What's it really like?

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Ageist!!! lol who says we gents in our 40s and beyond aren't 'consumed'?! I just know not to chase it with my tongue hanging out like a starved dog lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  The point I'm really interested in is the in-control version you describe vs the out-of-control version so often attributed to young men. I'm curious about how they experience the out-of-control nature of the desire for sex. Perhaps you could comment on that from when you were a younger man. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Dryphuz

  12 years ago

  Now i'm older i want it 3-4 times a day, but i recognize the difficulties in achieving this due to other concerns. Although of course given the opportunity i will go much more than 4... There was an 8-9 not that long ago... With pancakes... Hmmm...

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  Smilingwithfun

  12 years ago

  As I have got older its that you learn to control. Yes when younger it did drive one. I look now when I go out & see how some young blokes are & think gee I was acted like that. Not saying its bad just it happens. You think about yourself rather than consequences. Now I think about how I will feel about what I done when morning comes rather than just coming & the morning is a long time off.

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  madotara69

  12 years ago

  Has something too do with the phenomenon with thinking about sex every 7 seconds, then it just becomes a habit Follow the white rabbit

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Unwanted erections, breaking out into sudden sweats, just feeling irritable, restless, angry, and no way to vent. Feeling shame over every thought that came up and every sideways glance you took. I was so frustrated as a teenager, especially since I came from a low income family (I remember finding time just to jerk off in peace was hard) and was so hopeless with girls. I never felt comfortable talking about it with other people and so it was turned inward - I became critical of everything I did, felt useless, and fell into a deep spiral of depression. Exercise was the only thing that really helped with both the depression and the sexual energy but after people started to notice I was excelling in different sports it just lead to more exposure I couldn't deal with, the cycle kept going on and on. This was what 'consumed' was for me. I'm still horny (just a little less than before) and able to deal with it. It can be controlled (the idea of hurting someone to sate my desires horrifies me) but at times you do feel like a pitbull on a leash - bred to hunt, raised not to - and the problem is getting sex usually makes you want more. I've never hurt anyone physically (emotionally? Probably, I've had to turn down or break up with women who've had low libidos) and don't have any regrets. This response may seem blunt but it's honest, and things are much better compared to 10 years ago.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Awesome post, thanks for the honesty. Some of what you said I've heard before, expressed a little differently but same same, really. - Posted from rhpmobile

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