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When Couples Remove Validations After You’ve Played…

July 02 2026

You meet a couple, have a great time together, everyone seems to enjoy themselves, and you part on good terms. Then, sometime later, you notice they’ve removed your validation without ever saying anything to you. Has this happened to you? If you’ve been on either side of this, what was the reason? Did something change after the meet, or was it simply something else? Interested to hear people’s experiences and perspectives.

Comments

  • Evo6717

    Evo6717

    23 hours ago

    Was it there first time?

  • Felicitous

    Felicitous

    18 hours ago

    Personally.. the longer we have been on here.. the more validations give us the ick. Even though in the beginning - I found them a very helpful tool for sifting potential partners and enjoyed writing and receiving them. Might be more about them than you. Try not to take it personally. In the past i've deleted validations and had one person remove mine. I deleted mine because I felt I out grew some connections and parts of myself in that process. That person that deleted mine said they didn't want others comparing past lovers. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I would definitely make judgements about suitability of profiles based on their friends and how they wrote in their validations.. so it's understandable people can tailor their list to alight with such things. Could simply be they don't want too many because that's a 'thing' so cull their list. V

  • Nightglider

    Nightglider

    12 hours ago

    I’ve removed a couple of validations in the past, both sent and received. It has been with people who have shown a different side of themselves post play, where I have decided I don’t wish to be associated with them, or promote them in any way. It’s rare but it happens.

  • selfless__lover

    selfless__lover

    3 hours ago

    Validations have an expiry date in my opinion and after a period of say 2-3 years they aren't relevant anymore. Always reminds me of a fish and chip shop in Seafood that has a sign right across its front windows "Fox FM's best fish and chips in Melbourne" and then when you look closer it says 1997 🤣