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Variety versus Comfort
July 08 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
I will probably choose that ongoing exclusive relationship. Hmm I wonder what its like. I have tried it but got bored so if I find someone that wants to explore different aspects of a sexual relationship with me, can accept my high needs, damn well excites me all the time, you know what I might give it a shot. Who am I kidding I find that guy and I am not letting him go. I think if he was to walk through my door then I would have no need for anyone else. Thats what the various casual relationships,the swingin is for me - a way to explore my differing needs so to find one who is willig to do it all with me would be the holy grail. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
lolz Missy.... Maybe you didnt notice... but people around here generally want the luxury of enjoying both of the alternatives you posit. And why shouldn't we! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ms SI think my proposed answer was quite eloquently presented in your question.Adding fifteen or twenty years to the relationship may alter your perspective.Maybe little exciting sorties out of a balanced secure and loving relationship is the best.Great to hear it is working out.Mr. SR
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RHP User
15 years ago
I would suggest that in a perfect world...the choice would not have to be made. The taste of adrenaline is sweet and the high...uncomparable. The satisfaction of the familiar comforts of commitment ...unequaled. Given the ultimate of choices, I would hope to find both...in one person. | Until that day...the quest shall continue. I wish you well on your journey.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Why not have both, its called swinging! Cheers Nev....having your cake and eating it to.
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RHP User
15 years ago
i would take that one special person anyday over screwing many trying to find the one i might not be looking for the one at the momment but if he came along then id be gone no swinging for this little fat duck roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love the chase, sex is always exciting the first time and lets face it, success regularly gives you confidence which lends itself to further success. The longer your with someone the better you know them and the more understanding you are of their needs and desires. If it's meant to be it will be and nobody should ever have to work on a relationship, it works because you want it to and you're compatible.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We would never give up "us" for anything and from time to time one or both of us gets over the thought of playing around, but then we get to fantasising and we're dragged back in!
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RHP User
15 years ago
We all seek companionship like Roxxy is so honest in saying. The immediate satisfaction and ego boost we all get from this single (or swinging) life is exhilerating and exciting, but it is ultimately shallow and largely meaningless. Nothing wrong with that i guess. Long term immediacy is just filling a void that we dont want to acknowledge outwardly. Peace, Jum
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quality should always rule over quantity, but having said that, it is important not to settle for anything but the best whan it comes to acheiving quality.If it means i continue to wade through mediocrity in the pursuit of exellence, then so be it, and i will have fun doing it. Understanding what you want, and not just accepting average due to becoming tired of pursual will mean you find yourself back where you started in the future. (absolutely no offence intended to anyone i may have met during my time on here)
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RHP User
15 years ago
... ..having the best of both sometimes feels a little greedy and indulgent... we have each other, and have had for 15yrs, and now for the past year have also had others.... it has been fun, exciting, exhausting at times, and also very confusing , confronting, a huge turn on, and a million new feelings and different discussions over the past year. We seem closer now than ever before, and the thrill of knowing that we are enjoying all this together is at times unbelievable... Mrc can see it lasting for the rest of our lives...i see it as lasting until 'bits' start getting a little too droopy... ...have a cosy night all...msC
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RHP User
15 years ago
The planets have aligned for you Miss Saturn.. It is great to hear you have found what you wanted..Now for the rest of you get out there and get invloved ..I want what she is having !!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'customer69' I can see all the classy fellas getting out their best outfits, polishing up their shoes and their manners, just for you :) I think you deserve to be treated well, by someone who knows how special you are !Trish thank you Trish xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hello miss saturn, im so happy 4 u may all your dreams come true! For me playing can be fun and very educational in many ways but nothing is as good as the real feeling of love n uninhibited sex! congratulations love jensta xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Miss Saturn You have something special and you deserve it!!!! Honey I have found it 4 times in this life and will die happy lol Cherish what you have, he obviously adores you..... Playing is temporary and fun yes, just seek what you want and makes you happy. Feels good then be there! xxx
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