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WTF IS WITH PEOPLE ON HERE
December 14 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with you 100%, Kerrie and i have the same arrangement, and each are number 1 in each others lives. there are lots of judgmental people out there and probably a few jealous ones as well.Just another reason to avoid the Chat rooms as far as i can tell.who needs it, life is to be lived!Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
You know... there's apparently lots of bitching going on in the chat rooms... it's what an ugly minded people do for entertainment. I guess they actually think it makes them "look cool"... it makes them feel popular... it makes them feel better about their miserable lives by pointing out what they see as other people's failings... in internet speak... it is called trolling. It's the sport of complete dimwits who are very insecure. Worse, it takes so little in the way of inteligence. If only they know how stupid it makes them look.. but then I suppose they are that stupid. Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi bendoverkitten....You shouldnt have to explain your/partners situation sweety.expecially to people that dont fityour criteria....its got nothing to with them....block em.xoxo mumma
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RHP User
16 years ago
Those people hide in the chat rooms and would never have the guts to actually get out there and meet anyone. Just ignore them or dont go in the chat rooms.
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RHP User
16 years ago
For whatever reason, people tend to be a lot crueller in forums, chat rooms and the like than they are in real life. They seem to think that the Internet gives them the "right" to say things that they'd never say in a million years face to face. They feel they can hide behind assumed identities and judge people for what is said vs what is intended. Sad to say BOK - this is the real world we live in. There is a saying in internet forums "Don't feed the trolls"... if you don't feed them they shrivel up and die like an old mans willie in antartica... You know how good a person you are, your profile clearly spells out what you are and what you want. The same as people here that are married and are "cheating" on their spouse... it's not up to ANY of us to judge what is right or wrong here. There are no laws being broken so it's up to consenting adults what they want to do. Hold your head high, it makes it easier to kick the trolls in the balls ;-) Wayne x
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RHP User
16 years ago
eunuch - you often seem to have an academic-y way of looking at, and pondering things. On this topic, perhaps "A group is its own worst enemy" by Clay Shirky might interest you.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Unfortunately if you want to keep going into the chatrooms and do what you do, you will either have to harden up or learn to block and forget, but both is preferrable lol. Yes, people in there can be cunts and sometimes the pathetic bullshit even comes from people you thought were friends. Yes, it can hurt and bewilder you, but it is part of the rooms wether we like it or not. Cheers, T.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Gaz, well put once again-Sydneyboy, "academic-y" - I love it
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RHP User
16 years ago
Chat rooms on a site like this are for adults. Most people on here use honest about why they are on here. If people don't like that they shouldn't be on here.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Love your honesty. Wish more people were like that.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Essentially - I think most people on this site (including me - will have to update to membership as putting email here would be a no no I guess ;) ) are here about sex. Many would want to contact you about sex (either individually or as a couple) - and that's up to each member. Your situation is fine as is anyone in the same situation (anyone seeking males send me a message lol) - so anyone judging you is simply misguided - or frustrated. If I ever paid up - I'd be proud to contact you - and there'd be no bullshit or games - it would be whatever we wanted it to be :) Curious
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RHP User
16 years ago
i agree with her 110%..........look i even threw in an extra 10%(because shes hot)
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RHP User
16 years ago
that is why I don't go into chat rooms, I feel I'm chatting to teen kids.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'desserts' Those people hide in the chat rooms and would never have the guts to actually get out there and meet anyone. Just ignore them or dont go in the chat rooms.I'm not sure if anyone has suggested blocking the people and/ or reporting them maybe? You won't be able to read what they say if you block them!Surely judging you, bendoverkitten, is hypocritical anyway considering there are many who would merrily judge any and all of us just because we are on RHP regardless of our reasons for being here lol. I'm sure there are people who imagine only sexual deviates would ever consider using an ADULT SEX SITE!Hugs Mrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
dont worry bout others you came on here 2 make yourself happy and if what ya get here makes ya happy then fuck what others think. agree wit greeneye you are a hotty! get in touch if ya want i'm not 1 to judge! pity never seen ya in e& w lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
All I'm wondering is what the heck have I missed???? What could possibly cause a chat room full off swingers on a sex site to be judgemental? Envy or jealously come to mind. Unless to someone's utter surprise a performer was otherwise spoken for, thus causing a large degree of pandemonium? Not being privy to the particulars, I'm just pondering a number of the possibilities. Awaiting enlightenment...
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RHP User
16 years ago
while it may be "your business" as some put it, think of it this way. I know quite a few people on here, some I would class as friends, some degenerates, some players. I have seen many people come & go, have fun, fall in love, marriages fail, marriages begin.........then fail.Why??? It all boils down to one thing........jealousy, wanting your cake & eating it too. One lass I know has obliterated her account as she met a wonderful person on here, fell in love, spent time with him.........he was in love with a married lady he initally met as a couple. He apparently sees her often, with her husbands blessing - in effect becoming the third in their marriage. Will their relationship work if this lady chooses to leave her spouse??? Who knows, but that's where they're headed!! The lass in question has & is going through an awful lot both health wise & copping heaps from her ex & his mates.....she chose to walk with a broken heart, why hang around a guy whose besotted with a married woman??? Yes, we all have choices in life - some marrieds stay that way & don't introduce "competition" into the mix, some have regular fuck buddies & the singles ask why would they jeopardise a solid relationship for the sake of sex??? Good question which I'm sure many people would love answered.Do what you must, but think of the consequences. It usually ends in tears & someone ALWAYS gets hurt, even if you think no one does, they do. I know someone who is utterly crushed because of this situation.
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RHP User
16 years ago
i went into the chat room once or twice.. supposed to be an "adult" chat room they were talking bout some random crap..the only people on cam where guyz wanking themselfs... safe to say i won't be going back any time soon till next time scott
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RHP User
16 years ago
You will always have people judge you no matter what. If these people who decide to critisize all the time need to grow up. We are all adults (well we are suppose to be) but it seems that certain ones just like to act like children.We dont go into the chat area anymore... (we have in the past) but found some to be rude, crude or just there for the perv and nothing more. If they don't like it, its very simple, they leave. No one is forced to be in the Chat room or even to write comments in the forums.Dont judge a book by its cover. If you are in an open relationship ... power to you... as you have trust, communication and understanding with your other half.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Nothing can get you over jealousy except your own attitude to that which you desire. So I reckon, no matter how much you share your desires with another, if you don't really know what you want and why you want it to start with, then it will most definitely end badly. You can always change your mind, but that is a different story... Unbridled hot sex may come with some obligations (..mutual desire..) but it oughtn't come to a messy end... ok, ok, if all goes well, it usually does :-) Unbridle me, mount me, whip me and ride me hard .. and then roll over and smile if was good and you had some fun!
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RHP User
16 years ago
You are who you are !! dont allow what other people say..think and feel impact on the decisions that you make..trust yourself to know that you are a good person and only do what your comfortable with..When people say hurtful things..try not to get mad but instead try to understand that it is their problem to deal with not yours..allow there comments and thoughts to pass u by..understand the behaviour and move on..you'll be a better person for it :P Stay happy :) Violet
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RHP User
16 years ago
i totally agree with the complaining about web cams bit - this is indeed a sex site , and i often wonder what people expect here . I think some people just join for the chat with out even bothering to have a look into the site first . And your right - no body puts a gun to your head and forces you to watch cams any way - yeah well said .
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RHP User
16 years ago
If you want walks on the beach goto rsvp if you want sex goto RHP thats it in a can.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm with YoungExplorers... They hit it on the head. Nothing will crush your expections and hopes for this site like spending five minutes in the chat rooms... They're ok for a bit of a laugh (at them, not with them) but not much more.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree live your life for you not how others think you should live it dont worry about wat other people think its no ones buisness but your own anyway .. Have fun .. HawkiE
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RHP User
16 years ago
Some people spend way too long in the chat rooms and need to gossip about others unfortunately, but this is an adult site with adult ideas and concepts, so people should just accept it or move on If you really want to get tongues wagging, come to one of our parties, see our profile for details and send us a message after all we you only live once ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
People should be congratulating you, not ridiculing you. Definately high fives for you guys. I don't go to the chat rooms, cos the talk happens way to fast for my fingers to reply, but maybe a new chat room could be, no typing, just watching naked couples have fun. I could definately keep pace with that.
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