Use the term slut or not?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Yeah. I am a slut. Degrading. Yeap. So what. I am what I am.   Hugs Gazza

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I feel like I am a slut sometimes. I like to look like one. Men and women can be sluts. Spoken at the right time is erotic. Mars

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  have a read of 'the ethical slut', pretty much the bible for swinging/open relationships. in it, they assert that the term slut should be taken back and used in a positive manner. i agree wholeheartedly!let you slut flag fly!mr country

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I personally think the word slut is just offensive , if i chose to be with someone privately, i do so privately with consent and cleanly .I think the word slut is/was  thrown  at women who did the exsact opposite of this . Although today younger male's seem to take it as a badge or a right i am a slut and... sort of      i agree it  my  be used by people who do not understand that others are leading different lifestyles.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  The FIRST definition that Urban Dictionary gives for the word "Slut" is........ " a woman with the morals of a man "  http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=slut   Go figure???   Personally, I find the word quite erotic, but still hesitate to actually use it! Mainstream society would define it as a derogatory term, and it is used as such. I find such synonyms as "Skank, Ho or Slag" to sound much more offensive! It's the best it can get, in my opinion, when you know someone so intimately that they can absolutely "slut it out" with you   God bless all sluts, whores and Mothers, I reckon!   G

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Mr Rough Here.I would NEVER dream of calling Mrs Rough a slut in day to daY life,(Even in jest) for fear of losing parts of my anatoy, to which i have grown quite fond.However, in the heat of the moment, she loves to be called this, and much more.I believe it all as to do with the trust developed within a relationship.If you have developed your relationship, and there is trust, then in the right mood, you can do it.If however you are in a fairly new relationship, i would tread carefully, because i can almost garuntee, she WILL get them both with the one swift kick ; )

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Well interesting subject - i would not even consider calling my partner or 'friends' by that term. My ex was certainly in the category we are talking about and she did not care whether i was in agreement or not. I think it comes down to the moment and the comfort zones we are comfortable with. It is only a term and it is up to the individual(s) as to how they interpret it. I peronsally think it is a term that is thron around at anyone who is trying to experience.....

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Good Lord! Now that is a superb subject to broach as it can be extended to so many other words. In so far as we are concerned, we both wholeheartedly embrace the term as one of that belongs to our erotic times. We do not find it offensive at all if used in the appropriate context. In fact, we believe the usage of the term to be an absolute turn on as it allows us in some way to enter the realm of role play and whilst we are very well adjusted in our everyday life, we enjoy immensely letting go of the established conventions when it comes to our intimate life. Perhaps one could assert that it comes down to your level of confidence and respect for one another. Should you have earned my respect, then Hearing you call me a slut would make me smile and turn me on. I know you you call me a slut precisely because you are enjoying my body, or my dirty mind in the heat of the moment. So, in a nut shell: We are two sophisticated beings with a clear slutty side that we shall nurture for years to come.loveS & Sxx

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