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What Should a Newbie do??
December 30 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your profile says unattached women....do you mean that you want to emphasise this?..,just write it on your profile ...and add that you are not interested in married or attached women...or visa versa if I have it wrong xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
I just read this post a dozen times and left a little worn patch on my laptop screen and still feel as though I have missed something... or you have. Is there a word missing? If I read this correctly (oh look, I've worn that patch a little more again!). You say your profile states you are interested in married/attached ladies, and your problem is that the only ladies who respond to your messages are married and attached. I'm often accused of being a little bit dismissive of drama and distress, but even on someone elses scale if, that's surely the opposite of a problem!
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Hello everyone, I am quite new at meeting people this way in general. My dilemma in relation to this post is when your profile states that you are interested in attached or married ladies, what can you do to emphasize this - is it just as simple as stating in your general profile description. This is causing issues for me because the only girls/ladies which do respond to my messages tend to be in this category. If anyone could provide any advice regarding to possible changes on my profile in order to make it be better, that would be very much appreciated Errr.... why is this causing you grief? If this is what you want and what you have specified in your profile, why the long face, ? So when the women read what you are searching for and they meet the criteria, then they respond if they are interested. Am I missing something? is this a case of 'be careful what you wish for' or you just greedy?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya79' Your profile says unattached women....do you mean that you want to emphasise this?..,just write it on your profile ...and add that you are not interested in married or attached women...or visa versa if I have it wrong xxFreya Hi Freya79, Thanks for your response. Since I am new to this, I wasn't sure if there are any other methods rather than just restating what I have already selected. Will update profile now to include this. Thanks again Regards, CuriousBoy85
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hello everyone, I do apologise about this - my profile states that I am not interested in attached or married girls. I made a mistake on the original post. Sorry about to the confusion
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi Jean_Gerard, You are write - I miswrote the original posting and reviewing now should have realised that mistake. My profile clearly states not interested in attached girls. Sorry about the confusion
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Hello everyone, I am quite new at meeting people this way in general. My dilemma in relation to this post is when your profile states that you are interested in attached or married ladies, what can you do to emphasize this - is it just as simple as stating in your general profile description. This is causing issues for me because the only girls/ladies which do respond to my messages tend to be in this category. If anyone could provide any advice regarding to possible changes on my profile in order to make it be better, that would be very much appreciated Errr.... why is this causing you grief? If this is what you want and what you have specified in your profile, why the long face, ? So when the women read what you are searching for and they meet the criteria, then they respond if they are interested. Am I missing something? is this a case of 'be careful what you wish for' or you just greedy? Hi Lilyorchid, You haven't missed anything - unfortunately I missed the error on my original forum topic that my profile states unattached. And to answer you query, I am not greedy - just a bit confused about if I set my profile up wrongly. Sorry about the original mistake. Hope you have a Good New Years. Regards, CuriousBoy85
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Hello everyone, I am quite new at meeting people this way in general. My dilemma in relation to this post is when your profile states that you are interested in attached or married ladies, what can you do to emphasize this - is it just as simple as stating in your general profile description. This is causing issues for me because the only girls/ladies which do respond to my messages tend to be in this category. If anyone could provide any advice regarding to possible changes on my profile in order to make it be better, that would be very much appreciated Errr.... why is this causing you grief? If this is what you want and what you have specified in your profile, why the long face, ? So when the women read what you are searching for and they meet the criteria, then they respond if they are interested. Am I missing something? is this a case of 'be careful what you wish for' or you just greedy?
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RHP User
11 years ago
damn it...........
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'snappyfishgirl' Quoting 'lilyorchid' Hello everyone, I am quite new at meeting people this way in general. My dilemma in relation to this post is when your profile states that you are interested in attached or married ladies, what can you do to emphasize this - is it just as simple as stating in your general profile description. This is causing issues for me because the only girls/ladies which do respond to my messages tend to be in this category. If anyone could provide any advice regarding to possible changes on my profile in order to make it be better, that would be very much appreciated Errr.... why is this causing you grief? If this is what you want and what you have specified in your profile, why the long face, ? So when the women read what you are searching for and they meet the criteria, then they respond if they are interested. Am I missing something? is this a case of 'be careful what you wish for' or you just greedy? Darling..........not all are the same......you said most replies were from married men......YES the are......I have the requests too. BUT............not all are the same.........I am not " normal" ?I am only ..........ever ..........interested in wonderful people..............only great people!!!!!honest and kind.......loving and giving .is that greedy?sigh........maybe just hopeful thinking......x
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Another community anouncement..........? Wont say what I wanted to type. I'm starting a 3 month program to achieve instant posting. Nah, on second thoughts,.............%&@# off!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'anywhichway007' Another community anouncement..........? Wont say what I wanted to type. I'm starting a 3 month program to achieve instant posting. Nah, on second thoughts,.............%&@# off! Anywhichway007, If your comment is directed at me, I admitted that I made a mistake when typing this forum topic and apologised previously. If you read above, you would have realised this. Unless you are perfect, I do doubt, I can only reciprocate the exact comment you had wrote to me. Happy New Years
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Thanks for the clarification. I did not check your profile but worked on what you have written in your OP. Lol. Now it makes sense. BTW. like all people here, you will get attention from those you may be interested in and those who you are not interested in. So just enjoy the journey, be grateful you are getting attention as opposed to not at all (normal gripe from men here) and approach/respond to each one as respectfully as you can. Good luck in your rhp journey and keep having fun. Happy New Year. x
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'snappyfishgirl' Darling..........not all are the same......you said most replies were from married men......YES the are......I have the requests too. BUT............not all are the same.........I am not " normal" ?I am only ..........ever ..........interested in wonderful people..............only great people!!!!!honest and kind.......loving and giving .is that greedy?sigh........maybe just hopeful thinking......x I did not say that. I just quoted the OP in my posting. Refer to my post and his post. I suppose I forgot to include apostrophes and I can see your confusion. But the last sentence was in jest hence the emoticon. The nuance which was lost on you. Good for you for knowing what you want and who you want to meet. Good luck and well wishes for the new year. x
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
the last 2 lines that you added that might be considered a free advertisment for your purposes. But then the whole posts reads like a crock of shit to me. Yes, have a great new years Annie
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RHP User
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
To a newbie here..good luck OP xxFreya
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Ignore the haters. If they get pissed off with what you have written with no provocation, that is their issue, not yours. Some bitchiness and nastiness is uncalled for as Freya said. They have their issues to address. There is always a choice for people to skip your post if they don't like it. Advertising is good. It gets the attention you want. Whether via your profile, a message or the forum. They do it, we all do.it and why can't you. Democratic society. This you Will have to learn to put up with, ignore or challenge depending on your care factor. So go ahead and join the forum chorus. Not everybody is nasty and bitchy here. You'll see for yourself. Good luck.
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6exxy
11 years ago
Mate good luck on your search. I have not read your profile but you will always attract people who are simply looking and that includes males. Couples looking for single guys, I say enjoy the ride as it comes along and take some time and look at all your choices.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi OP, Your profile states you are looking for women "who are unattached", and you repeat it in the written section.To me that means attached women writing to you have either not read your profile, or don't respect your wishes. For me both are deal-breakers, and messages from attached members will simply get one of my polite "no thanks" template replies in return. I am a bit confused though. You write: "the only girls/ladies which do respond to my messages tend to be in this category." Why would you write to attached women in the first place if you're not looking for them? Good luck!
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Sweetie. Happy new year. . When you cast a wide net over the pool, you cant be choosy what you pull in when sorting the catch. Lol. An indiscriminate throw of the net drags allsorts. :-p I'm sure the young Op is not that willy nilly with his messages? Or are you OP? ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Hi OP, Your profile states you are looking for women "who are unattached", and you repeat it in the written section.To me that means attached women writing to you have either not read your profile, or don't respect your wishes. For me both are deal-breakers, and messages from attached members will simply get one of my polite "no thanks" template replies in return. I am a bit confused though. You write: "the only girls/ladies which do respond to my messages tend to be in this category." Why would you write to attached women in the first place if you're not looking for them? Good luck! Hi Meander, Sorry about the delay in response - I forgot to follow my own topic :) In regards to your query, I haven't messaged girls which are attached/in a relationship. I have simply reviewed their profile page and once I have seen this left the page.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi everyone, I'm definitely a noob, first timer, but don't hold that against me please (: so anyway I'm looking for someone to explore things with me. I've been dreaming about this for years but only now have had the guts to go through with it! I know you are out there somewhere (: I'm muscular, pretty fit with kind of cheeky rough good looks, I'm having trouble uploading photos but if anyone is interested I can provide no problems.
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