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Watching your boyfriend/husband

January 14 2010

sex

Would you (a straight female) watch a boyfriend/husband of yours having occasional or one-off sex with another woman?  Would you enjoy it?  Would it make you horny? If your answer is "No", then don't bother replying, because we already know that is what most people's answer is. My real question is whether there is anybody who will answer "Yes", and how common/uncommon is it to say Yes? While you're watching, would you touch yourself and masturbate?  Would you get really wet and turned on?  Would you really, really want your boyfriend/husband to fuck you after he's done with the other woman?  Or would you want to jump on him and fuck him? Would you feel jealous but enjoy the jealousy?  Or rather enjoy the satisfaction of having your jealousy eased by having your boyfriend/husband fuck you? I'm not actually seeking anything here, I'm just asking out of curiosity.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Do you have an opinion Ajaccio? Being the devil that I am, my thoughts are that since women only willingly relinquish control of those matters they do not want to control.... and women like to think that they control the sex in a relationship.. you know.. they yield the power of the pussy to co-erce men to do what women want them to do... then your para 2, I suspect, is why nobody has answerd your questoon.... of course... it could simply be that you asked too many questions... lol.  I have seen women sitting back and watching... pretending to be enjoying themselves (with folded arms leaning non-chalantly) watching their guy have his way with someone else... but they did not sit back and do nothing for long. :p   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Ms L here and I can say I definitely get off watching Mr L playing with a girl without me involved. Its a real turn on. Also, amongst our fairly large group of friends it isnt that rare - I know at least 3 other girlfriends/wives who feel the same way.We tend to usually play together with couples or singles but on the occasions that I have had a session with another person without my partner joining in he loves to stand back and watch and I do exactly the same thing when roles are reversed.Does this make me strange lol.. or special :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    YES, yes and yes!   Its very sexy watching my partner (Brae) with another hot girl. WHY? I loove watching him with another girl , I have done this many times now and love the passion of the two, he with another, that ouzzzzes from the senario.   There is NOTHING hotter than watching your partner enjoy themselves. Brae with a consentiing partner is very dominant. I adore watching him dominate another (I love being dominated by him as well) it is devine watching the women he is with relax give themself to him , there is little I enjoy more. For the record no I dont play with boys. I just have no interest. Brae has asked if I would like to on numerous occasions. I continue to enjoy my delicious girlfriends.   So to answer questions ..... a few of them   I don't tend to masturbate......... I just dont if I need to touch I will reach out and do so. I once tried it .........thought not for me, seemed a waste to me!   Of course I get wet and turnt on .........I describe it as live porn! yum What I do also of course depend on my mood at the time, sometimes I will be forceful with the girl myself. Give her instructions, tell her to do things to him that I find attractive!   Yes I often wait till we are again by ourselves and ask him to fuck me !!! OH wow they are yummy times. I find in fact the talking about what he has just done a massive turn on! Brae after encouragement from me also now plays on the odd occasion by himself. Its part of the turn on for me to hear that he has been doing this that gets me all hot and bothered ............ I love him giving me little snippets of what he has been up to.   Ahhh next question , about jealousy ! This has taken many years of demonstrated trust for us to play this way. Has it ever been a rocky road , oh yeah it has on the very odd occasion. But we chat and chat and chat and chat about it, to work out both our needs and to ensure we are both comfortable. So to answer you NO I dont get jealous. I found reading the ethical slut a real eye opener. I can say it has changed the way we interact as a couple for the better.   Wow so at the end ! Its not uncommon. However we also do not know of many males who play by themselves, with full knowledge of thier partner.   miss sarah

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Awwwwhhh Could it be? Yes I think it is! The beautiful and alluring Miss Sarah. What a rare treat and as always so very gracious! Welcome to the forums, Missy.   Hugs and snogs Stalkyboy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    What can can I say, other than very well put......!!!!!   Like a lot of us you have travelled that road & come to the other side.....STRONGER & BETTER for it.   Life can be so much fun   See around......!!!!!!   Brad & Nic.....xxxx     P.S. - Now for the the rest of you   Communication is the Key Trust each Other A far stronger Love for each other lies on the other side, as well as a Hell lot of Fun.....!!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    "If your answer is "No", then don't bother replying, because we already know that is what most people's answer is. "Jesus you're a narrow-minded twat. Not just this post, but so many of them. Do you really believe that just because that's your opinion, that it is the majority?Maybe if you did a street survey, the majority would be "no" but here? Different playing field.But hey, maybe you're on to something.... Do you enjoy watching your boyfriend get off?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I have always said she is the "clever one" ................! yes yes .........also alluring and beautiful.   miss has this very sorted in her head. I am not sure thou I am going to let her know about all the nice stuff you guys have said about her ...he he he     Love care and peace to all sexy swingers   Brae ( the boisterous ) ( not clever )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    ............and to say don't answer "no" pretty much shoves your opinion at people.i would dearly love to know of the number of couples who have SPLIT up due to swinging???  i would kind of reckon a few, as when there's sex involved, feelings become involved and someone always gets hurt.you would both have to be running with the majority of male hormones to not feel some twinge of jealousy when your spouse/partner is being done by someone else or doing someone elsethe caveman surfaces in us all - you would by lying if you claim it didn't

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'HotOzCouple_cc'"If your answer is "No", then don't bother replying, because we already know that is what most people's answer is. "Jesus you're a narrow-minded twat. But hey, maybe you're on to something.... Do you enjoy watching your boyfriend get off?*LOL*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    As long as he ties me up first and forces me to watch him get it on with another women   mmmmmmmmmm huge turn on   funny am single can i buy blow up male dolls who do this hahaha     TIT