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Threesome for the first time
November 21 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
That is patient and can guide you guys through it. Be sure that both of you if at anytime feel uncomfortable to stop and speak up. That being said if you get an experienced one that has no clue, that may or may not be the first and last time for a threesome. So try to pick the right folks and do not rush things.
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Haleakala
8 years ago
You say you don't know what to do it expect but have you imagined what may happen? Surely you have some idea what you would like out of it otherwise what would make you want to do it? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
My wife and I chose to start with as escort, which we've since done a few times and would happily do again. For us this was the easiest way to arrange, test out what we liked and wanted and get an experience we would remember. My wife and I spoke at length before hand about boundaries for each other and what we wanted which really helped 'break us in' to sharing ourselves. Each time was excellent for different reasons and we both were able then to get a better understanding of what we wanted next. Being time poor was also a factor as we were keen to book and enjoy without hassle etc. Each to their own, yet aside from how you make it happen.....make it happen under your circumstances and be clear on what everyone wants and gets out of it. Talk with your partner about boundaries and communication before during and after, but most importantly enjoy and be prepared for some awkwardness which is easily laughed off!
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Zarabyfar
8 years ago
You're profile says your partner is more experienced, so surely you have discussed this with him based on his experiences seeing as he is clearly guiding you into the unknown Something isn't right with this. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I would be very interested in knowing how FF practiced safe sex ? In your experience was the escort using protection when engaged in FF action ( like a dental dam?) Mr LAL and I have also discussed this as a possible for our first play as I have still been too reserved to play as yet due to no real idea of what will float my boat. We were thinking that an escort may be able to ease the pressure - if I'm a total dud then hopefully she will be professionally bound not to admit it to my face 🤣 Thanks Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile
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HotNightsGC
8 years ago
If you’ve got a clear idea as the woman of what you’d like from the experience, then you’ll definitely have a better time than those that don’t. Do it for yourself first and your partner second. Very important! Our rule of thumb is that I (Ms HNP) always chooses the woman. The women exchange messages and organise the meet and then everyone meets for drinks first to see if the connection is there. Be sure to exchange ideas and boundaries to avoid awkward moments and just let the night play out in a relaxed way. We’ve found if the two women have similar or comparative experience sometimes it doesn’t work or the night stalls. I agree with the other comments that a confident (not cocky) bisexual woman is a better choice for your first time. Good luck in finding your awesome lady 🤞😃 Ms HNP. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
go with the flow, but be sure you have really thought this through.....god knows jealousy can be a major factor...... ive done hundreds and sometimes its caused major havoc between couples.........be very careful and make sure yr lady knows shes number 1
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RHP User
8 years ago
Only had one mmf three some and it was great wouldn’t mind trying ffm that would be fun - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Livingandloving2' I would be very interested in knowing how FF practiced safe sex ? In your experience was the escort using protection when engaged in FF action ( like a dental dam?) Mr LAL and I have also discussed this as a possible for our first play as I have still been too reserved to play as yet due to no real idea of what will float my boat. We were thinking that an escort may be able to ease the pressure - if I'm a total dud then hopefully she will be professionally bound not to admit it to my face 🤣 Thanks Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile Hi Livingandloving2, dental dams were offered yet we decided against. Whilst there is never a guarantee, we chose to spend time with the more expensive escorts whom were very clean and professional. Condoms for sex though. It really was a great way for us to explore this fantasy and as you say, they were professional and complimented where appropriate and made us both feel relaxed and important. Only negative for us (if you can call it that) is we like everyone to genuinely enjoy themselves and come. We did mention this to those we shared time with that we would love them to come too, yet understood that this is not always going to happen for them, nor was it necessary for a couple of them when we asked.....they very much focused on us which as a first time, was perfect!We chose this approach also as we were more on the shy side when it comes to others. Good luck
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RHP User
8 years ago
Absolutely love it. If all agree, no jealousy and if no one is pushed in doing it then it can be an amazing sexual experience. What I found is if it’s a ffm it’s better not to go to hard and fast on the male, let him enjoy slowly and let him feast with his eyes and hands. Girls have to be able to play together too or it’s to much for the guy to please both women. (most cases of course) My hubby always pleases the women first with help from the women. You don’t want someone to be left behind without an orgasme, specially if it’s your woman. Don’t think to much, go with the flow, enjoy It.... xxx
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thank you very much for that feedback 💋 Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thank you everyone for the feedback It has helped a lot Does anyone have any ideas for rules that be good to have for a first timer? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Very personal I'd say. We said no kissing or full sex first time, yet if this changed during we would let the other know. Once we were enjoying ourselves though we both went with the flow and those initial boundaries were dropped as everyone felt comfortable and at ease. You definitely need to talk about what each person wants to happen, is comfortable for the other to do but more importantly what one is not comfortable to do or see their partner do. Talk......lots and talk also about why you are doing it and what you want to get out of it as a couple and individual. Enjoy and also talk afterwards and be open. - Posted from rhpmobile
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bubbles_n_flash
8 years ago
Have the third person coming in with lots of experience may not always be helpful. We had a 19 year old woman join us (our second FMF) just before Christmas and she was experienced far more than we could imagine. She brought with her expectations of us that we couldn’t provide being only very new to the game. That being said our other two FMF threesomes have been very fun (one with someone with little experience and one with someone with much more). I think the key is that no one should have expectations of how things should go, a goal or a hangup. If everyone just goes with the flow and is honest about what they want and how they feel then you should be fine. Ps. We think that MFM are fun too, no one needs to be bi or experimental to enjoy these things. We think it’s only fair for each of us to experience two of the opposite sex. You may find it more comfortable to start here - we did. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm sure you have your own ideas and rules as to what would work for each of you , maybe you could sit down and write down what would be ok for each of you and talk about it and then take what you feel ok with as to what posters share. Quoting 'flyboysgirl89' Does anyone have any ideas for rules that be good to have for a first timer? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ditto to the idea of an escort.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Communication is vital and important to over come any jealousy fears. It is a challenge to see your partner kissing or having fun with someone of the oppisite sex so talk through these before you undertake one!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Agree with Mischa (again)..noting the challenge of watching your partner in that way is paradoxically the most terrifying but simultaneously erotically inspiring sight imaginable....assert your desires.. dont be small...x
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RHP User
8 years ago
We havent played much as a couple but have enjoyed what we have shared and thats what we do we share an experience not watch the other have the fun!
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