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When No means Maybe.

May 15 2010

Is it ever ok to push the boundary beyond that initial no, to see if we can up the anti in our favour? I'm talking sexually here of course. Do men and or, women, see that initial no as some kind of challenge and a challenge they should rise to by coaxing or continuing on in the behaviour they were asked to stop in the first place? Before you all start howling at me that it's a sex site and people here are for sex etc etc, I am sure all of us, even in this pursuit, have found ourselves faced with sexual conduct we have not been comfortable with..whether it be an overly rough technique or going for arse when anal is not our thing etc etc.

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RHP User

16 years ago

I have no problem accepting a negative response, as disappointing as that may be at the time. Cheers Nev

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RHP User

16 years ago

Many women give men what's referred to as a 'shit test', Google it. Once you demonstrate to a woman that she can manipulate you, she loses all sexual attraction for you and designates you as a PAWN. You MUST retain control and be the MAN. The woman knows that she cannot sleep with every guy and her high demand provides her with options in what type of mate she should have in her life. After years of being hit on, occasionally being duped by guys who turn out to be douche bags, she has developed a strategy to weed out those “not worthy”. This sets the stage for what we call the shit testr. When she is giving you a shit test, she is challenging your value by asking the questions: Will I break his frame and make him come into my world Will he give up right way or keep pushing Can I control him with my beauty. A man who “fails” her shit test is not worthy of further interactions. I was brought up in the No means No era and stopped making moves the moment I heard 'no' - ended up home alone many times because of it. I think women should say alternative words and smart responses like - maybe, if you play your cards right but that's just me. s

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RHP User

16 years ago

Friid, No is always no i guess, but wet the pussy is wet and the cock is hard, sometimes yes is just around the corner !

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RHP User

16 years ago

MMM i am up the street

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RHP User

16 years ago

Quoting 'jas_purr' Many women give men what's referred to as a 'shit test', Google it. Once you demonstrate to a woman that she can manipulate you, she loses all sexual attraction for you and designates you as a PAWN. You MUST retain control and be the MAN. The woman knows that she cannot sleep with every guy and her high demand provides her with options in what type of mate she should have in her life. After years of being hit on, occasionally being duped by guys who turn out to be douche bags, she has developed a strategy to weed out those “not worthy”. This sets the stage for what we call the shit testr. When she is giving you a shit test, she is challenging your value by asking the questions: Will I break his frame and make him come into my world Will he give up right way or keep pushing Can I control him with my beauty. A man who “fails” her shit test is not worthy of further interactions. I was brought up in the No means No era and stopped making moves the moment I heard 'no' - ended up home alone many times because of it. I think women should say alternative words and smart responses like - maybe, if you play your cards right but that's just me. s very true!

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RHP User

16 years ago

when said without a smile.No with a smile means.....convince me.JMO...BJxxx

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