont message everyone. Only people who catch my eye for a specific reason and I always write polite friendly original messages mentioning what interests me, I put thought and effort in and it does leave me feeling slightly vulnerable, so it is disappointing to get no reply or blocked. A simple thanks but no is polite and takes a few seconds.... Ok I have had my whinge im all better now.:)

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