M40
What woman what!!!!
January 12 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
When reading a profile or a message, 1. point of difference. 2. personality. 3. honesty. 4. self pride/worth. 5. respect and manners. 6. humour. 7. single, married etc. 8. looks..(cos i like lips, eyes and good teeth) hehe 9. their age, gender, and what they're into. 10. and how well they can string a few words together. It may not be in this particular order, but its what I look for. It gets a bit boring when reading so many profiles stating that "they" are the best at certain sexual activities etc etc. To me, a persons sexual desires doesn't even need to be displayed, sometimes the mystery adds to the curiosity.... .... and after exchanging a few msgs, you start to get a feel for who they are, what they're about, and what they're after. This can go a few ways.. ......... My advise would be "just be yourself"... "and dont lie"... cos it all comes out in the wash and you just look like a fool.. - Maple -
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RHP User
16 years ago
Trish said it all ! In addition: Good communication and intelligence works for me ! I'm attracted to guys who post in the forums as it indicates (a) they have a reasonable grasp of English and (b) they like to express themself. There are so many guys on here that trying to stand out takes effort. Sifting out the bland, generic profiles is easy. I always spend more time on the profiles with more substance and info about likes / dislikes (other than just sexually). Women may want sex but we also want to know the man behind the cock ! Cheers, Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
I spent a lot of time when I wrote my profile. I think it is a fair example of a good profile. Try to avoid using words like gud when you mean good and try to avoid a direct repeat like "if your keen..." If you open by say I am not really sure how....It soulnd like you lack confidence, just be open and honest in what you say. Have some fun a little chuckle goes a long way when people read profiles. Effort in the profile will get you results use a spelling check when you write it. Cut and paste it from word. 2 cents worth given LC
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RHP User
16 years ago
The majority of young girls on here don't seem to give a shit if you have a decent profile or not.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm not a woman, so I don't really know. But I'll give you some hints that have worked for me in the past... Have a big smile in your main pic, and have more than one pic in your gallery so they know the first one wasn't a fluke. DON'T be flexing your muscles in the bathroom mirror - even if you are "ripped up". That will make you look like a tool. Then, once you've heard the advice you'll receive on your profile's content from the ladies in this thread, spend some time building your profile. Believe me, judging by the ladies who have responded to your request so far, it's good advice that you can trust. They're great girls and they're very "RHP smart". Then, don't go and wreck your hard work by sending out stupid messages. Be nice and mention something about their profile in your message (so they know you've actually read the thing). Give them a reason to reply by asking questions or by writing something that you know will spark POSITIVE interest. KEEP IT CLEAN! Be cheeky, but not dirty or sarcastic. Don't make them feel like a dog is trying to hump their leg. And don't lie! haha. Good luck mate :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Guess that means intelligent young men who want quality should start chasing cougars, since we know what we want, and expect a bloke to reach certain standards, even if only in oral hygene.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'casually_casual'The majority of young girls on here don't seem to give a shit if you have a decent profile or not. Ok I have to say in this case and from my perspective you are sooooo wrong. A well written profile can make some people step out of all of their preferances show on their profiles. LC
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RHP User
16 years ago
Profiles with, I'll come back and update this later have us waiting for the update lolol.Profiles built using the profile builder have no individuality to attract us.We prefer to see a face pic in either of the galleries, no probs with dic pics but that's not what's gonna convince us to want to meet you hehe.Maples list sounds good to me other than that... Cheers... Mrs P'
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'LoveCurvie' Quoting 'casually_casual'The majority of young girls on here don't seem to give a shit if you have a decent profile or not. Ok I have to say in this case and from my perspective you are sooooo wrong. A well written profile can make some people step out of all of their preferances show on their profiles. LC But as I mentioned in the other thread, my profile was very well written and so, generally speaking, were my messages to people - I always tried to 'reach out' to the individual by referring to something in their profile and quite often got nothing back. So there's my perspective for you, where you are 'sooooo wrong'.I said the majority, not all of them and that's from MY experience of contacting them. You get more luck from the older women who tend to appreciate qualities like that more. I know one guy on here whose profile is a joke, two lines of text but he has a picture of his six pack and he gets action. Fair play to him, but it goes to show you how my perspective is somewhat correct.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Dude... Look at your picture. Do you think that may have anything to do with your lack of success?? A cartoon of a guy giving you the finger... Aye yai yai...
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RHP User
16 years ago
You're the second person to say that. Do you honestly think I would have used a picture like that if I was trying to meet people? No, don't be silly. I've only recently changed it to this picture.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just checking, Casual... haha
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'maplesyrup_42' To me, a persons sexual desires doesn't even need to be displayed, sometimes the mystery adds to the curiosity.... .... and after exchanging a few msgs, you start to get a feel for who they are, what they're about, and what they're after. If you do that, then you may as well be on a regular dating website, as opposed to a sex-focused website such as this one. I'm not saying you're doing this, but it's irritating when people on a sex site expect the same behavior as if they were on a regular dating website.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Frack_Me'Guess that means intelligent young men who want quality should start chasing cougars, since we know what we want, So you're a cougar, are you? At age 34? I thought the rules stated you had to be 40+ to qualify as a cougar.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Im not saying that none of that matters, just saying I for one dont judge a person soley for what they like in bed.. (or on the beach, the table,the roof or where ever else for that matter)... If the profile or first msg doesnt create some kind of interest for us then nothing in your sexual interests section is gunna change the outcome. And if you can't even get your foot in the door .. how the flip do ya think ya gunna get flipped??? hey?? Think outside the box!! hehe - Maple -
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RHP User
16 years ago
maeybe it shouldnt say im not fussy... cause hell i am
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ajaccio...maybe not by the truest definition...but I sure as hell get treated like one...the majority of guys I know are younger and they don't look at me for a relationship. I'm a root..a fucking good one, but only a root never the less. Maybe it's my attitude.... I havent found a man that worth me giving my real heart to.... so I keep it back for a rainy day....as for being on this site...I don't think you should pass judgement on why other people choose to be on sites such as these. I'm on regular dating sites and I have no luck with guys who supposedly want to find life partners...
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RHP User
16 years ago
love your work as always! I think you have summed up pretty perfectly what women like in profiles. Sure, some women are just interested in the pics, but I think the majority are want to see something of a guy's body, mind and spirit.lilmiss x
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