M46
WHAT DO WOMEN WANT???
September 25 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think u gotta have a bit more attitude to ur photos and profile, its wat attracts alot of girls if a guy has a hot attitude i drop 2 my knees hehehe.... so mayb sex ur profile up a bit more? take sum more body shots or "poser" shots lol thats my opinion..
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ah..I think you have just asked the 64 thousand dollar question!That's like asking what's the best flavour of icecream!! Everyone has their likes and dislikes!!!But for me...I like a witty profile...confident but not arrogant...cheeky but not sleazy....you get what I mean!To make a comment on your profile...I would suggest you use the yellow singlet pic as your main...you look nice and friendly in that one! Oh...and remove the line "So come and say gday I would love to meet or have a chat with you no matter what you look like!!! "..that one sounds like youre saying...even if youre a dog and nowhere near as goodlooking as me...i still will chat to you coz thats the kinda guy i am. lol!Us females are a funny bunch! We read between lines....and sometimes see stuff that isnt even there!!!!Good luck with your search!Just my opinion....BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
your profile is ok, not bad but nothing to make it stand out of the pack either. For example you say you like to make people laugh, a lot of people say that, but their profiles are anything but funny (ok, granted, i did smile when I saw the pic of a stuffed toy on your head). What I'm trying to say is you could have a whole list of adjectives of your most desirable personality traits but most people aren't going to pay any real attention to that unless you show evidence of it. Also, you're writing to the beautiful women on this site, and it stands to reason they're going to be deluged with messages. I mean something like a ridiculous 50 or so messages a day. The men out number the women as it is, 10 to 1, and men being visual creatures, most of them want someone beautiful, so raise that ratio to 100 to 1. So unless her full time job is to sit at the computer all day and night answering messages, she's going to get back logged and unfortunately a lot are always going to fall through the cracks, regardless of how awesome the man thinks he is. So whatever way, whatever thing a guy has to do to stand out from the pack, yet remain true to himself is always an advantage. It's an unfortunate reality that most men have to work hard to get any where on here unless they're super lucky and/or smart. Personally, I think most men would get more success pursuing other avenues to meeting women.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Guys need to spruce up their profiles and pics...I mean seriously..Just a cock pic! Don't do it for me...Have a cpl of nice body shots on your main profile and face pic in your PG if you don't want it on main. Too many guys here think a cock pic is going to get the girls attention... P.S..I am re-doing my profile over the next few days and pics..hehe..I need to update mine too!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Good guys come last, are you the middle sentence? who do you want to impress, beautiful girls?, most don't know a decent fuck from a stuffed duck? Really, if you want to head butt the wall, impress,but........... just be your self, grab some ones balls and fuck them all, surely after you finish having all that none committal, answer to no one,sex while you smile smile smile....the girl of your desires will stick, if not........ dammit keep going
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorry but I really am that shallow. I base 99% of my msg replies on pics. think I have only eva replied to 1 or 2 msgs from guys just because there msg was good.
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RHP User
16 years ago
the words in the profile and the photo mean jack to me but for some its everything therefore ...did you say: meet or have a chat no matter what you look like, come on now have some standards.Part time modelling, are you sure as two of the three photos are no good.Work with children get it off here, we are on a swingers site remember. Conversate conversate then you will get better. Chat to girls miles away when you got that down pat chat to the locals. And hunt you got the outfit for it, I see it in the only photo I like of you.Love and kisses Minnie
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'd agree with the other woman on this one... you need to change your photo ! Your main shot just doesn't do it for me but your yellow singlet warrants more attention. While your profile is fine... there's lots of profiles very similar (I get almost identical ones everyday)... the one thing that makes a guy stand out to me is the MESSAGE he personally writes ! If a guy simply sends a flirt, I probably won't respond (I get WAY TO MANY). If a guy takes time to send me a message, I always read it. How I respond is based purely on what he says in that message. The more in depth, the better. Some of the ones I've enjoyed receiving lately have described a particular scenario they'd like to be in with me. They're not rude or crude but sensually written... I've actually been turned on by reading some guys messages ! I also like it when it's clear that a guy has read my profile and says something in his message about what I've written. Good luck ! (It's like Tattslotto... some one has to win. If you don't submit your entry, you never stand a chance !!!) Hugs, Ms Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with what all the other girls have said thus far. Def change main profile pic to the one in the yellow shirt. Not saying that you look weird but for me, if a man looks scary, I probably won't give him a chance. And totally agree with standing out from the crowd. So how does one stand out when he is among thousands?? My suggestion would be that before you message a girl, make sure you take the time to thoroughly read her profile. It will only piss her off if she is looking for people for example in QLD and your in Perth. She's automatically going to think either your an ignorant bastard for not reading her profile or just plain stupid. You don't want to be either of those!! Secondly, if you have something in common (according to what's written in her profile) bring those common interests to her attention. Asking a question about something she mentioned in her profile may get you a reply message. Most people will answer a question they have been asked. Thirdly, don't contradict yourself. If you say in your message that your looking for a relationship too, make sure your profile says that you are also looking for a relationship. If she reads your profile (and she probably will) and you have written that your looking for casual sex, she's going to think your a liar and disregard you immediately. A few suggestion for, hope these help.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am one of those guys, i consider myself attractive to look at, I am 6 foot 5 tall, athletic build, well endowed, giving luver and funny as hell. yet, i never ever get a response? where to form here for the nice guys?
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tamworthguy46
16 years ago
Australians all let us rejoice for we are young and free, with golden soil and wealth for toil .........blaa blaa etc..... I don't know mate your guess is as good as mine........? Some of ladies on here are the same as the guys....they say they want this and that.....and they want something completly different .....? Your profile reads ok to me.....maybee the modeling bit,is a bit to much......but you do have a strong jaw at a certain angle. Good luck anyway mate.....Bottoms up as thy say !
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RHP User
16 years ago
I love your profile... especially the 8-9 inches you say you carry ;-) i agree the yellow singlet pic would be great as your main... Oh and the other thing wrong with your profile..... it says you're in WA!!! Whats with that?? :P
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RHP User
16 years ago
I thnk a picture of your dick would be a good start... well... from my perspective... hehe..... just saying. Incidently, I know how unpopular that is with some people around here... But whenever I post a pic of my dic my profile gets viewed around twice as often as when I don't..... and I have an average kind of dick.. not a great big whopping monstrous cock like yours... hehe... and I guess while people are there looking wonderously at your cock, they might read what you have to say about yourself..... so the first thing to do is to get 'em through the front door using a good window display showing off some of your featured assetts, whatever they may be... and then entice peeps with your grace and style, wit and charm, your kink and quirk, or whatever it is ~ really doesnt matter I guess.. no matter what you say will give some clue to others what you are about... Sure plenty of people will keep on moving... but maybe there will be one that does't... one that is interested enough to want to know more about you. Yellow singlet??? Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
OK.. I'm just toying with ya. I love how women get on here and try to tell an obviously handsome guy how to improve his profile... without reading the question. Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
There isnt some magical formula go get girls to respond, despite any "advice" they may give you. Having said that I think HotAzIce replied to one of my emails once even though I am probably the opposite of her type so I appreciate that.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well I messaged AustraliaBoy80 yesterday..With a nice message inviting him to my dinner party in Perth next Saturday..He looked at my profile last night..Complains on here and has not got the manners to reply ..ppffttt. So you complain about this so called nice guy image but don't reply to a nice message?? ppfft Lots of laughter from sweetpetite41
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RHP User
16 years ago
dude youre looking for true love. you wont find it here. trust us.
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NortyMan1
16 years ago
Yes - thats a very difficult question - if we knew that we would have to be shot - I really dont think women actually really know what they want - not being mean - i think its a fact - I have know a couple and when you think you know what they want - it all changes and your in trouble for not knowing - they say its a female perogative (speelling ?? - have had a couple of scotches while watching dvd of Michael Buble on my new tv / home theatre in bed) - I had a mate down the Gold Coast who was a drop kick - on the dole for 10 years plus, however because he had dreads and was seen a bit of a bad boy - he went out with some really attractive and girls in really good jobs and yet he had never held down a job for all those years and then a guy has to compete with females who find this sort of fool with heaps of attitude and no future so so attractive - so what they want who knows - I think they want it all and more Just my thoughts at this moment - and yet i should be able to change my mind right Norty
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well like sweetpetie... you are not alone in not getting replies.... I can tell you how many this week that have not replied...... and once you are outside the age bracket... it doesn't matter what pics, which way you write your profile, likes, dislikes.... it makes no difference... no one is going to look at it..... and over the last month.... I have had more men look at my profile... so go figure..... You cannot please everyone... and sometimes not even one :) Thats my rant, I'll get off my soap box now and go back to the TV Mark
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think it would be a boring old world if we were all the same and so very predictable. Well some women want a man that can spell, doesn't feel the need to show a picture of his backside or his tatoos. A man that can figure out in his own words a way to write his own profile NOT a templated version. A man that actually reads your profile and does respond personally, once again in his own words this alone means he has come level of education and has put some thought into it. Some things just aren't meant to be easy boys sorry.....but for all those lazy males out there, there is plenty of easy on here and you don't have to look very hard :-P SB70
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RHP User
16 years ago
OMG!!! You mean that the GUYS on here can be just as hypocritical as the GIRLS???? NAAAA... don't believe it! :P LOL
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RHP User
16 years ago
the above was a message to Sweetpetite! I did type your name hun... musta got lost in the cyberwebs :P
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RHP User
16 years ago
hehe.... Sweet. You aren't supposed to do that! You don't play fair.. hehe.... besides.. when a pretty lady sends me a message I get all nervious.. and have to have a medicinal drambui to settle the rush of blood out of my head before I can possibly formulate any kind of coherent reply. Some of the ladies on here can make my head spin. Both of them simultaneously in some instances. Sophie for example, has only got to cruise passed my profile and I all ... kind of ..... messy in my giggly bits.. hehe. Yo, I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,So tell me what you want, what you really really want,I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,So tell me what you want, what you really really want,I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really really really wanna zigazig ha. SEE? How's a guys supposed to make any sense from that? hehe Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have no idea what the fuck im looking for....but i'll know it when i find it.Just like i will know when someone ISNT what im looking for..be it for something casual or something more permanent.Just my opinion....BJxxxOh...and if you gonna write that you have 8-9"..then you had better damn well have a pic to back that claim up!!!Too many guys measure in rhp inches...which for some are almost double a normal inch!!! lmfao!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
and good to see he took the majorities advice and made the yellow singlet pic his main.pfft...typical male.....ask a question then completely ignore the answer...lmao!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Awwww....I do have to let ya know...The age of people coming to the dinner party. 25-42....42 being me. All hotties.!! YUM!! I do hope to make this a reg event....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Now I got that fucking song stuck in my head.....AGAIN!!Damn you!!!!Anyone else get the feeling that the composer of this post isnt reading it anymore?? lol!And SillyBear....the words..."nail" and "head" come to mind.....good work! ;)Just my opinion....(as always)BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
ummmmm...yep MissBJ............And we thought he was a nice guy.....ROFL..
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Guys I am really thankfull for everyones input it was much appreciated. I have come to the conclusion based on the responses that real life is much easier for me than trying to convey any sort of message on this website so im outta here. I tried it one way then the other way and neither worked. i hope everyone gets what they are looking for. Cheers it was fun!
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RHP User
16 years ago
The poor, deluded fool (and I mean that in the nicest possible way)If he thinks real life is any easier than it is in here...then he is sadly mistaken.One thing about here....if you start chatting to someone...and they start talking shit....you can just stop chatting.Out in the real...it can sometimes be a bit harder to sever ties.Anyway....good luck to him...good luck to me....good luck to everyoneI hope we all get what we are looking for.Just my opinion...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
But ..but....He was suppose to be my new nice guy friend.....Where are those tear lil emocons when you need one ..LOL.. Yep! All the best luck to us all......xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx sweetpeite41 I think I need a fresh tissue now..the one in my hand is soggy...lmao!!
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