M42
What should be your first message
November 11 2017
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
You have been on here a year, and none of the greedy women, on here, are interested? Perhaps it’s your incomplete profile and your words “ I am genuine seeker of love and sex. No attachment please“ Perhaps it’s the bathroom mirror selfie. Perhaps it’s because single males, on here, outnumber the greedy single women 100 to 1 ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think your lack of responses is more to do with a lack of information in your profile than your first message. Try adding more photos and writing a better bio
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RHP User
8 years ago
on your profile is "I am a genuine seeker of love and sex" "No attachment please" You have every right to write what you wish and state your wants and needs but as a single girl I find that statement a instant turn off and would click on the next profile. I certainly do not look at every man as a potential long term boyfriend but l do like it that a potential partner may be open to anything developing between us . I'm on a journey too of finding my sexual self, but I'm not closed off to what may happen between myself and anyone I may meet. You rule that out straight away which you are entitled to do but I think you limit your potential playing pool That's just my initial thoughts and as other posters have said, a average bathroom selfie with lack of information about yourself are what I believe also contributes to your lack of responses When you don't get what you want out of life, its time to self reflect and ask how you maybe contributing to that If you view woman as being greedy and then publicly stating as such, well in your case I think you are reaping what you are sowing.
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RHP User
8 years ago
...then remember that if you shoot yourself in foot, it can be a fatal wound! Not so sure calling them greedy is going to help you cause...it makes you sound tragically needy! CM...who is still wondering if calling them names has any merit? Hot biotches...one and all!
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Zarabyfar
8 years ago
Never try to impress me, that appears ego filled and boastful Just try to engage me with genuine interest in more than my female parts or your desire to offload yiur DNA - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I can see why others would be put off by your profile as it merely contains a same ol same ol bathroom selfie, total lack of any sincerity and little to no information about yourself.Plus it's obvious from how you write, and how little you write within your profile, that English is not your first language.Therefore possibly you're not having any luck here because of the wording you're using in your messages to others and in addition, I'm willing to bet there's probably not a shred of sincerity coming across to others in your messages to them or you're mistakenly relying on flirts to try to generate action.
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RHP User
8 years ago
another guy on here who wasn't having any luck, but now women are falling in love with him at the drop of a hat! Maybe you should contact him for some advice...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Your first message should be thoughtful, show that you have read, and absorbed, the profile of the person you are sending it to, and be true to who you are. As Meander said, you wont be everyone's cup of tea, but if you are honest, then people will be able to make that decision for themselves. As most have said above, your profile needs work, as does your opinion of the women on this site, in my opinion...
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RHP User
8 years ago
A prostitute with the size of your wallet.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Mate, That profile is terrible. The women on here aren't just sex crazed zombies. ( ok some yes, but they need stimulation ) They are, from what I've found, very interesting and intellectual. You're up against a swag of ruthless single guys who bombard the girls with messages. Fix the photos, take time to write something a little more endearing, then you might light a spark. Above all, listen the women who've posted above and make yourself more approachable.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Focus on learning something about the other person.... How you word that objective, is entirely up to you.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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bonefide
8 years ago
Mate write these cmoments down 100 times and learn from them. Just try to engage me with genuine interest in more than my female parts or your desire to offload your DNA . so polite, correct and to the point. Well done great comment going to put that up in the pool room as I classic. Bananaboy has it- Yep nail it in seven words. Above all, listen to the women who've posted.
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RHP User
8 years ago
but now I have no idea what since I saw Luck Dragons arse pic in that lingerie...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Definitely work on your profile. One thing I will say though is good on you for having a bathroom selfie. I get so bloody tired of looking at profiles with pictures that resemble a jigsaw puzzle as illustrated below. Pic 1 - Head (tilted up, can't see below the chin) Pic 2 - at wedding or work function, cropped pic with wife or partner (ex or not but old pictures) still partly visible. Don't you love them 👍 Pic 3 - doing something crazy, face distorted, face nor body properly visible in the mayhem 😁 Pic 4 - driving the car with hat and sunglasses, looking cool but still can't see the eyes Pic 5 - now things are starting to crank up. Either a poky tongue pic or a dark just woken up and had a wank pic Pic 6 - duplicate of pic 1 Pic 7 - dick Pic 8 - dick Pic 9 - dick Pic 10 - standing near a random lamborghini he found on the street Now the big reveal, and I honestly haven't been drinking 😂 but this is where we have to join the dots or put the puzzle pieces together to conjur up an image of the complete person OR Just take a bathroom selfie 😉👍 I'd rather that any day. Your written part though could definitely use some work, make it more personal, give us something of who you are, genuine and honest shines through every time. Lack of effort with that just looks lazy and would have most women going for the back arrow. Yes we have a lot of choice, but we spend an insane amount of time weeding through trying to find gems. Any profile that looks like hard work or might potentially waste our time, will most often get passed over. Effort may or may not equal reward but what do you have to lose?
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RHP User
8 years ago
the guy near the lamborghini is probably the rightful owner 😜
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RHP User
8 years ago
I’m with you on Luckdragon. One very distracting Lady in the best possible and most enchanting ways. 😍 BB - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sorry hogging but asked a guy once about a ride in his car 😇 I'm so naughty. The anticipated response came back 'don't have that car anymore'
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thank you so much guys 😘😘 love you all. You guys really opened my eyes 👀. First thing first... I am going to re write my profile.. not to impress but to reflect my true self. - Posted from rhpmobile
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